Reference System in Jeopardy!!!!!!!!!!

That's horrible, but I'm glad you were able to get things straightened up!

I agree that the truth is usually found in the middle. It's like my dad (rest his soul) used to say, "There are 3 sides to every story; your side, my side, and what actually happened."

Shout out to Spank, I really didn't attack your post in that thread Bro. Hope you accepted my apology and cooled off. Originally Posted by DocHolyday

Sure Doc. We're all good as far as I'm concerned. Please accept mine as well. I really would do well to have a thicker skin sometimes. I'm working on it.

Sorry that happened to you, She was wrong for that. I've had girls give me references before and the guy wasn't good like she said. I just warn her so she doesn't give him any more references, never would I cuss her out or get mad. Good thing we all don't handle things the same. Originally Posted by BabyDallass

+1 I think that's a really great way to handle that type of situation.

I dont accept or give references if the meeting hasnt occurred in the past 3 to 6 months. I give the client benefit of the doubt after provider okays his reference but that doesnt mean Im at ease until we're both comfortably in a compromising situation that completely confirms legitimacy.
Just because he wasnt an asshole to her doesnt mean he won' t be one to you.
In any case I think a good reference situation would be when :

Client contacts provider and asks BEFORE using her as a reference.
There should be some level of communication between the two parties before The Giving of a reference and the Okaying of one.

Sure Doc. We're all good as far as I'm concerned. Please accept mine as well. I really would do well to have a thicker skin sometimes. I'm working on it. Originally Posted by SpankyJ

Aww I'm loving all the love and forgiveness on this thread!!!!!! Lol now let's all go have sex!!!!!!!!

+1 I think that's a really great way to handle that type of situation. Originally Posted by Vannah

Thank you girl. We got to stick together as providers it helps keep us safe.

I want to send a huge shout out to SC for getting this all worked out without a bunch of unnecessary DRAMA!!! You did a great job here amd deserve to be recognized for your efforts.

SC has a gold star by her name in Ol' Doc's book!!

Aww I'm loving all the love and forgiveness on this thread!!!!!! Lol now let's all go have sex!!!!!!!! Originally Posted by Sweet Casey

All's well that ends with a blowjob?

Thank you girl. We got to stick together as providers it helps keep us safe. Originally Posted by BabyDallass

I couldn't agree more. Everyone here has their own way of doing things, but the one thing we should all have in common is the desire to look out for one another.

I want to send a huge shout out to SC for getting this all worked out without a bunch of unnecessary DRAMA!!! You did a great job here amd deserve to be recognized for your efforts.

SC has a gold star by her name in Ol' Doc's book!! Originally Posted by DocHolyday

She deserves her gold star. I've never met her, but just based on her ECCIE presence, she's one hell of a lady!

She actually is one hell of a lady. Classy.

Right on girlie! couldn't agree more!

WOW your opinions mean the world to me!!!! I am so humbled. Thank you !!! Life is so much more beautiful when things involve less drama. I've had enough drama in my real life that I refuse to have anymore!!!! Love you all!!!

All's well that ends with a blowjob? Originally Posted by notequiteatroll

Heck yeah!!!!!!