Daty

It's always nice to learn and giving satisfaction (hopefully) is it's own reward for me :-) Welcome Aboard!!

Listen and watch to her body movements, breathing, eye contact, etc. You'll know when you are hitting her go buttons! Expect the unexpected too, squirting, nail digging are always positive feedbacks Originally Posted by canuckvic

I liked it when I looked up to see her watching me the same way I watch a girl giving BBBJ. I have got some honest reactions from girls, especially one girl who seemed to be really enjoying DATY, and when I barely brushed her as I was heading back up she hit the ceiling.

Check out the link in my sig line. It is great to have a roadmap, but if you ask a girl what she likes you will get a line of shit, and they will be out fucking the first drugged up gangsta who doesn't give a shit. LOL Originally Posted by FlectiNonFrangi

I've seen that video, and speaking for myself at least, pretty much everything she says is wrong. Look at that girl's pussy. She is dry as a bone. If Nina really knew what she was doing, the girl would be running like a river. If you watch the girl's face carefully, a few times she is even grimacing. Not exactly the reaction you are looking for when eating pussy.

We had a really good discussion on DATY in the KC forum a few months back. The original poster in that thread even included the same Nina Hartley clip. I wrote a short novel explaining why most of the information the original poster gleaned from some article was wrong, and gave some tips on what feels good and what doesn't.

http://eccie.net/showthread.php?p=10...post1052420282

It might be long, but worth the read!

I read your post, very good info. I did try The techniques in the video without the best of results. My original technique is more in line with what you described. I also try to build a little sexual tension by a very slow approach. I know how I feel when a woman teases me before beginning BBBJ, and the anticipation drives me nuts. In the beginning I will often just place my hand over the entire area.

I like to be rubbed and simulated before daty. Suck on my nipples, kiss me and tease me with your lips, make me beg for it. Daty is easy, find my clit and lick up and down and in circles with a firm pointed tongue. Sucking on it does nothing for me...like at all. Listen to me and if I'm moaning and saying right there, I mean RIGHT FUCKING THERE DON'T YOU DARE MOVE YOUR TONGUE BEFORE I CUM YOU FUCKING BASTARD. I hope the no toys policy doesn't include butt plugs or anal beads I love one in me being pulled out when I climax

And no dirty talk, this isn't porn. A few phrases here an there, fine, but talking the entire time makes me feel awkward and I start looking for the clock. Originally Posted by MaryBeth

I tell dirty tainted jokes when I chew the kitty and tickle the taint ... ahhhhh the taint.

Oh my God I've been having this discussion a lot with clients lately. It's so unbelievably completely utterly different with every girl. With me I like rough sex but a gentle daty experience. Other girls it may be different some girls like fingers, some girls like no fingers, some like soft, some like hard.ect. it's just completely different with every girl.

With fingers it just depends on the fingers and how they are used.

Yep, ya gotta glaze the donut..........

Communication does seem to be the best answer. Providers are always asking what I want as they wish to please me as a client which makes sense. What pleases me many times is pleasing someone else. Is that crazy?I know it's a fantasy but that is what the whole gfe experience is about to me. Two people pleasing each other.

Especially with young girls who have only known young guys who plunder through their pussy, you have to go very gentle. I am sure all girls have had guys who attack the clit.

Communication does seem to be the best answer. Providers are always asking what I want as they wish to please me as a client which makes sense. What pleases me many times is pleasing someone else. Is that crazy?I know it's a fantasy but that is what the whole gfe experience is about to me. Two people pleasing each other. Originally Posted by cooler62

No it's not crazy at all. I never repeat with anyone if I know she's not pleased so to that effect I always ask what she likes to see if I can accommodate that. GFE is supposed to be mutual.

As for daty, my experience is very limited but extremely positive. I simply asked and she gave me some specific pointers to get me started, and we were done within two minutes as she nearly crushed my skull with her inner thighs in a sign of mission accomplished quite successfully. What she asked was almost vastly different than the points given in the video someone posted here earlier and then when got started and things started to heat up, I added my own oral touch, which sealed the deal.

It's a toss up really... Some guys are brilliant while others are rubbish. If a guy is going down on me and doesn't know WTF he's doing and it's awful I will tell him to stop.

It's a toss up really... Some guys are brilliant while others are rubbish. If a guy is going down on me and doesn't know WTF he's doing and it's awful I will tell him to stop. Originally Posted by Valerie

Awww thanks babe. I wouldn't call myself brilliant necessarily but who am I to argue with such a pretty bombshell as you?! Hope one day you come to Vegas for a visit so you can experience this brilliance in person... ;-)

Fucking shit!!! For the love of Tebow ... just chew the kitty.