A community of disease??

So how should one make menu requests without coming across as LE?

If its a provider I've never seen before and she doesn't have reviews, I like to get some clarification on whats exactly going to happen so there's no misunderstanding (i.e. she thinks shes just giving a massage and I'm assuming there's extras.) Originally Posted by Sword_of_Truth

put it in your signature ... the worse answer I get is I don't know what those mean and I return with one word ... google ... and generally she replies with a simple gtg or no go. Now if you want a two lip butter bean with a lemon twist ... you might need to explain yourself more clearly.

It is up to each individual to keep safe and healthy when playing with random people....

Only YOU can keep YOURSELF safe and out of harms way....
M.M.

My best friend is a licensed counselor with two masters degrees. She works her ass off for a little under 40 dollars an hour, so please bear with me if I dont bawl crocodile tears over ladies making between 175 to 300 an hour having to deal with a little inconvenient questions. Whether stated on your showcase or not unfortunately that question will be asked. In my opinion there is no need to make a thread about it, just say no and move on. I'm not alone in my thinking that most threads by providers are simply another way to place an ad or become a part of the cool kids corner, I don't dare bbfs and I'll put a Scarlet letter on those that do. Meanwhile, some will suck dick, swallow cum, get fucked in the ass and have to deal with those consequences later, get pissed on, swap spit, get cum splattered on or near their pussy and ass etc but have the audacity to bemoan others choices. Do you and yes while annoying and unhealthy those questions will be around till the end of time in this business. I spend a lot of time in strip club and get a chuckle out of how strippers/providers show such discipline with safe sex while fucking middle class to rich guys for money but will become cum depositories for their useless boyfriend's who are fucking who knows what besides them. Uh ok.....

Indeed!

Fellows, do YOU want to be continuously hounded and harangued for something after you've informed the other party that it isn't an option? Ladies and gents, enjoy what you wish in your own bodily amusement parks, but don't expect others to board rides they consider hazardous (or even merely unpleasant) just because tickets are sold elsewhere. After all, we aren't lemmings playing follow-the-leader over the cliff. But for those who advertise or seek the bareback buffet with a creampie dessert, well, it's their choice, so let them make it.


Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

Agreed....but it is just part of the business.

I'm sure Vets hate being asked about pets when they are off the clock. Just one of those things , like a Movie Star be asked for a autograph. Comes with the territory.


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Sooooo. What difference does it make if it is covered or not from a "LE" point of view? Originally Posted by TryWeakly

My thoughts..

Agreed....but it is just part of the business.

I'm sure Vets hate being asked about pets when they are off the clock. Just one of those things , like a Movie Star be asked for a autograph. Comes with the territory.


. Originally Posted by WTF

Yep. I just reply something along the lines of, "No, sorry, I don't offer that, but thanks for your interest. Irish luck in lust with another lassie."

I don't mind polite inquiries, just the ones that turn mean, nasty, and unrelenting. Some gents seem shocked and refuse to believe that I won't agree to do anything on Earth or in their imaginary world for money, and start showing their stalkerazzi syndrome. Oh, sure, I REALLY want to spend time with fellows who push, pounce, and pummel boundaries when they communicate. EEEK, what would they do to me in PERSON??

The best way to deal with this s to state what you offer and what you do not offer in your showcase and or ads.
The statement to see my reviews or open mind or full menu can be misleading at best.

Everybody has a comfort level with what they do, who they see, and how they want to participate in this hobby. The idea that any form of sexual activity is "safe" is even more misleading. It is safer to use a condom but in no way "safe". Your choice is to minimize your risk the best that you can. There are many ways to do this but the absolute best, safest way to avoid the potential of bad shit, is to abstain from sex completely.

I know of many people that are proud to say they was their hands after they go to the bathroom but almost nobody will wash their hands before going to the bathroom. I always do as I refuse to touch myself with dirty hands and I seldom if ever pee on my hands. I do wash my hands after I take a dump just to make sure something did not slip through the paper.

