DED and I have a great deal in common, lol...
I personally don't care about the NBA policy, it is a free country (for the most part) if someone doesnt want to see WHOEVER then fine by me. I always tell providers my racial background (bit of irish in me too, hence these cute freckles) ahead of time, if we click, we click, if we dont, we dont, NEXT, I dont want either one of to waste time and effort. I chat/pm with many ladies who have a NBA policy, even on the phone and even, nevermind... psst (I know some AA providers who dont see AA men and it's not a racial thing, hell they cut to the chase and tell you why, lol (cant repeat it here) ).........
I learned a lot from DED, especially the "you know __ __ __ anybody" ...
Finally, I'll leave you with this thought, just because you can drive the golf ball a long ways doesnt make you a good golfer, you gotta work on your approach shot and putting too
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HELLO Dallas --------