Incall vs. Outcall

I personally only do incalls. I like to be in my own environment. My concern about getting a permanent incall is the amount of clients I get who end up stalking me. How do you not end up with guys randomly stopping by to see you?? Originally Posted by TabooTanner

Don't EVER work out of a place you live...EVER! It only takes one time for some idiot to go running their mouth, or setting you up! If you get an incall, make sure he damn well knows that's all it is...an incall. You can do a shared thing like I do, where no provider is allowed to be there after her date is up. You have 3 or 4 girls only seeing 2 guys a week or so in many different locations. This limits the traffic factor, and keeps nut jobs from showing up.

Also, I don't see anyone at my incalls without real info. If they don't want to up the info. I will rent a room.

I simply cannot get over how many providers who claim to be so smart use their home with minor children living there! WTF...that's suicide! A simple misdemeanor turns into a child services issue if you do this..for the provider AND THE CLIENT! How stupid are neighbors really? I am so sure that eventually someone is not going to call the cops and say, "Hey so and so at 122 hooker street has like 3 guys a day, 5 days a week at her house once the kids leave for school" LOL.

We are not talking one of two clients they may have known for years, but anybody and everybody just to save money. Then they want to brag about how much money they make and how in demand they are lol. Girls making money, can afford a 4 star hotel or a condo for work purposes I would think.

SNL, I think I get it. Only use that incall for your appointments but sleep elsewhere. But then aren't you just paying double in the end? I get a lot of guys who say they stopped by my hotel room one night and I wasn't there.. a week or so after seeing them. What provider stays in the same room for more than 2-3 days? Had guys ask me if I got the gift they sent me, again to a hotel room. I don't understand their logic honestly.

Well I don't work in the same state I live in but when I tour should I get another room?

Y'all know me. It's outcall only. Been burned NCNS on incalls, and refuse to be out that kind of money, time, effort and gas, etc. If I'm NCNS'd at my hotel, the only thing I'm out is my time.

@London--It's not a matter of luxury. It's the matter of NCNS. Plus the number of times the lady has canceled a date (that makes it NOT an NCNS, but I've still set aside the time, which is now blown). And the incall thing normally comes with the 2-call system, which I don't trust. The second call almost never comes. And I'm sitting in the middle of nowhere waiting for the phone to ring, and the lady who is supposed to call is just laughing at this "joke."

@SNL--You're right, my hotel will not have the toys. lol. But it is a matter of making the date happen.

Bottom line: I know a lot of ladies are incall only. Most often, they cite safety as the reason. But I'm outcall only for the reasons stated. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Charles, I've only been burned once with the two call system, and that one wasn't that bad at all. I had a date set up and was about to head out. The second call came much sooner than expected as she had to call to cancel. Not a big deal. I had to scrambled but was able to fall back on Plan B.

BTW, who says she has to make the second call? If you have her number, there's no reason not to call her when you are in the vicinity.

Well I don't work in the same state I live in but when I tour should I get another room? Originally Posted by TabooTanner

Baby, if you don't live there I don't see that as a problem. Just don't tell guys how long you're going to be in the same hotel. You can always play the upgrade card as well he he.

SNL, I think I get it. Only use that incall for your appointments but sleep elsewhere. But then aren't you just paying double in the end? I get a lot of guys who say they stopped by my hotel room one night and I wasn't there.. a week or so after seeing them. What provider stays in the same room for more than 2-3 days? Had guys ask me if I got the gift they sent me, again to a hotel room. I don't understand their logic honestly. Originally Posted by TabooTanner

Yeah I do pay double but its worth it to me to keep this life and real life separate. I only go over there about 2 days a week so if I were to have any issues its catch me if you can Its always a different routine, but I'm super safe and extremely cautious.
That's to funny about the guy stopping by a week later, who does that??

I prefer incall. It's just easier for me. I like being in my own element and having everything that I need available to me. However, my incall isn't where I actually live. I have two condo's in this city one for "work" and one for living. If I didn't have two places I would strongly be in favour of outcall.

