Backpage VS Eccie...

DEAR_JOHN's Avatar
If I were still in the game, no way in hell would I use a backpage lady, unless she had several great reviews by members who I know and trust.

Someone mentioned backpage Kentucky Brittany as a really good provider who isn't on ECCIE and I have a good buddy who will vouch for her, however I believe she also has some really good reviews. I'm sure there are others.

Some guys want to be the first to review a diamond in the rough they found, while others like myself want the security of a known and well reviewed lady.
The only way to become a verified provider is to have some reviews. I have repeat clientele but no reviews so unable to become one. So I have no choice but to post on BP. I have had many tell me that they went to a provider and they didn't look nothing like in their pics which to me makes no sense! The guy will find out so why not put your own pics up! The only thing I have gotten was that I look better in person but that they know that it is me that they are getting.

http://fortworth.backpage.com/BodyRu...al-27/10390851
Eva...lovely Morena...


Of course I'd prefer to solely hobby with ladies that will give me great service, the service I want 100% of the time.

for me, I will go to BP girls cuz of scheduling, etc...

when I'm ready to hit it....I wanna be able to call a girl up and say "ok, I'm on my way mami" and for her to be like..."oh I'm wet and waiting for u papi", etc etc

I've been pretty lucky overall having had very little ""issues"" with any woman.

I've given some ""NO"" reviews with both BP and ECCIE girls...


additionally it has to do with cost...

my work is a bit rough lately in this economy so I cannot typically afford the full known gfe $300/hour bbbj, etc etc from many of the known, reviewed ECCIE providers...

so what must I do ?


goto BP, screw strippers on the sly...and take what I can get in the hobby where I can...


so you for instance....absolutely lovely morenita k prefiero....me encantaria conocer una morenita como tu mi cieloooo


cuando nos vamos a conocer ???
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  • Trey
  • 12-10-2011, 01:03 PM
BP is not bad for finding a gem, some chicks don't know about this site. BP is the start for most girls. It's also the only place you can find a quick deal, once a chick hits the boards or p411 they raise rates. There are still issues no doubt, had a ncns last night on BP. It's part of the game you play there.
kerwil62's Avatar
Agree with all that's said about BP being the 'fast food' way of finding providers. We know the risks are there but hell there are risks here.

Sometimes we wanna hit RIGHT NOW! With a 'good' verified provider you have to go through screening which could take days if the provider doing the screening can't get in touch the the hobbyist's references. I think it depends on the type of session a hobbyist is looking for.

And Eva your ass is looking mighty right! Just sayin.......
johnniewalkerblack's Avatar
As I mentioned in Exotic Entyce's thread about this, I think hobbyist go to BP for the quick hook up. You call someone on BP, you probably seeing them within the hour. Call someone on ECCIE, you have to wait until you're verified, which is OK. I know the ladies want to be safe. Also, you go to BP if you can't get verified by an ECCIE provider.

BP is ok, as long as you're careful about who you are picking. I have met great ladies on BP. I have met great ladies on ECCIE. Of course, most to them advertise on both sites. The worst experience that I had with a provider was someone who advertised on BP and ECCIE.

BTW, Eva, you're a sexy lady. I need to meet that azz one of these days.
Why guys go to bp first.


Why not, can't put all your eggs in one basket. :-).

Just like us providers using more than one site to advertise. Sometimes you need more than one option.
blowpop's Avatar
Eccie is a safe place to find playmates in the hobby. Good providers, reviews, reputations. So you have an idea about what to expect before you show up. Works well for providers, too - guys have reputations here they don't want to screw up, so they're generally well behaved, and you can check us out with other providers.

Backpage is more raw. New providers every day. Scams. Great values if you know how to shop. Total ripoffs if you're a sucker. For the providers, you don't know squat about the guy who shows up at your door.

(And one thing I've said dozens of times, and I'll keep saying it: In the hobby, your experience has very little to do with the price you pay for a session. Rate has more to do with a provider's marketing, market value, and how busy she chooses to be. I've had amazing sessions at all different price points, which is one reason I rarely go for expensive sessions anymore.)
Eccie is a safe place to find playmates in the hobby. Good providers, reviews, reputations. So you have an idea about what to expect before you show up. Works well for providers, too - guys have reputations here they don't want to screw up, so they're generally well behaved, and you can check us out with other providers.

Backpage is more raw. New providers every day. Scams. Great values if you know how to shop. Total ripoffs if you're a sucker. For the providers, you don't know squat about the guy who shows up at your door.

(And one thing I've said dozens of times, and I'll keep saying it: In the hobby, your experience has very little to do with the price you pay for a session. Rate has more to do with a provider's marketing, market value, and how busy she chooses to be. I've had amazing sessions at all different price points, which is one reason I rarely go for expensive sessions anymore.) Originally Posted by blowpop
Well said.. I agree! I think some guys wander over to BP because the rates seem to be a lot cheaper and the girl will probably be ready in 30 minutes or less... But scams, robbery, bait and switch, and lack of good hygiene and service are sometimes what comes along with it... I guess guys need a change of scenery, or when their cash is low, they can't resist. That's just my opinion LOL
DEAR_JOHN's Avatar
When my cash was low, I just rolled over to the Telephone road Korean strip. Maybe they weren't eye candy, but they served a purpose, and since I knew the scene there, I felt real secure.

The Korean strip on Telephone was my version of backpage. The service was cheap, you could walk right in and get served, and places like Sandy's (burned down RIP) had a real nice bedroom setup with shower in back of the building. Even though I mentioned they weren't eye candy, I had great times with several and you had a couple like Gina that could have worked at Escape or the Wildflower group. 80 bucks for a 1 ring full blown GFE.

Even though mama-san got a cut of the money, I never saw any obvious pimps hanging out.
  • Sami
  • 12-10-2011, 07:53 PM
I started on bp and continue to use it and my rates are the same as here and p411,dc. Now some will say why do I still advertise there? Their are new guys lurking everyday but don't know about p411, eccie, safer choices most of you would use. When they visit I try to give them advise send them to safer ground if they choose.

I have met some really good guy's from bp. Then you have one's who will see you on bp, that had not run across us here or p411 since there are so many showcases.
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As a verified provider, member of ECCIE and SIPSAP Originally Posted by Eva Damita
Sipsap is the biggest trash gathering site out there. Every page is full of bait and switch and girls who cash and dash. Sipsap makes the people who run backpage look holy. And just like another trash site (texescorts) once sipsap puts up a stolen ad. Its there forever.
Out_of_Bounds's Avatar
To each their own. I see eccie more of information exchange than anything else. If a fella reports it here about his time whether it good or bad from visiting a bp girl I put it to use. I'm just saying I'm more...selective.
Screw all that, I've found some exceptional young ladies and great values on BP. I've also thrown a helluva lot of money away on "verified" ladies advertising here and other sites like this. As with anything, you get better at separating the wheat from the chafe the more you do it.

FWIW, I prefer finding my bodyrubs on BP -- and then trying like hell to convince those lady who would "never" do anything more than massage+ to do more. It doesn't usually work, but when it does... man, is it sweet!

And I disagree completely that guys looking on BP are "lazy". It takes a shitload more leg-work and research to find good strange on BP than it does other places.
DEAR_JOHN's Avatar
And I disagree completely that guys looking on BP are "lazy". It takes a shitload more leg-work and research to find good strange on BP than it does other places. Originally Posted by enderwiggin
I agree completely.