if providers don't give thumbs up for a new client

Before giving references I always check the "provider" out too, and if I can't find any reviews or anything that makes her seems legit I don't give out information either. It's for everyone's safety. How come you don't just move up to a VP status?

Honey, I as well would be hesitant to give you any sort of reference without your verified provider credentials. Originally Posted by BlakelyFoxx

Same. And why I didn't give you any info about the gang bang. This isn't a world where you get to sit on the sidelines and can expect to be included in all the prizes at the end.

Miranda!! I'd love to see you!

Before giving references I always check the "provider" out too, and if I can't find any reviews or anything that makes her seems legit I don't give out information either. It's for everyone's safety. How come you don't just move up to a VP status? Originally Posted by MarandaMarie

Because I started my membership in Mar., get up at 4 am, go to my DAY job, work my ass off and do have a life at the end of that day that eats up most of my free time and energy. By the time I had gotten the free time to start my ad and get going here all I got was rude shifty ass attitudes and judgemental don't- know- shit- about -me comments from members and figured it wouldn't make or break me to not feed onto the bullshit. But as it turns out, half of the ones who verify females aren't worth the salt they spit so it wasn't gonna help me anyway.

get up at 4 am, go to my DAY job, work my ass off and do have a life at the end of that day that eats up most of my free time and energy. By the time I had gotten the free time to start my ad and get going here all I got was rude shifty ass attitudes and judgemental don't- know- shit- about -me comments Originally Posted by Y_eye_AwE_Ta

I currently have two real jobs and hobby, soI feel your pain. I just copy and paste my ads though, sometimes I change them a bit week to week, but usually they're pretty much the same every week. If you do that it's A LOT easier! I know there are a lot of judgemental people here, but don't burn bridges before they're even built-that's no fun. Hobbying always gets me excited and puts me into the perfect mood with great energy, maybe you should relax and enjoy it more.

Miranda!! I'd love to see you! Originally Posted by LIL PP

Well come on darling When and where?

Maranda, she's not allowed to place ads--she's not verified.

Because I started my membership in Mar., get up at 4 am, go to my DAY job, work my ass off and do have a life at the end of that day that eats up most of my free time and energy. By the time I had gotten the free time to start my ad and get going here all I got was rude shifty ass attitudes and judgemental don't- know- shit- about -me comments from members and figured it wouldn't make or break me to not feed onto the bullshit. But as it turns out, half of the ones who verify females aren't worth the salt they spit so it wasn't gonna help me anyway. Originally Posted by Y_eye_AwE_Ta

Sounds like this hobby isn't going to fit into your life. Instead of bitching at us, perhaps you should take up something less strenuous. And for the record, I work 40+, have a household to care for, and am trying to go back to school for yet another degree.

We are all in a precarious position, thus understandably paranoid. Men who lurk are suspect enough. A woman lurker is red flags all around.

Before giving references I always check the "provider" out too, and if I can't find any reviews or anything that makes her seems legit I don't give out information either. It's for everyone's safety. How come you don't just move up to a VP status? Originally Posted by MarandaMarie

Because even though I started my membership in Mar., I get up at 4 am, go to my DAY job, work my ass off and do have a life at the end of that day that eats up most of my free time and energy. By the time I had gotten the free time to start my ad and get going here all I got was rude shifty ass attitudes and judgemental don't- know- shit- about -me comments from members and figured it wouldn't make or break me to have their seal of approval. But as it turns out, half of the ones who verify females aren't worth the salt they spit so it wasn't gonna help me anyway.
And because after giving it some thought I realized my employer is large enough to feel Id be seen on cyber space by someone I work with and that could impact my job. I get to practice safety over sorrow too don't you think? It is so insincere that someone acquintanted through threads don't have to identify who they are really and can be let into a home, talk mad shit about her if she refuses a bare back for instance and he doesn't have to be outted yet the female who asks a fellow female for support gets put down

I get to practice safety over sorrow too don't you think? It is so insincere that someone acquintanted through threads don't have to identify who they are really and can be let into a home, talk mad shit about her if she refuses a bare back for instance and he doesn't have to be outted yet the female who asks a fellow female for support gets put down Originally Posted by Y_eye_AwE_Ta

If you're worried about your life being exposed you should know as well as any of us safety is our biggest concern. Safety for not only the ladies, but also our clients. I'm not going to confirm or deny any of my clients info to someone who can't be verified as safe. And I'm sorry that that puts you at a safety risk, but it's your choice not to take the 15 minutes it takes to get verified.

Hobbying shouldn't be so stressful though. Do you have clients that can vouch that you've provided for them?

... A woman lurker is red flags all around. Originally Posted by Ginger Snap

Especially one that seems to loathe men and hookers....

All you have to do with any of this person's posting history is switch the supposed gender and it profiles out as exactly the same bullshit from our never-ending tide of multi-handled asshole bandles.
People who've been around and know the score on this board have seen this so many times before, but almost always from some fucktard of a guy.

So that's the underlying nature of most people's esponse to you, Ye-whatever.

Lot of us here don't have any problem running our mouths, or any real issue with those that do as long as they speak the truth and have a track record.

You don't.

You want to keep running your mouth and demanding respect because you're a secret but legit provider... prove it and you'll be treated the same as any other mouthy person on here- mostly fine... or STFU and go elsewhere for your keyboard time, because the business side of this thing here is obviously not what you're all about.

Fair to say that people are agreeing to disagree? Someone views it safer not be verified, but probably at the same time shouldn't expect the benefits of info and things of verified providers. And any time we argue on the internet, the internet wins as it becomes a more exciting place and learns valuable information to use against humans in the coming war. TECHNOLOGY!!

Maranda and Gemma with all these posts and beautiful avatars..

Maranda and Gemma with all these posts and beautiful avatars..
Originally Posted by Danson&Highsmith

Thanks babe ! If that's a challenge, I accept

lots of tool's out there to screen someone with out asking for a refences
maybe show that your a real Provider and get some pics in your showcase
and some reviews
And it may how you went about asking for a refences from the person ?
Be Polite- Introduce who you are and helps to have links to your info.
so the person will know you are a Provider ...
Kindles goes a long way's in this business !!!