I prefer incall. One i find it makes the provider more comfortable. Two it allows me the opportunity to check out the surroundings and determine to proceed or not

[quote=Thatdude;1779460]I prefer incall. One i find it makes the provider more comfortable. Two it allows me the opportunity to check out the surroundings and determine to proceed or not[/quote

I really perfer an outcall, but that is not always possible but will bail if the incall has a bad feeling been there and dont want to go back.

I understand your issues because you actually go out and pay for a hotel...just as many providers do. If I ever ncns a guy, he would get that room money back I can assure you. It's never happened in over 3 years though, but it would be more likely if I were going to him. Car wreck, traffic, parking, etc. can all be cause for running late, and I am one who likes to be right on time.

It seems incall would be better for you in this instance being it would be HER money down the drain if she flaked? You are out time and gas money, but if you booked a hotel room and she didn't show, you would be out a lot more. Not to fear Charles..if you ever come to nola, I will serve you a 5 course meal overlooking the lake! Originally Posted by London Rayne

Actually, since I hobby on while on business, the company picks up the tab. It is not unreasonable that I might make it to Nola and I'll take you up on that 5 course meal. You know the saying...the way to a man's heart is through his stomach. lol

Charles, I've only been burned once with the two call system, and that one wasn't that bad at all. I had a date set up and was about to head out. The second call came much sooner than expected as she had to call to cancel. Not a big deal. I had to scrambled but was able to fall back on Plan B.

BTW, who says she has to make the second call? If you have her number, there's no reason not to call her when you are in the vicinity. Originally Posted by Cpalmson

Yeah, I make the second call, but she never, ever picks up. Kind of hard to close that deal if you're sitting at the corner of Main and First and can't get any closer.

Most Of The Time Im Too Scared To Do Outcalls I Prefer Incalls Im More Comfortable In My Own Settings, Though I Have Done Outcalls To Clients Ive Known A While

So, everyone that said incall, do you do morning sessions? See, even if I liked the place and got comfortable, there is 0% chance I'm going to go see a girl in the middle of the night, wear myself out, then want to get up and leave. But... I could definately start my day that way!

So, everyone that said incall, do you do morning sessions? See, even if I liked the place and got comfortable, there is 0% chance I'm going to go see a girl in the middle of the night, wear myself out, then want to get up and leave. But... I could definately start my day that way! Originally Posted by Doc Holliday

Im pretty sure most do, the average time request I would say would be 11am-2pm. ( for me anyway)
Best lunch break ever I'm sure

I don't do outcalls period, unless I seriously know the guy and even then it won't ever be at a house he resides in. All these guys whining about not wanting to show a provider an ID, but they will take her right back to the very address that's in their damn name with their car parked in the driveway lol. Priceless!

I have invested a lot of money in being able to provide 3 incalls at home, so why waste them by going out? Hotels suck and are too much of a hassle, unless I am already planted there for 2 plus days. I also don't like the way most men keep a boudoir...it's more like a porn set with bright lights, and clothes everywhere. No thanks!

If you think even a 5 star suite is better than an upscale HOME, you're sadly mistaken. I like to offer my clients a large amount of play room and that usually is far beyond a measely 1200 sq. ft. suite...the smallest place I offer is still right at 2500 sq. ft. Incalls provide the comforts of home with full kitchens, dining, living, balconies, waterfront etc. I can't exactly cook a 3 hour dinner in a hotel room without a lot of extra hassle.

I have been to some rather nice hotels, but for any less than 2k (which I would never spend on hobby excursions), it's nothing compared to my incalls.

I also provide a driver service so if you were to get drunk as stated above, you would still not have to worry about driving. Originally Posted by London Rayne

Wow, can <b>I</b> book a session? I want dinner and a photoshoot on the waterfront included though. LOL

waterfront... I can't exactly cook a 3 hour dinner... Originally Posted by London Rayne

sex on the beach and dinner?!? I hope you come from a long line of creole chefs? I'm in! Pencil me in this spring for crawfish season, pls!