Define your meaning of PSE

Just date Bundy he will fill you in on PSE... Originally Posted by bayoucadillac

alBUMdy would never see me. I'm not good enough for him....

1/2 a pot of coffee in me this morning, I keep rereading this thread and for the life of me can't figure out the difference between gfe and pse.

If I was in relationship then the 2 of us should be willing to do whatever necessary to satisfy one another. Gfe can be pse, just don't ask me to define it. With regards to the hobby I'm a firm believer in ymmv...........the ones you click with sends the session over the top, otherwise you still provide an awesome session.

Don't think P falls in the boring category.

to me it has nothing to do with BBFS...... Whole new category.......DWE... Death-Wish Experience.

Below is my definition (copied from an earlier post) of the difference in GFE and PSE

GFE
PSE

The illusion of love
The illusion of lust

Sweet Soft Sensual
Nasty Hard Extreme

"I want to make you happy"
"I need you to fuck me"

Making babies
Making movies

Barefoot
Acrylic Stripper Platforms

Unloading in the condom
Unloading on her face

Talking about her job
Talking about her blowjob

"Please fuck me in the morning"
"Please fuck me in the ass"

Doing laundry in between fucks
Doing her girlfriend in between fucks

Gagging and quitting
Gagging and spitting ..... And gagging some more

260 hr
350 hr

I just like to call my playtimes "an experience like no other"...or "a sexual orgy of energy & excitement"...............

do one or the other or even mix it up....gfe/pse,it is ALL good!!

Gluteman. ++++++1

I agree that it will mean different things to everyone, so there really is no one definition. Same for GFE. Ask three people, get three answers.

I have used both terms extensively in reviews. I use GFE to mean I feel like the time spent was very passionate (imo, or at least the illusion of passionate), and for me minimally includes dfk, bbj, daty, mpcfs and msog. PSE for me is when we kick that up a notch in energy, perhaps activities as well. I think continual fucking and playing the entire time, an attitude of something more extreme sex than GFE, when you both are drenched in sweat and exhausted after as a guideline for PSE, even if there were no other additional activities. I would also consider adding greek, using toys, hair pulling ass smacking till its red, mild choking (thats as far as I chock, sorry), bondage or other kink, serious DT/gagging, rimming, all possible for PSE as well, but as some providers mention, nothing is expected to be part of the PSE. I would call something PSE, even if greek (or other PSE activities) were not offered or allowed. Again it is all going to be different to different people. I consider my time with Diva and many other providers as PSE, even without the additional activities.

I never considered bbfs as PSE. While porn may show bareback sex, these are professional porn stars that are routinely tested as part of their job. That is hardly the case for the hobby. I have never met a provider that produced a most recent testing result, and I dont bring one either. I realize that some may consider bbfs as part of PSE, but I never did.

As the saying goes, I may not be able to define it, but I know it when I see it. I like both GFE and PSE.

anything that the average BP girl won't do

PSE to me only applies to oral sessions. Pull my hair, hold my head down, gag me or face fuck me. I like it. I'm not real big into a normal PSE full service session, I'll take a GFE session instead.

PSE to me only applies to oral sessions. Pull my hair, hold my head down, gag me or face fuck me. I like it. I'm not real big into a normal PSE full service session, I'll take a GFE session instead. Originally Posted by KatiforYou

I need to fuck your pretty mouth again..... Love the way you take it Kati!

PSE to me only applies to oral sessions. Pull my hair, hold my head down, gag me or face fuck me. I like it. I'm not real big into a normal PSE full service session, I'll take a GFE session instead. Originally Posted by KatiforYou

That is my point Kati. It cannot be defined, cause everyone defines it differently. But we know it when we see it.

Love your attitude!

alBUMdy would never see me. I'm not good enough for him.... Originally Posted by Seeking ~P

The fuck?!?....The problem is that YOU are too good for ME. You are hot as shit, girl!

Give me a break! Like I wouldn't LOOOOOVVVVEEE to have you sitting on my face this very moment!

Fucking-A-right I would!



I'm just too impatient to save the cash and you're never here anyway.

So, PSE is a high energy sport fuck and greek and squirting are perks?

I knew a young lady who use to post PSE and GFE, she gave up the PSE because of an in call in Alexandria, Louisiana client was upset after BBBJCIM, then when got ready for second round she insisted on condom, after a few minutes of mish he asked for K-9 and he removed condom and unloaded inside of her, she now is only seeing clients she knows and older married men. Not sure about PSE either but I try to avoid them myself, always looking for BBBJCIM that is about the extent of PSE for me. I love the GFE even if just for an hour really enjoy that experience.

then when got ready for second round she insisted on condom, after a few minutes of mish he asked for K-9 and he removed condom and unloaded inside of her, Originally Posted by Motormanz50

Damn! Sorry that happened to her. I will never advertise PSE and i'll stick to safe GFE. He sounds like one of the aholes who thinks PSE means BBFS

I think I'm in the GFE/PSE blend crowd. GFE MUST at MINIMUM include DFK, BBBJ, DATY, MSOG, IOP, Multiple Position, and of course I rushed service. The problem between differentiating between the two is that Girlfriend Experience to me, means anything your girlfriend/spouse would do. Some couples do Greek in their regular sex life, your girlfriend may also like to do CIM, hair pulling, rough/energetic sex, light bondage. Hell, I've done all of those with various girlfriends to spice things up a bit. Maybe that blends in to PSE? One of my best sessions ever was with Lisa Lyonz. It included everything in my GFE description plus some of the other activities. I guess for me it falls somewhere between the two. I think Ménage à trois may be the only case where all of the described activities would automatically make it PSE.