While I'm never one to skimp on private time, getting to know each other "in the field" so to speak is a great way to learn more about each other and enhance the fun!
I'm also a total nerd, but thanks to my wonderful gentlemen I can at least maintain the appearance of being well rounded, lol. I'm not really one for opera, but I've enjoyed it a time or two. I prefer the symphonies that I've seen in several cities. My favorite dates are to the jazz clubs, and I've been lucky enough to receive an invite to a few of the most prestigious ones including Dizzy Gillespe's club on Central Park - an absolute dream come true for me!
Being a former (and presently amateur) trapeze performer, I go out of my way to support the art by seeing the circus, particularly Cirque du Soleil, whenever and wherever possible. Those that know me well know this, and I've been gifted tickets to several show dates. I've even sprung for tickets to treat my favorite gentlemen several times, when schedules will allow. My favorite Christmas gift this year was a hefty chunk of studio time and some new silks so I can practice my skills
Of course, the generous gent who gave them to me will receive a private performance
Aside from that, I'm often picked up for the weekend to accompany one of my primary men to gaming conferences, which are tons of fun and allow me to let my geek flag fly! If you haven't gone, I don't know how to explain it to you... but I do highly recommend it
I also enjoy going to the medical and scientific conferences, as I'm pretty knowledgeable in most things bio and tech (specifically biotech) and like hearing the cutting edge research presented, particularly by the man that I woke up next to that morning. Guys, it's nice to know what the other head thinks of when I'm not around
~Mme X~