Isabella I will truly miss you, you were one in a million as I had told you before! I wish you the very BEST in life. You are much better off and just put it all behind you now and start living again! Get your health in order and take care of yourself! You will be sorely missed!
Ntx
- ntxman
- 11-14-2015, 09:54 AM
- Lindsay Lee
- 11-15-2015, 02:20 PM
Hugs sweetheart. I wish you the best of luck and true happiness. Xoxoox
- ShysterJon
- 11-15-2015, 04:01 PM
I haven't read any posts in coed in months, and this is the first one I read today. Well-written and sincere, I thought, but it sure took a turn in the middle. Haha.
During the past 30 years, I've known probably more than 50 providers or hobbyists that developed a personal relationship from the hobby (including me), and some of them even got married. Of that more than 50, I know of only one -- ONE -- that lasted more than a few years. I think it's hard enough staying married in the RW, but it's nearly impossible to stay married to someone you met in the hobby. People THINK they can forget, but they can't, and a person in a personal fight will use their most powerful ammunition to wound the other person. One thing that brought me pleasure from hobbying was spending an hour or two BCD with a pretty girl, forgetting everything else, then leaving to go back to reality. Obviously, that's not what marriage is like. Also, never forget that most hobbying is based on lying, cheating, and deception. Those aren't exactly pillars of a good marriage.
During the past 30 years, I've known probably more than 50 providers or hobbyists that developed a personal relationship from the hobby (including me), and some of them even got married. Of that more than 50, I know of only one -- ONE -- that lasted more than a few years. I think it's hard enough staying married in the RW, but it's nearly impossible to stay married to someone you met in the hobby. People THINK they can forget, but they can't, and a person in a personal fight will use their most powerful ammunition to wound the other person. One thing that brought me pleasure from hobbying was spending an hour or two BCD with a pretty girl, forgetting everything else, then leaving to go back to reality. Obviously, that's not what marriage is like. Also, never forget that most hobbying is based on lying, cheating, and deception. Those aren't exactly pillars of a good marriage.
- FireKitten
- 11-16-2015, 07:55 PM
It's a familiar story.
Get healthy, in all ways possible. Good for you for getting out.
Get healthy, in all ways possible. Good for you for getting out.
- sebastiandark
- 11-16-2015, 09:51 PM
Isabella,
I was shocked and saddened to hear about everything you've been going though. I hope you find happiness...
Best of luck!!
I was shocked and saddened to hear about everything you've been going though. I hope you find happiness...
Best of luck!!
- albundy
- 11-17-2015, 01:59 AM
Wow, what a horrible story. Good for you for leaving that scumbag. I hope you heal mentally and physically and find true happiness. Good luck to you!
- MuffinMan
- 11-17-2015, 08:13 PM
Closed per request of OP.