That's funny you two saying that. I say the exact opposite, If I was single why the fuck would I pay for this? It is free everywhere if you have the ability to go out and get it. Married guys can't go sit in a bar and be exposed like that, someone will see us and it will get back to our SO and blow our life up. You haven't been married for a decade or two and had the same vanilla sex for that long. Go get married and stay that way for any length of time and then lets see what your attitude is. I would have to guess that single guys are the minority on here.Well said RD!!!!
Like I say I don't pay anyone for sex, I pay them to go away afterwards. You guys make me laugh being all self righteous saying you don't see the point doing this if your married. And if you make a commitment stay with it. Trying to be all honorable when you are paying some trollip to lay down with you. You show me the hottest chick there is and I will show you someone that is tired of fucking her. Originally Posted by Rumbledog
if I was married I wouldn't do this, don't see the point, if you make that choice to get hooked honor it. Originally Posted by bjwstwIt's easy to talk when ya haven't walked the walk. I've reached middle age, been married a LONG time. I didn't start "playing" until a little over a year ago. From high school until last year, I never had to pay to get laid and still don't if I choose not to. I agree with Rumbledog. I can only guess why any single guy would be paying to get some seeing I never had to when single. I don't see the point. Maybe you could enlighten us a bit ?
I've said it this way many times when asked why I do this. Take your favorite candy / food and eat nothing else for decades. YES, DECADES!!! Not a few months or a few years. Eventually, when you walk by the buffet table day after day on your way to your favorite, you are going to stop and want to sample something different. You my have the simple comeback / answer to this which is don't walk by the buffet then. Got news for ya. The buffet is everywhere. The mall, the TV, etc, etc, . . . .
I've never been married either. Don't think I'd hobby if I was but you never know for sure. Originally Posted by cowboy8055cowboy, at least you are smart enough to realize that you don't know for sure. I've learned in my lifetime to listen to those with experience and also to NEVER say NEVER!!!! Every time that I can remember saying never, it's always come back to bite me in the ass.