Sugar Daddy/ Sugar Baby Dating

Would be very interested in finding a SB but not sure I have what it takes financially...I am hearing above about cars being bought and such....I do have disposable income (hence being a hobbiest) but spending too much would set off red flags with the SO...so much research to do!! :-)

Would be very interested in finding a SB but not sure I have what it takes financially...I am hearing above about cars being bought and such....I do have disposable income (hence being a hobbiest) but spending too much would set off red flags with the SO...so much research to do!! :-) Originally Posted by tim_29m

tim_29m, these arrangements are all over the place. It all depends on what you and the lady work out.
Some can be very expensive like the million dollar sports pros. pay for housing, cars, hell everything. Some ladies just what a bill or 2 paid. I did a car note once. I have had SD arrangements from has little as 300 to 1000 per month.
My favorite was a little hot Latin lady that just could not save her money so she asked me to place her donation in an envelope each time we met. At the end of the month, she would ask for it or sometime she was just take a little out and we would keep going. That lasted about a year still she moved away. I do miss her. Had another that just wanted me to take her to HEB once a week (after we had sex). The amount of food I purchased for her was usually less then most hourly sessions. That was a great little lady.

I'd prefer a SB over meeting various providers...

I've had 1 SD started out great but got two attached to fast.
I'm looking for a new one online it can be tough for a plus-size female but beauty in the eye of the beholder.
Chemistry is key,which is why normally 1st meet up are for coffee to see if you and SD click from there it's magical

Never had a SD, how do you find one? (: Originally Posted by AshaBrown

I wouldn't say one "finds" one...it's more of surrounding yourself with successful circles of people, and ceasing opportunity. At least that's how I've met my sponsoring mentors.

I wouldn't say one "finds" one...it's more of surrounding yourself with successful circles of people, and ceasing opportunity. At least that's how I've met my sponsoring mentors. Originally Posted by Eva Damita

Makes sense, maybe I'll have some luck at the Halloween Party (:

Wish these existed with out the feelings!! The real nsa type of situations.. No complications just fun!!

Feelings aren't fun?

I hope I'm not too late to post a comment.

I have two SDs currently and I love it. Mainly because they not only help me out financially but they assist in what I call "experience points."
In other words, they take me places that I probably couldn't have gone without them.
Ex: SD#1 flew me to the Knob Creek Machine Gun Shoot and entered me into the Subgun competition and he let me use his S&W 76. There is no way I would purchase a Class 3 weapon for that.
SD#2 flies me around the U.S. solely to eat at 5 star restaurants to discuss and compare. I'd never drop the amount of $$$$$ he does just to go out to eat.

Of course they all want sexy fun time but I cut them a break ($) because I'm going places and learning new things first hand. It's a win/win in my book.

Truthfully, I've met them in the CL personals, the airport terminal, on another forum, and one through BP. Chemistry is the most important thing.
You just have to get out there, be yourself, and mingle.

I'm looking for Sugar daddy. Sugar daddy and sugar baby relationship has its pro's and cons.Sh*t can hit the fan.

Wish these existed with out the feelings!! The real nsa type of situations.. No complications just fun!! Originally Posted by Cyn-Sin

I have withheld posting on this thread because there are folks that have overly dogmatic views of what they believe a SD/SB relationship is. But I saw your post and had to reply.

You wish it could be there without the feelings/emotions?!?!? Why in the world would anyone want to do that? A guy who wants complete devoid-of-emotion encounters is best served by seeing a new lady each time. The whole point about crossing the fuzzy boundary from a date with an escort to a more free-form SB/SD relationship is, I believe, ultimately a matter of injecting MORE real chemistry/connection/feelings, not less. There is certainly a lot of room to discuss the specifics—how much, what are acceptable degrees of connection, boundaries, duration of the relationship, etc., etc. However to argue there should be an absence of feelings and instead ALL about the money confuses what we are talking about.

You sound like you want some reliable, frequent clients who provide a lot of extras for you, but without you providing the corresponding “extras”. Nothing wrong with that if you can get it, and I am sure some guys are looking for the same thing, but generally that is not what the SB/SD discussions refer to.

I have withheld posting on this thread because there are folks that have overly dogmatic views of what they believe a SD/SB relationship is. But I saw your post and had to reply.

You wish it could be there without the feelings/emotions?!?!? Why in the world would anyone want to do that? A guy who wants complete devoid-of-emotion encounters is best served by seeing a new lady each time. The whole point about crossing the fuzzy boundary from a date with an escort to a more free-form SB/SD relationship is, I believe, ultimately a matter of injecting MORE real chemistry/connection/feelings, not less. There is certainly a lot of room to discuss the specifics—how much, what are acceptable degrees of connection, boundaries, duration of the relationship, etc., etc. However to argue there should be an absence of feelings and instead ALL about the money confuses what we are talking about.

You sound like you want some reliable, frequent clients who provide a lot of extras for you, but without you providing the corresponding “extras”. Nothing wrong with that if you can get it, and I am sure some guys are looking for the same thing, but generally that is not what the SB/SD discussions refer to. Originally Posted by Old-T

I have to backup Old-T. There is a sugar daddy forum on these boards for ECCIE's SDs, and there is a lot of discussion to help new potential SDs agree upon what a SB and what an SD really are. There is a lot of variation on whether SDs provide financial assistance, just gifts, life experiences, or a combination of all of the above. But one thing is crystal clear: An SB is somewhere between a provider and a GF. No SD would enter an agreement with a girl that wants to have less emotion and more flexibility than a provider. The vast majority of SDs even require monogamy as part of the deal from their babies, although a few don't.

That being said, the agreements often are NSA. Emotions develop, sure. That's natural. But if the SD wanted the SB as a GF, she'd be the GF.

I've been involved in numerous SD/SB relationships and honestly, they're great! It doesn't have to be complicated unless you make it complicated. If you lay your cards out on the table before hand, there are no issues. It's great being taken care of and in return, taking care of others can be rewarding as well.

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I've been in search of a SD/SB arrangement for several years now. It's tough to find the one that you have chemistry with. Because its not just about feeling financially secure with someone, but wanting to actually be with this person and give him what he isn't receiving at home and having the ability to keeping things the way they are, as he is not looking to change his home life. Also, to be honest....As some men come across where they feel that the SB is not serious about such arrangement and just playing games. I've had those same experiences with men. Where they tell you what you want to hear and how they are going to give you this and that. But then never come through.

Does a SD only want SB's that are skinny and only think about themselves and what you are giving them?

I think that a SD arrangement would be great for me especially, had thoughts about escorting but I only personally what one person inside me and receiving my free time. Those websites are ok but finding them while out casually is probably the best way.