My rant of the day

RetiredSubmariner's Avatar
Just out of curiosity. Why do people rely on paying for sex, when they can just go out and meet people in open market dating?

Paying for sex is dumb imo. Originally Posted by bbjunkies
In my case, my wife injured her back when we were both 25. The nerve damage resulted in her refusing sex from that year on. Basically now she is 'asexual', she does not want to participate in anything sexual, nor even hear about others who do have sex.

My religion only allows me to divorce her if she were to cheat on me. She is not about to cheat, so I can not divorce her. For me to get sex, I must go somewhere else.

My wife is still a solid business partner and a good friend.

There have been a few instances where friends have seemed to be available to me. But out of respect for my wife, I want something more discrete.

I am not going to pickup girls at a bar. I will not disrespect my wife in that manner.



... I have a friend, he's 41 now, we used to winged and pick up chicks together at bars. He gets rejected 90% of the time. He accepted his fate and now relies on prostis. He's an incel. He knows that every time he go out and approach women, he will get rejected every time.
My profession has the highest divorce-rate, I have known a lot of INCELs.

As much as I try to hate females, I am addicted to their touch.
"Plonk."
VIP Mya Michelle's Avatar
Lol any woman who is worth $0 is trash sweety, please do stick with the $0 women, hahahaha. The women here are valuable and we know it.
heavyraidersfan's Avatar
I hobby because its fits the life I like to live. I get female companionship when I want it and then am free to live the rest of time how I like it. I have seen quite a few friends get married and just about completely change their lives even after saying it wont and then there is the divorce aspect, I work to hard to give away half my stuff because I have to go elsewhere to get laid. Besides here I can choose someone to match what I am in the mood for.
This thread reads soooo much better since I blocked the OP troll!
VIP Mya Michelle's Avatar
But honestly who wants something that costs $0? You obviously value something that you have to earn than something that you are just given... Think about it people. & most men don't want a woman whoms value is $0, a woman worth $0 can you picture what that woman looks like? disgusting.
JRLawrence's Avatar
In my case, my wife injured her back when we were both 25. The nerve damage resulted in her refusing sex from that year on. Basically now she is 'asexual', she does not want to participate in anything sexual, nor even hear about others who do have sex.

My religion only allows me to divorce her if she were to cheat on me. She is not about to cheat, so I can not divorce her. For me to get sex, I must go somewhere else.

My wife is still a solid business partner and a good friend.

There have been a few instances where friends have seemed to be available to me. But out of respect for my wife, I want something more discrete.
That is always there for men who have accomplishments in their lives: it is to be avoided. The hobby keeps our lives private.
I am not going to pickup girls at a bar. I will not disrespect my wife in that manner.



My profession has the highest divorce-rate, I have known a lot of INCELs.

As much as I try to hate females, I am addicted to their touch. Originally Posted by RetiredSubmariner
We are alot alike.

My wife is older than me, and my best friend. Finding a friend is more important than sex. At this point in her life, there is no sex: but, I love her more than any three of these young guys could begin to comprehend.

The hobby has some good points, and some very bad people that we should avoid: we should to do our homework.

My first wife was my highschool sweetheart who gave me two children: she died young of breast cancer. After a long time without that gave me a prostate irritation, I found the hobby: it was a mental lifesaver. I had longed to feel the touch of a women, and to keep myself mentally straight for the sake of my children. When I began consideration of another life partner, the hobby was given up.

My second wife gave me stepchildren that I truly love. But she died too. Repeate the time in the hobby.

I found a third woman who was a true friend, but much older than me: today her lack of ability to provide sex doesn't matter, she is a friend who brought me more stepchildren: I love her very much. Today I take care of her. She has brought it up: what do I do about sex? I have told her that I masterbate, and I still love her. Every day, I hug her and tell her I love her. I will not worry her about something she can no longer give to me: it is a gift that was given to me for many years.

The women in my life have brought children, stepchildren, step grandchildren and great grandchildren: That is what is important in life.

Everyone has a need for sex, but no one should use sex to take advantages of others. I consider the money as just a thank you for something that is very personal to everyone.

Avoid the thugs in the hobby: they are only here because they are not qualified to do anything else. Some people can not find a real job, so the have to do anything they can to exist.

If you are in the hobby, look for people who are better than that.
JRLawrence's Avatar
I just blocked

VIP Mya Michelle
*~Sexy Humanitarian~*

What an attitude! Straight to to never will see her list.

Women are a great help to men. Families, and children, are what life is all about - not money.
Money is only a tool that we use to create other things.
Exithere's Avatar
We all have our reasons for being here. For me its about time and convenience. I can make a call or two arrange a time to meet and take care of business. A lot less time than going out bar hopping and hoping to get some action and usually for less $$ than would be spent on a night out on the town.
GypsyHeart's Avatar
High strike out %. And he wants to pay for some attention? Are you jealous that he is nailing hotter ass than you? That he isn't dealing with the clingy drama? Or maybe that he HAS the funds to do so?

If you think you aren't paying for it, you are mistaken. Maybe not directly to her but still paying.
bbjunkies's Avatar
Bravo! Randall Creed.

Though this mature brain of mine. Has a hunch that the op is youngen..wet behind the ears. Thinks he's God's gift to women. Yet not getting any. Otherwise, if he was getting p*ssy. He wouldn't feel the need to join this p4p lifestyle board. Originally Posted by Mature Companion
Anybody can get sex from prostis. That doesn't count because it's situational status and it's lowering both the man and woman's value. We know that.
bbjunkies's Avatar
We all have our reasons for being here. For me its about time and convenience. I can make a call or two arrange a time to meet and take care of business. A lot less time than going out bar hopping and hoping to get some action and usually for less $$ than would be spent on a night out on the town. Originally Posted by Exithere
bbjunkies's Avatar
High strike out %. And he wants to pay for some attention? Are you jealous that he is nailing hotter ass than you? That he isn't dealing with the clingy drama? Or maybe that he HAS the funds to do so?

If you think you aren't paying for it, you are mistaken. Maybe not directly to her but still paying. Originally Posted by GypsyHeart
I'm not jealous at all. Why would I be ? Lol. Do I want a car with high mileage? Hell f**ken no.

Why drive an old car that’s got the shit fuck out of it, preowned that new car smells gone and I am not having it.

There always newer models with low mileage, so why even bother.
Mature Companion's Avatar
It might lower YOUR own self worth and YOUR self esteem, skippy.
But it sure as fuck doesn't lower my value as a woman. As a human. Nor does it lower the value of those great gentlemen I meet.

But keep convincing yourself that shit, youngen. While the adults, here enjoy what the true nature of this adult lifestyle is about.






Anybody can get sex from prostis. That doesn't count because it's situational status and it's lowering both the man and woman's value. We know that. Originally Posted by bbjunkies
Randall Creed's Avatar
Prostis??

Is that...your, 'cool' word? Huh? Maybe your 'catch' word, no?

Look how cool and hip I am by using this...compacted word.

Did you make it up, or bum it off someone else??