PSA FOR THE ECCIE LADIES

When word gets out Eccie is the most popular hobby site to find victims online then all the Backpage stalkers and Backpage hustlers and Craigslist personal ad creepers will use this site and the environment here will be the creepiest the net has ever seen, because before at ASPD and then Eccie, the worst of the worst had other places to play online. Originally Posted by Bflexible

You can cash your chips in anytime Newbie, who remembers ASPD and who probably used different handles here on ECCIE, I really think you’re overthinking and overplaying your pair of dueces!!

Nothing happened to ME. In the past few days 2 seperate ladies made posts about the SAME hobbyist. Had they done a search for his username before proceeding to see him, they would have seen it. I am just trying to encourage anyone, guy or girl, to do a little research to save themselves drama, loss of funds or worse yet, physical harm. There are a lot of newbies that have no clue how to screen and I thought the advice is warranted.

Hobby Safely everyone. Originally Posted by Kendall4U

I appreciate your advice to the other ladies. I am aware of one recent incident in which a client "bolted" without payment. You can only hope that a more rigorous screening process will help prevent this type of incident.

I'm not here to tell any lady how to run her business, so please do not mistake this message for anything other than being helpful.

Ladies, whether you screen through provider references, p411, or whatever "other" sites or "means" available to you....please search Eccie about the gent that is asking for a session or before you respond to an ISO. Look at his post history, the way he writes reviews, the ladies he's reviewed. You can glean a lot of info if you take the time to look. We have a ladies area where pertinent info regarding wayword/rogue clients that can be discussed. Please utilize them. I know business is slow for some, but this is NOT the time to be lacking in screening. Luckily, we have more good guys here than not. However, those that behave badly are being more blatant and active.

Stay aware and stay safe!
Best~Kendall Kain Originally Posted by Kendall4U

Nice thread topic, KK. I somewhat disagree on post history because unless there is a direct linkage to him saying what would be uncomfortable on an in person meet, it is impossible to know how a guy is BCD or that he will short or stiff you on your donation based on his opinion on the internet. Yes, look up his nickname, phone number in the ladies' only areas as well as those black list sites.

But, be careful in taking the word of providers that have not even seen the potential client in person, and definitely do not pay any attention to guys' opinions of the potential client as 100% of the time, both of their opinions have no merit and usually have an agenda attached. I have always said that the best way to screen for ladies to get to the truth about a guy is by contacting not just one or two, but several of the ladies he has seen BCD in the past.

The posting history or lack there of regardless if he admits to being a bad guy is definitely something to look at and consider....

But let’s hear it from you...cause I imagine you do lots of screening to meet strange men off the internet don’t you? Guys who have the potential to rape,rob or murder you....LMAO

Yea let’s listen to this guy! -__-

What’s your agenda for even writing that last paragraph?

I would trust a lady and her opinion regardless if she’s met someone BCD over anything a guy was telling me here honestly ....

Guys act differently with ladies...might be nice and sweet to one and a total prick to another

Did you not read what I wrote or did ou read it and possess poor reading comprehension?



Guess you have never read a YES review that had a lot of comments posted in it afterward by the reviewer's fellow Hobbyists and they disagree with the review being a YES and they say not to see her and how they all had a questionable session or bad experience with her???? Originally Posted by CG2014

My reading comprehenion is well above yours. The "theys" you speak usually have not even written a review on the lady in question. Then there are the follow up post slapping the reviewer around for paying too much for the services rendered. Let's not forget the butt slappers, and the "she is on my to do list now" retards. Don't you know the lady's panties are dripping when they see that she is now on countless to do lists.

So where is this important information you cherish?

Stfu pyramid and cg. This post is not about your egos. Ty Kendall for your PSA. I love women and a few have actually tolerated me. The safety of the lady should always come first. Screening and research is key to a great fun safe day

Kendall ... thank you for taking the time to write a generic thread to hopefully benefit some provider who is green or just not good at screening. Your intro post was well thought out as you typed it out.

When word gets out Eccie is the most popular hobby site to find victims online then all the Backpage stalkers and Backpage hustlers and Craigslist personal ad creepers will use this site and the environment here will be the creepiest the net has ever seen, because before at ASPD and then Eccie, the worst of the worst had other places to play online. Originally Posted by Bflexible

Most of these women started/used CL and BP before coming to this site, some of them feel like they've made it by being here and look down where they came from, but instead they're saying "look at the BP workers coming here" how easy some of them forget

I think there are some aspects of ECCIE that will keep it from being the worst of BP & CL. But I agree we all need to be more careful. There were bad actors on ASPD/ECCIE but it was rare enough we had a bit of a sense of security in this community. Shouldn’t take that for granted.

Thinking to myself:
I’ve been mulling over what I’m going to do. My pattern had been to pay for p411 for a year, meet some new gals for my rotation and add to my “OK” list, and then let it lapse for a couple of years because I’m not using the site much after that. With the changes coming to p411 and all the rest that’s going on with other sites I’m not sure what I’ll do. I want to meet some new gals for my rotation but due to some retirements/moves lack ‘recent references’. I guess I’ll abandon p411 and just go for some gals with easier screening at first to get a recent reference list.

Be diligent. Have fun. Originally Posted by floorme

I'm investing 3-6 months once my p411 trial ends.

Guys act differently with ladies...might be nice and sweet to one and a total prick to another Originally Posted by Analeese

When a guy is on 11 th handle due to running from his history on eccie as a hobbyist.....you know. You gotta have trained multiple personalities. 😀

I feel so naïve now, because I just assumed most men treated all providers with respect.

Must have completely overlook the possibility of a guy showing up whacked out on drugs, or too drunk to stand up. I’m sure there are ones to steer clear of on both sides, so I echo the importance of doing your homework, unless you enjoy the occasional jump scare adrenaline rush!

I feel so naïve now, because I just assumed most men treated all providers with respect. Originally Posted by Hectorsilverman

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I read reviews. I know better. But there appears to be ample supply to meet that demand, as I've seen a lot of reviews that sound pretty misogynistic written by guys with high review counts.

Must have completely overlook the possibility of a guy showing up whacked out on drugs, or too drunk to stand up.

Not many providers can or will distill it down to this simplicity, but she's screening you to satisfy herself that you pose no legal, financial, or physical risk to her. That can be accomplished in a variety of ways, though sometimes it takes a little negotiation to arrive at a determination of what information will assuage any concerns she might have.

I have driven a couple of drunks home from ladies' incalls over the years. Not that big of a deal, each time the drunk was a regular of the lady. It would be a different story if it was the drunk's first visit.

So many clients trying to make a safety issue for women in this industry about them. Self centered pricks. Looks like you are self screening yourselves. Well done.
Screening is about the safety of the ladies, so they take the least risk possible.
Any guy who makes it sound like it isn't about that probably shouldn't be trusted.

I answer a lot of posts, and am on a lot of sites. But I don't see many, as the screening process usually goes downhill rapidly.

And, as brutal and eye opening as some of you still refuse to believe---a website is not responsible for your safety, privacy, or screening, especially when it's completely free and on the internet, that's a super false sense of security to be lulled into. You have to cover yourself, given all available pieces of information from various sources and decide what to do with it. Always, if you want to be sure to CYA.