Is your birthday the time to step out of your comfort zone?

It just depends.

Five years ago, I was in Bangkok on my birthday. I mentioned the date to an old acquaintance of the female variety, subspecies gorgeous and AGGRESSIVELY bisexual.

She immediately took it as her mission in life to make it MEMORABLE. She enlisted a friend of hers, also female, also gorgeous.

They succeeded.

I am right now waiting to see if the Thai government will come to its senses and let things come back to normal for my birthday this year. I am beginning to become concerned.

30 is way too young to be tricking

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
Every day is a holiday.

To answer your questions.
I will use myself as an example.
I have a vanilla menu with several types of vanilla.
I also have a creative menu with several creative flavors.
Sometime my vanilla people are curious about creative flavors.
I tell them that they do not need to have the entire bowl of the new flavor.
I suggest starting with a small taste of one of the creative flavors.
See how that feels/tastes/go from there.
Maybe one of ladies that you have established comfort and compatibility has options.

Happy Birthday!
Spent my 30th in Vegas with my best friend courtesy of a client at that time. VIP everything and the Best of the Best!

You should most definitely be spoiled and plan something memorable!

I got a vasectomy for mine.