A lady who screens could end up with Sam, cops, rapists, stalkers, murderers, and all of these other types you list as well. Who is to say your vouch from that other provider was legit? Or maybe she got confused? Or maybe she wanted to eliminate some of her competition?
And how does your screening protect me from the crazy wife of one of your previous "safe" clients who finds all your contact information, pictures, your address, etc. on hubby's phone and decides to pay you a visit?
All screening does is give the lady a false sense of security. It really doesn't protect me as a client at all since it's dependent on you, an unknown quantity.
z Originally Posted by ztonk
If you are a weak screener then yes these types of guys can most definitely get through your screening process. Like I said above screening does not always prevent certain things from happening, however it reduces those chances and risks significantly. I'm sorry but I would rather take my chances with a provider who is screening and actually cares about staying out of trouble over a provider who could care less and invites anyone over without any sort of screening info. I've been here a long time and have never once encountered any of those types of clients or been put in one of those positions. It is because I choose to screen.
I'm picky as to whom I will accept as a reference. I will only accept ladies who are well known, have great reputations (no drama, no history of bad behavior or Tcb, good reviews, doesnt rip people off etc). They also must have been active in the community for a minimum of a year, and they must not be BP or agency girls. For my screening, I require at least 2 or 3 references, unless it is a girl whom I'm very close with personally and trust her word. I can understand if one lady is shitty but it's highly unlikely that 2 or 3 references are all going to try to screw you over, not remember the guy or try to "eliminate" the competition. It's called a sisterhood and I must say over the 10 years in the hobby I have never had a lady provide a good reference for anybody that wasn't a perfect gentleman and if they werent they had no problem telling me why they wouldn't vouch. As for me my vouches are all solid. It's my reputation and name behind a personal vouch so I would never say someone is good when they are not. If I have someone that I won't vouch for I will tell the lady why. That's on her as to how she uses the information.
I work from my private home and have never had a wife etc target me. If that was to happen it is because the gentlemen was sloppy with my information. He left his email account open, she found a suspicious second phone that he didn't hide and saved my name, he used his personal phone for hobby(dumbass).. etc. It wasn't because
of screening. Someone just doesnt snoop and get suspicious unless you have fucked up and given them a reason to. A client may save a hookers name and phone number but I'm almost 99% sure they aren't saving hookers addresses and details etc. If you do you are dumb as hell. You should be deleting emails and texts immediately after you have gotten the information you need. Yes a wife can find body photos of myself and general details about me online but my address is not publicly posted. I know a few ladies who have had wives attempt to book with them under aliases because their husbands were sloppy and saved a number, one was even dumb and left his account signed into eccie on his tablet, his wife went to put a movie on for the kids and oops!! Did the wives get through with the booking? Nope because the ladies screened. If these were ladies who didn't screen you bet your ass the husband along with any other clients who chose to see her or visit her location would be at risk! I must say I dont have to worry about this because almost all of my clients are not attached or married. The ones who are married are more worried about making sure that none of their information is saved.. ie phone numbers and that ladies dont randomly text them. (I dont do any of that but some ladies do). So since they are worried about their information I know they aren't saving mine.
Not true. Screening makes me feel 100% safe. I know whom I will be meeting, because I have had multiple other ladies tell me a little about him, or he has provided me with alternative screening information( his real world info) and I know exactly who he is. If a guy can't provide any of that it's cool I just won't meet them and will not take the risk. Some other girl can but it won't be me. Only time I would ever feel endangered is if I let a complete stranger into my home that I know nothing about.
I will continue to screen. I have kept myself safe all this time. My clients will continue to be safe because I am so strict about it and many thank me because I do actually care. Others dont have to agree which is fine. However I will continue to tell people how it is important and how their are risks when a lady doesnt. I gave perfect valid examples in my previous post. All those which have happened to people I know in the hobby.
No screening is not 100 percent fail proof nor are condoms but would you stop using them because they aren't 100%.
