My thoughts exactly. Why is it people assume all asian ladies are here illegally, or are "slaves"? They have no idea what goes on. Would be a good topic for a thread though.
Yea Ove good luck to you.
Originally Posted by seedman55
I had no idea seven little words would serve as such a lightning rod. I DON'T assume all Asian ladies are trafficked. It appears that there's been a lot of over-reading going on in this thread, and I'm sorry if I started it.
Ove, I'm sorry if my initial question caused you any problems whatsoever. I was simply concerned about you because of the wording of your post; I had no idea your English was not good, as you have conveyed your posts with intelligence. I had no reason to believe you were not doing well in Houston, so it worried me that you were going to Dallas with no knowledge of how long you would be gone, or when you would return. You seemed like you genuinely did not want to leave. I interpreted that as a cry for help - I'll state here publicly that I would have done that regardless of your nationality or skin color. It's been brought to my attention that help is not needed or wanted, and I'm happy for that. I wish you nothing but the best on your travels and life adventures.
I realize that provider interactions on this board are typically malicious. I would hope that I've portrayed myself accurately enough to let everyone know that I am not mean or cruel, that I'm not racist, and that I genuinely want to help others when I see they need it. It's why I chose my current career, and why I've chosen my future one. It has never been my intention to harm another lady's business in any way.
I think I'm most sorry that the lesson I'm taking away from this thread is to never attempt to concern myself with the well being of a fellow provider again, as it may cause unintended results.
That said, this thread should have been about Ove leaving and all of her fans missing her and begging her not to leave. Please continue with the well-wishings, I'll see my way out.