maybe, they don't want to admit that they went in based on your "Top 10 List"............if her skills are only available to some of the people she agrees to see, you can start an "Extra Special Top 10 List"........
Originally Posted by dearhunter
Rule #1 of the hobby is YMMV. Every session is different, and the chemistry you have with a provider can often play a big part in how a session plays out. You have had sessions with providers, haven't you? If not, I understand your ignorance of this phenomenon.
otherwise it shouldn't matter.........the provider is not entitled to a hobbyists handle as long as he fulfills his obligations in the screening process........
Originally Posted by dearhunter
Who said anything about entitled? My post mentioned the advantages of leveraging what she knows about your personality from your on-line posts. That should increase her comfort level, which tends to lead to a more enjoyable session.
The smart hobbyist should benefit by giving his handle to a provider, unless he is known for being a total douchebag.