Question for Our Awesome Guys Out There!! Ever Met An Provider So Extraordinary, Marriage Became an Option??

I have met some really cool ladies, ones that I think it would be fun to hang out with off-the-clock.

But, to date a lady that I have seen, let alone marry her? No, maam.

First, how could she put her trust in me and I in her?
Second, when does the fantasy end and real life begin?

I once lived with a provider. It went ok. She knew her place and I knew mine. But marry...... Not sure bout that. Maybe with the rite one who is on the rite road. Still kinda iffy.

Boils down to one issue for me...trust.
Once lost, very difficult to regain.

Hell no. Do you know the provider's background or financial or arrest issues ? Why would you marry a provider ? Romance leads to fucking leads to marriage. Fucking does not lead to romance.

As they say here - Pay, Fuck , Leave. Pay,Fuck , Leave. Pay , Fuck, Leave ...
Keep repeating till you die or become impotent !!

I pay so this WILL NOT happen. Originally Posted by notanewbie

Exactly...... Getting laid is not really an issue.... getting them (civi's) to leave most of the time is...... Providers are awesome at closing the door behind them when I'm done.....


But all that aside..... would I be against marrying a provider? No. I'm not the judgmental type..... People are who they are, not always what they are......


JaD

Can you marry a car or a house? Originally Posted by 691969

No, but BDS once said she can suck start a Chevy...that count?

No, but BDS once said she can suck start a Chevy...that count? Originally Posted by Wakeuр

Whoa there Wakeup buddy!!! Now you're bringing up something that makes me scratch my wig.

If she can suck start a Chevy she is wife material in my book!

Hookers are not take home to momma material. Neither are guys that pay to fuck hookers.

4 things you can be, all while appearing cool to friends and neighbors...

1. House poor

2. Car poor

3. Wife poor

4. Hooker poor

Keep in mind, you can at least get some money by selling the house and car and pimping the hooker!

Marry ? lol hadn't gotten that far yet....

I have however wound up taking girl or 2 in my day outta the wh0re business and was screwing them on the side...

I have even had a situation where a provider did not charge me even on the first session cuz she really liked me that much.

OP - go read Eleven Minutes by Paolo Coelho...

In my view a Provider is like any other woman, a human being with feelings, emotions, values, strengths, weaknesses, more or less drama, more or less baggage, etc. I have been fortunate to know a handful of Providers who I could seriously consider dating or marrying if I were not happy with my existing marriage (which is open for both of us). In fact I might be more willing to want to date or marry them than they would to date or marry me.

Yes and no.

So many cliche answers, most of the "players" will not admit it to the forum, it is not the "hobbyst" thing to admit, but there are several if not many that would consider it. I have a couple of provider friends that have been proposed marriage a number of times the last couple of years, a couple of the proposals have been by known "players" in this board.

So, (and not meaning to hijacak the thread) has any of the ladies here been proposed marriage?

In my view a Provider is like any other woman, a human being with feelings, emotions, values, strengths, weaknesses, more or less drama, more or less baggage, etc. I have been fortunate to know a handful of Providers who I could seriously consider dating or marrying if I were not happy with my existing marriage (which is open for both of us). In fact I might be more willing to want to date or marry them than they would to date or marry me. Originally Posted by spice-is-nice

There we have it someone man enough to understand and admit it.

I'm not an Awesome Guy.

Providers are women, and men marry women every day (without fully knowing their pasts). Less than 50% of marriages work, but people are optimistic enough to continue the tradition. I would not rule out marriage to a provider (hell, I've dated enough of them), but I wouldn't encourage anyone to do it.

LS