The absolute worst thing is for people to believe that they cannot catch anything if they always use a condom and believe that justifies them not getting tested on a regular basis to ensure they are not carrying something somebody else may not want. If you are having sex with providers, hookers, prostitutes, sluts, whores, neighbors, and especially civilians (they are the worst because they are clueless), you should get regular tests. If you do not, you are the scourge of the hobby. Get your heads out of the sand and face up to what you are doing and protect the rest of us.

I don't mind polite inquiries, just the ones that turn mean, nasty, and unrelenting. Some gents seem shocked and refuse to believe that I won't agree to do anything on Earth or in their imaginary world for money, and start showing their stalkerazzi syndrome. Oh, sure, I REALLY want to spend time with fellows who push, pounce, and pummel boundaries when they communicate. EEEK, what would they do to me in PERSON?? Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

I think I was agreeing with you

My point was to the OP, it is just part of the business.

I've never understood why anybody would get mad at somebody for asking or get mad because someone said no.

It is like bbj imho. Either one does or doesn't or it may vary from customer to customer.

But I do think we are on the same page in this regard.

My best friend is a licensed counselor with two masters degrees. She works her ass off for a little under 40 dollars an hour, so please bear with me if I dont bawl crocodile tears over ladies making between 175 to 300 an hour having to deal with a little inconvenient questions. Whether stated on your showcase or not unfortunately that question will be asked. In my opinion there is no need to make a thread about it, just say no and move on. I'm not alone in my thinking that most threads by providers are simply another way to place an ad or become a part of the cool kids corner, I don't dare bbfs and I'll put a Scarlet letter on those that do. Meanwhile, some will suck dick, swallow cum, get fucked in the ass and have to deal with those consequences later, get pissed on, swap spit, get cum splattered on or near their pussy and ass etc but have the audacity to bemoan others choices. Do you and yes while annoying and unhealthy those questions will be around till the end of time in this business. I spend a lot of time in strip club and get a chuckle out of how strippers/providers show such discipline with safe sex while fucking middle class to rich guys for money but will become cum depositories for their useless boyfriend's who are fucking who knows what besides them. Uh ok..... Originally Posted by shinepro

Going HAM tonight I see

#savage life


And 2 masters degrees making $38/hr She might as well go be Burger King Manager. That's fucked up yo.

And 2 masters degrees making $38/hr She might as well go be Burger King Manager. Originally Posted by Sistine Chapel

Happens all the time. And it just keeps going on! These fucking kids have been coddled all their little baby lives, so they stay in school, and stay in school, to keep on Daddy's tit. They get these "masters" degrees in fields that have no demand, and.......... "can I take your order, sir?"

I'm not necessarily going ham Sistine chapel, but I try to just be honest and keep things in perspective. No job that has a high financial reward is supposed to be easy. Most of the guys here have to budget this into their disposable income. I work a job and have to answer the same clearly posted questions over and over again and I do so with a smile because that's what customer service is all about and my hourly pày is not even the minimum donation. Look we all can be honest and say we have barebacked someone, so, girlfriend,wife, drunken moment etc. It feels better and we can all honestly say that, but us sane folks don't want to risk disease or pregnancy. Others don't give a fuck and have the right to engage in whatever risky behavior they so choose without the constant catty comments as long as it's consensual. Nothing is said about some of the sick fantasies, I.e. in my opinion daddy/daughter etc because this is an escort website. So, it's par for the course ladies to deal with these questions and other fucked up inquiries because it goes with the territory in my opinion.

Going HAM tonight I see

#savage life


And 2 masters degrees making $38/hr She might as well go be Burger King Manager. That's fucked up yo. Originally Posted by Sistine Chapel

I don't know what world you live in Sistine chapel but 38 dollars an hour is considered a good wage in Houston. My aunt is a rn with 20 years of experience and makes I think slightly less than that. I know some of you'll live in a money bubble but the vast amount of middle class laborers make that. No manager at BK makes that sir. Most people make their money, hourly laborers, by working alot of overtime.

I don't know what world you live in Sistine Chapel..... Originally Posted by shinepro

Ahhhhh, so....you're not real familiar with Icky's poster boy of unbridled douchiness, are you?

I can't help myself, I do love BBFS..........condescending douchbaggery.........loved that term.

https://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=200136

hit her with no condom, had to make her eat a Plan B...