The average hobbyist can spend up to 5 or 6 hours a week on research for their next perfect date. He can see at least 2 girls at an hour each, a month, equaling a grand total of 22-26 hours a month and 264-312 HOURS a year, you delegate specifically toward your dick.
Is he happy with what you've presented to him over all that invested time? Out of the 24 girls or sessions you've experienced, have you found that special one you will always come back too? Have your hours been well spent over the last year? The years before?
Please share your pain brother hobbyist. It'll be healthy for everyone.
Originally Posted by LovingKayla
well, when i was searching for some personal consultants, i did spend quite a bit of time reading reviews, looking at showcases, looking at websites, etc. i would guess about 1 hr per woman with about 25 possible consultants.
so, let's say 20 hrs.
during the second round of screening, another 30mins each to winnow it down to 10 or so.
another 10 hrs.
then about 30 mins - 1 hr to communicate w/ the top 10 to attempt setting a date. that showed their TCB skills.
another 5 hrs.
then 1 hr "interview" with each to determine if i enjoyed their personality, intelligence/maturity, attitude, appearance, consulting studio ambiance, consulting skills, ability to provide delites, etc. plus 1 hr going/coming from there.
another 16 hrs.
total ~51 hrs over a one year period.
out of those 25 women, i visited 8 and all became contracted consultants [two have left the business].
i have consulted with them since their interview, and in between consultations w/ my previous consultants.
why so well, i had recommendations and i did research.
back when i had fewer recommendations and/or did less research, only about 60% of my interviews panned out.
... I hobby to fill a void that I miss in my regular life. The ones I clicked were the ones I felt filled that void.
Originally Posted by jafun
i originally sought out consultants for a specific void in part of my world. some have filled it [or should i say i fill them :^]. some have filled it and provided delites. some just provide wonderful delites.
He's never satisfied, always wants more, and I don't do this to keep him happy, I do it to keep him from being pissed off. It's a constant struggle.
Seriously, no ATF yet, but having fun, and you discount the fact that some of the fun is in the chase.
POD
Originally Posted by PODarkness
i like your viewpoint - keep him from being pissed off.
but also to give him and me delites!!!!
for me, tho, the chase is not at all fun. nice to read the reviews and look at the sexy photos and/or videos, but fun?? no. rather i just choose what i'm looking for and then consult.
I would think the solution would be in finding a better question.
How do I find a great provider every time? Truthfully, I would say research is the answer. I would think there's a good way and a bad way to research... for example...
If you are a visually driven kind of guy, and you see a set of the nicest ta ta's you've ever laid eyes on, your physical and mental instinct is to jump down her shirt. While I'm as excited as the next person about jumping down a great set of boobies, the wise thing would be to start asking yourself questions about those magnificent breasts and the person they are attached too.
Where's she located? Well there you go, that one alone might save you alot of trouble.
What's her history and background? While history and background have nothing to do with how wonderful that bosom may be... what if she's completely fake, with NO background? She draws you out like a wild animal to the slaughter.
Then get into the rate, hours, etc. If she isn't real and isn't where you can reach her then it wouldn't matter what her rate might be. Save yourself time, effort and the penis ache of someone that is unreachable. You'll use your time more effectively.
Having looked at many different variations of research, I've found these questions have been the most fruitful. Hobby on my friends.
Originally Posted by LovingKayla
kayla, as usually, you not only bring up great questions, but have great insight.
part of my research criteria involves
* consulting fee [have a pretty set upper limit]
* location [prefer not to drive too far, but do go to the mid-cities on occasion; NO outcalls except for favs]
* when can she meet [prefer daytimes, but sometimes evenings/weekends]
* her appearance [tend towards a specific hair color and body type, but have been pleasantly surprised when i interviewed others]
* consulting reviews [to get an idea of her consulting style]
even after all that, research helps up the probability of interviewing success, but does not guarantee it.
in 2009 and 2010, 8-10 women i visited didnt make my consulting team.
so, ...
is lil delites happy with what i presented him? yes more often than not.
have i met a special one or two or more that i will always consult w/ again? yes, several.
have my hours been well spent? yes.
... I'd say even with the best research that my return visit ratio is no more than 10%.
Originally Posted by Hugh Jardon
from my point of view, i would say that a successful interview is different from a successful interview that lead to "hiring" her for future consultations.
did i have a deliteful time but proll wont see her again? i've had some of these.
did i have a deliteful time and will see her again? i've had more of these.