Speaking for those of us who maintain clean and safe private home environments, I am disappointed by providers who will not do outcall.
Originally Posted by Withnail
I will say this - I used to not do outcalls simply because its more dangerous for the providers. We don't know if you have other people there, if there is cameras recording without our consent, even not knowing the layout of the house can be dangerous if we need to make a hasty exit. Its easier to establish boundaries with a client on your own "home turf" or in an area that you are mutually familiar with so neither person has the upper hand.
I think a happy medium is meeting in an area with neutral ground, such as a hotel. I think providers who are nervous might be more comfortable with the idea if you offer to meet them in a neutral territory first before inviting them into your home.
Its also safer for you. With so many girls lying in their pictures etc, you don't know who you're inviting into your home. Its just a better idea all around, I think.
I know for me, that only changed when I started taking boxing. Now that I know I can defend myself, I'm not as nervous to take outcalls. There is always the initial uncertainty, though, and I still greatly prefer to do incalls.