initiating and msog

Wakeup's Avatar
Because of the large mirror at the end of my California King Tempurpedic, of course...whores love them some Wakeup ALMOST as much as they love themselves...
Don T. Lukbak's Avatar
Good thread, OOB!

I might be guilty. I always just bask in the afterglow and snuggle unless I get a nudge that he wants a second round. Fairly early in my career I made the mistake of trying to encourage a gent to go a second round with me only to discover that just suggesting it made him feel pressured to perform even though he couldn't really go a second round. Made it a bit awkward and I've avoided asking or seeming too eager ever since. Men are VERY fragile about their ability to perform or recover. Originally Posted by CarolineDavenport
What makes me feel puny is for a girl to act like she needs me to show her a throbbing blue bone before she's ready for a second round. I can't do that. I can attack like a wolverine for round #1, and do, but round #2 is her time to go on the attack and conjure up that blue throbber.

I have a name for girls who do that: REGULARS.
boardman's Avatar
You forgot the part about,,,, being able to lick your own balls... Originally Posted by lookn4boobies
I normally don't do that in session. Whores get so turned on by it, then there are the offers of freebies, marriage proposals, wanting to move into my kitty condo with their younguns in tow, pointing out which heels to piss in, all that shit. I only do that for the ones that I know can control their urges.
I normally don't do that in session. Whores get so turned on by it, then there are the offers of freebies, marriage proposals, wanting to move into my kitty condo with their younguns in tow, pointing out which heels to piss in, all that shit. I only do that for the ones that I know can control their urges. Originally Posted by boardman
:Pops benadryl_Grabs heels:
So what's wrong with the gent just starting some heavy make-out action to let me know he's ready? I'm on the clock, of course I'm down for another... the question is always, are you? I mean, you have to see the position this puts us in. Yes, YOU want me to initiate, but the next guy might feel pressured if I do. Unless I'm a mind reader, I could be making the wrong move either way. Why not tell me beforehand that you enjoy a second round, or some other clear indication? I know one of you said a good member massage for a couple of minutes is a good indicator, but that's exactly what I did to upset Mr. One and Done. This isn't complicated. You hired me. Now help me show you a good time.

I'm realizing that some of the issue could be that most of my clients are a little less concerned about activities and more concerned about enjoying my girlfriend experience. We rarely have time for a round two in an hour because we spent so much time with catching up, making out, foreplay. If he books longer than an hour, then I usually assume it's because he wants more than one round. My point is, I know a lot of you guys are more physical and less mental, so perhaps you're speaking to ladies with a different atmosphere and I shouldn't concern myself with it. The few clients I have who are able to get round 1 done with enough time for a 2nd don't seem to have a problem grabbing me up and getting all hot and heavy again. Maybe that comfort comes with a good GFE, I don't know.

If anyone has ever left feeling unsatisfied or undesirable, they didn't let me know. *shrug*
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I can Originally Posted by Seeking ~P
Yes hun you do!
Because of the large mirror at the end of my California King Tempurpedic, of course...whores love them some Wakeup ALMOST as much as they love themselves... Originally Posted by Wakeup
Tempedic? You should probably opt for carpet burns or wood splinters. ;-)

Don T. Lukbak's Avatar
[QUOTE=CarolineDavenport;105635 2307]So what's wrong with the gent just starting some heavy make-out action to let me know he's ready?[QUOTE]

If he's mentally ready but his pecker hasn't yet gotten the memo, he still ain't ready; his starting something would seem like an empty boast. Please hand deliver the memo. Better yet, whisper it into the meatus.


[QUOTE]Why not tell me beforehand that you enjoy a second round, or some other clear indication[QUOTE]

...and there it is! The remarkable thing is how many girls manage to not hear that simple and polite request. It's the ones who do listen and do their best to fulfill that make all this nonsense worthwhile.
CD, I cannot speak for others but it is a pretty big turn on for me when you take matters in to your own hands to get it going again.

I play with it enough, someone eleses hands feel soo much better...
I don't know, but I would assume most guys just got up and leave if he is all satisfied. We do that even with our wives and girlfriends instead of lying there and listen to their feelings. So if the guy is still hanging around you, that's a sign that means he wants to go more round. In that case, it would definitely help if the lady picks up the sign and initiates. It is a turn-on for most guys.
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I don't know, but I would assume most guys just got up and leave if he is all satisfied. We do that even with our wives and girlfriends instead of lying there and listen to their feelings. So if the guy is still hanging around you, that's a sign that means he wants to go more round. In that case, it would definitely help if the lady picks up the sign and initiates. It is a turn-on for most guys. Originally Posted by futile
Very well said
I don't know, but I would assume most guys just got up and leave if he is all satisfied. We do that even with our wives and girlfriends instead of lying there and listen to their feelings. So if the guy is still hanging around you, that's a sign that means he wants to go more round. In that case, it would definitely help if the lady picks up the sign and initiates. It is a turn-on for most guys. Originally Posted by futile
You'd be wrong. Even after we're done and they have no intention or interest in further sexual activity, most of my clients will lounge around and talk and snuggle for as long as I'll let them. Hardly anyone ever leaves early, even if he was an eager beaver and finished in the first 20 minutes. He paid for my time, and he wants to bask in the company of a sweet, lovely woman and forget about anything outside of that for as long as possible.

But again, maybe I just appeal to a different type. If all they wanted was a romp, they could get that for much cheaper and easier screening.

So I guess I'll stop gumming up the works with my alternative perspective, since it seems I'm in the minority and I don't want to come across as argumentative.
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Nicely put CD.
Wakeup's Avatar
Tempedic? You should probably opt for carpet burns or wood splinters. ;-) Originally Posted by Zanzibar789
Naw...I have a rather firm one...works awesome...just ask some of the hookers around here. As long as they don't try and fall asleep on my wife's side of the bed, hookers love it.

Then again, the "problem" I seem to have isn't trying to get a hooker to try and give it up a second time, it's getting them to leave after...whores do love them some Wakeup...
TheAntichrist666's Avatar
That is why I don't do the GFE experience no more ...

I now do only PSE, all fun and no talk, msog included = )


I'm not there to talk about my feelings...

I'm not there to cuddle...

I'm not there to talk...

I'm not there because I wanna feel "special"...


... I'm there to have "fun" = )


...that's is why my ATF continues to be my ATF ...

... she knows me, she knows what I like and she delivers = )