Lots of research. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I have found the majority of reviews to be accurate. Research the reviewers, too. Some embellish their experience.Well said. I will add two points:
I remember reading a review saying the lady was tall. Hmmm, 5'3" isn't tall imo. Another guy had stated a lady was model material. I know some models. The lady he mentioned --- not even close.
Experience in the hobby will help in discovering which hobbiests' reviews to rely on for an idea of a lady who meets your expectations. It also helps to have Premium Access. Originally Posted by am-a-pleaser
First, I do not believe most reviewers try to mislead with their reviews. Much of how they actually feel depends upon what a guy values. If a leg man finds someone with good legs he is likely to say she is great looking--while others who have different priorities disagree. One should not only research other reviewers, but identify which other reviewers seem to have similar tastes. There are a small handful of reviewers whose opinions I value very highly. There are a lot of reviewers who--while I believe they are honest--their reviews are of no value TO ME.
Second, they write as much based upon how the lady made them feel as they do based upon cold, objective facts. That is true of reviews in almost any business. I have sone some statistical analysis of the numerical scores on TER, thousands of them. There is a very large correlation between the "looks" score and the "service" score. If a lady provides the services a particular guy is looking for, she becomes much better looking in his after-meeting euphoria. If the services were missing or poor, then she becomes much uglier in his eyes. Often the write-up seems to confirm that the service drives the score given for looks. It shouldn't, but it does, and I think in most cases not consciously.
Lastly, I do agree that issues of bad habits, unsafe conditions, etc., SHOULD be mentioned in reviews. But understand the limitations in mentioning some of them in reviews here. However I also have seen them mentioned in reviews of ladies I know very well, and they are sometimes "observed" by a client but not real.
Personally, in multiple hundreds of meetings I have had two abject failures where the reviews either completely misled me or they missed something I though they should have clearly mentioned but did not. I have had a LOT where after the fact I can see how a reviewer would have said what they did but it did not match my perspective.