The popular sites like AFF and Ashley Madison are shills. The real women are inundated and have their choice and that’s assuming you even find a real woman. Skip them.
Originally Posted by bartipero
Agreed- I have met women on AFF and AM but it takes a lot of effort (more than it’s worth). You really have to stand out to “attract” women. There are a bunch of fake profiles designed to get you to pay for a membership. You will even get messages you can’t read until you pay -only to see the message that says “Thank you for your interest but...” Even if you get the attention of a real woman, remember, they are probably getting 100 messages per day (if they are somewhat attractive). It is like being at a club that has 100 horny men and 1 or 2 attractive females. Unless you look like Brad Pitt or are a major league BSer, you will probably end up jacking off.