how often should you visit the same provider?

Every week for 2 years with one particular lady....

As often as you can without developing any kind of emotional attachment... If that happens, stay away until that feeling goes away then go back again! Keep it simple, fun and drama free for both parties... Originally Posted by subclade

Great advice!!

I saw one provider TWICE in one day. Ever since then I've spaced out the times I've seen her to keep things fresh. It's been a while since I've seen her and I hunger for her like crazy.

As far as an actual number goes, I try to think 3 in my head, but a small few I've seen more times than that. It depends on a myriad of things.

In addition to other good advice, it's not the frequency that freaks the ladies it's the extra activities like texting, emailing or calling. Those are obvious signs you've forgotten the arrangement and become emotionally attached.

Save that for someone you get in a relationship with.

I see a couple ladies twice a month.Then I see others once and thats it.
All depends on if we click,etc. I keep emotions out of it amd so do they.We have a good time , after all thats what it is all about.

As others have mentioned, see her as long as you continue enjoying the experience and as often as your budget allows... whether that's once a month or once a day.

The more you see a lady....hopefully, the better it gets.

As often as you can without developing any kind of emotional attachment... If that happens, stay away until that feeling goes away then go back again! Keep it simple, fun and drama free for both parties... Originally Posted by subclade

+1...good advice.
If you start having conversations in your mind with her before you see her and are making mental notes to tell her something the next time you see her, in other words, if you start having feelings for her and imagining how she will react to something....back the F__k off for a while....

I see a bad moon risin'....

Is 4 times a week to much?

I really like this advice as ratified by Mikah and BD. BD's added note is also great add on advice, imo. Clear possible danger sign. One of the interesting things about the hobby in Dallas is the fact that it seems like our lovelies don't jump in and out of the biz like other cities. Hence, more possible to see your atf for a extended period of time.

Additionally, if I note subtle or not so subtle signs of boredom and "sameness," Ok,time to move on. I understand one can only laugh so long at my jokes and talk sports, politics and travel. I get that...

+1...good advice.
If you start having conversations in your mind with her before you see her and are making mental notes to tell her something the next time you see her, in other words, if you start having feelings for her and imagining how she will react to something....back the F__k off for a while....

I see a bad moon risin'.... Originally Posted by BushDrummer

+1 to what's already been said about keeping the drama and mushy feelings at bay.

And then there's the providers you see over and over again because you and they can both handle it and every time is like "game on", "full contact", "it's on like Donkey Kong". Just like it is with a few of my favorites and what I imagine it will be like when I meet Ms. Foster (cause I'm nasty).

Easy answer. Take the total amount of your discretionary income and divide this by her hourly rate. This is your ceiling. That number and any number below it is totally up to you.

Good Luck with your decision!

I saw a lady every week for over a year. She would call me if I didn't call to schedule a session. She had great massage and sex skills. Got to know her well enough to figure out why she was twice divorced.

I don't see her anymore.

Until you get tired of her and decide to move on to the next one.

795 times and still counting....... I think I have 13 years left on my "contract"..... after that the next one is free!!!