Being undesirable sucks

Ok I now second the motion that this thread is the most confusing and jumbled mess of a set of posts I have seen. Wow let’s just keep the insanity going. Give the guy a few laughs at least. He may be laughing about his original post already as sounds like he may have been lit and therefore down when he posted anyway.
I have no idea what vulvas post above means. I think he’s lit now as well!

Hey LIL ENOS how is it hanging

Where is BIG ENOS? He fall off the treadmill again Originally Posted by Vulva

What's up BARE???

Big Enos had a recent health scare but is recuperating nicely. I'll tell him you asked about him. Please keep him in your prayers for his full recovery.

I've got no problems getting laid lol I just enjoy the thrill. But I'm a picky sob that will also never pay high prices.

Interesting take. This hobby is just that... a hobby. It's not that serious. I think the majority guys doing this are just here to have fun with no strings attached. It's a transaction. You're paying for someone's time, company, and services. When it ends, it ends. Sometimes true friendships can spawn from these interactions. Often times it will not. That's the nature of this hobby. If you're looking for any sort of validation from providers, then that's your first mistake. Enjoy it for what it is and go work on yourself. Originally Posted by Barack Obama

This 100%

Most guys that hobby are undesirable. Originally Posted by bigdickbigmoney

Wrong, some have high libido or fetishes.

Whether its young men that can't get laid, or older men that are in dead bedroom relationships, its all the same: women do not find them truly desirable. Originally Posted by bigdickbigmoney

Wrong, wives tap out beyond a point.

In some cases, like mine, even escorts find some men undesirable. Originally Posted by bigdickbigmoney

Wrong, they desire money. Looks could bring some extras. Good looks and bad attitude will get you kicked out. Decent looks, good attitude, good hygiene and money take you far.

I'll give you an example. If a lady that is known for providing BBFS as an option does not even ask you if you want a cover or no, and just sticks one onto you, it means even she does not even pretend to desire you. That is beyond brutal and can ruin a man's self esteem. Originally Posted by bigdickbigmoney

Wrong. Its all random. Hygiene and attitude is more important.

In the case above, if the escort truly desired the man in any way, she would ask him if he wants a cover or not if she provides that. Being confident or whatever doesn't work if there's no spark. You're either attractive or not. Generally if multiple women find you unattractive, even the escorts will find you unattractive and undesirable. Originally Posted by bigdickbigmoney

Wrong, its about being generally healthy, good hygiene, and good attitude.

To the guys who say stuff like "who cares bro. I'm just trying to get a nut in bro." you are delusional as hell. You are coping because you know that women don't find you sexually attractive. You justify it in your mind that you're their for your own benefit when deep down you know you are just lonely. But women do not truly desire you and even escorts don't fake the desire. Originally Posted by bigdickbigmoney

Wrong. For every man out there, there is a woman. And for every woman out there, there is a man.

Its over for most men. For some men, it never even began. Originally Posted by bigdickbigmoney

Wrong.

This defeatist attitude won’t get you anywhere. If you are undesirable or feel that way about yourself, then do something about it. Some actionable advice:

- stop being a fatass. Put down the McDonalds and start eating real, clean food. Go to the gym. If you don’t know what you are doing, then pay a personal trainer. Anyone can get down to a decent level body fat and look more attractive than what you are now. I don’t know anyone who has a low body fat + some muscle mass that doesn’t feel good about themselves.
- groom yourself. Brush your teeth, go to the dentist if you need to. Get a haircut. Get better clothes. Your clothes will fit better if you aren’t a fatass.
- hygiene. If you’re a fatass then you need to be more thorough with washing your ass. Don’t smell and trim your pubes and gooch.
- do you have good relationships with family and friends? Maybe you suck to be around. Fix that.
- do you work a job that you suck at? Fix that too.

I agree with what a lot of others have said. Stop taking this shit so seriously, it’s just a *hobby.* Escorts aren’t here for your validation. They’re here for a good time. You should get plenty of validation from the choices you make in the real world.