Looking for my sugar Daddy is you in here

I think GY6 rubs girls the wrong way because his definition of a SB is the classic one. A older man takes care of a pretty girl that he sees potential in and helps her achieve her career/education goals. At least that is the impression I get. I definitely could be wrong.

Some ladies think a SD is a regular client that pays monthly. (Set schedule, agreements on how much time to spend with each other.)

Some ladies think a SD is a boyfriend that gives you an allowance. (No schedule, you want to see each other whenever time allows, you prioritize time with each other over everything except family and work.)

Some ladies’ idea of a SD is somewhere between the two.

Personally, my definition veers more towards the classic definition. I’ve had a wonderful allowance giving partner for over a year, but I only call him my SD because that’s how others understand the relationship. I don’t consider him a SD.

Of course you do.

Yet, here you are.
All hookers that go sugar baby way go back to hooking. Originally Posted by Gotyour6

Actually, no.

"Many" or "most"--could be. But very definitely not "all".

That is like saying

"everybody was kung fu fighting"

Not everyone was, I am sure there was one or two in the world but the % is so small that it would be less than one percent.

Gonna agree w/ GY6... I've had a number of successful SB relationships the shortest being only a couple of months. I would not knowingly work with an active provider simply because our goals would be different. And unless you meet Mr. moneybags, you would be losing money as my SB compared to (what I assume) you make providing.

That's why the girls I work with are not providers. They don't know that they can fuck 3-4 times a night for $300. They just want to fuck one guy all night for $200. They are amateurs with no interest in going pro. They don't think of themselves as sex workers because it's just to help out the bottom line while they work towards something else. And there's also the added factor that a lot of them actually love older men that love to eat pussy. Most of them haven't even come once that way let alone 10 times in a night! My latest SB just realized she can actually come 2x in a row! haha.. she thinks I'm some kind of magician - sure it's unearned adoration...but I'll take it.

Not to mention that you should be the last sugar daddy she will need if you also help her with her goals.

Unlike a hooker where her goal is to make money the fast way. Any baby I went with wanted to finish college and grow form there.

One girl now works for fedex that I dated for three years, another is head of a graphics dept. Her and I have been together for almost 6 years now.

Hookers want fast money for nothing.

This weekend I helped her color her hair.
Wouldnt do that for a hooker.
Hooker wouldn't ask me to.
If the hooker did ask me to help color her hair I am sure she would want me to pay her for it

Everyone I know has to deal with work, college and everyday life. It's not really that hard.

I worry about what college admits people without any grasp of proper grammar. Originally Posted by LimitlessJD

Like every state college in the US.

They just want your money and that sweet and buttery financial aid.

You better take out 20 thousand dollars this year so you can focus on your worthless classes. Talk with your financial advisor. He'll know what is best for you. Whatever you do, don't let anything interfere between you and your worthless classes. You got to focus on textbook solutions. That's what is employable.

+1

In other words.
You want a steady client while seeing other clients and make more money

Been done a million times here

Not sure why people still advertise for a sugar daddy on a hooker site.

Hookers are primarily focused on getting fast money and money at every meet.

When a hooker says they want to be a sugar daddy it means that they want a monthly salary up front for so many meets. Then when dinner or a trip come around they want a weekend rate along with all expense paid vacation. Mainly because they are losing money being with a daddy.

The guy is normally treated as a walking ATM.

I know I always get slack for posting negative and all the girls will say that (Why wont she get paid for the weekend, she is losing money being with a daddy) but I can assure you, this is not how it works.

There has never been a successful case of a hooker being with a sugar daddy that lasted more than a few months.

No self respecting daddy will be with a hooker while she is still hooking.

Think of going to an outing with him and a co-worker just paid 200 to fuck you the day before.

Sorry ladies, wont happen. Originally Posted by Gotyour6

To me, the big difference is SB/SD is PERSONAL and hooking in BUSINESS.

They are not the same. People who treat them the same do both a disservice.

While there are exceptions of a working girl falling for a john or more likely vice versa, its rare and complicated.

Likewise, its hard to go from hooker to SB - its just different. Not impossible.

I wish you luck in finding what YOU want.

I worry about what college admits people without any grasp of proper grammar. Originally Posted by LimitlessJD

Most of them these days...they need the money.

I as well laughed at that .. IS YOU!?
For this being (THE UPSCALE /High END) part of Eccie sure is alot of hood rat terms and post (if you will).
JUST; WOW!

I think GY6 rubs girls the wrong way because his definition of a SB is the classic one. A older man takes care of a pretty girl that he sees potential in and helps her achieve her career/education goals. At least that is the impression I get. I definitely could be wrong.

Some ladies think a SD is a regular client that pays monthly. (Set schedule, agreements on how much time to spend with each other.)

Some ladies think a SD is a boyfriend that gives you an allowance. (No schedule, you want to see each other whenever time allows, you prioritize time with each other over everything except family and work.)

Some ladies’ idea of a SD is somewhere between the two.

Personally, my definition veers more towards the classic definition. I’ve had a wonderful allowance giving partner for over a year, but I only call him my SD because that’s how others understand the relationship. I don’t consider him a SD. Originally Posted by SA Angel

Great way to look at it..ALSO some think of it as someone wanting to control someone else with money. I will pay this you will do this when ever I want it. others will call it a Marraige

I have had many sb relationships, but have learnt some rules. No dependencies, she must have some kind of job even if at college, exclusive, but she can have whatever social life she wants.

By no dependencies, I mean she does not depend on me for rent/food/car, but help is appreciated. A girl in tears who has nothing towards months rent is too stressful. verging on monetary blackmail. 'You are the only one I can depend on' becomes a quick goodbye.

ps. if they do not depend on you for money, then you know they are fucking you because they want to, not because they have to.

Everytime I see this title I think of

Is you is
Or is you ain't
My baby

......lol