I find it sad that even on this board we condemn this conduct. We're supposed to be open-minded here, aren't we. Just a guy with a need.
I dunno -- my own view is it's the hypocrisy that's galling: so when I see a homophobic, anti-sex, self-righteous right-wing prick get taken down for something which he would readily have condemned in others, my sympathy quickly yields to schadenfreude.
In other words, I totally agree, where former-Congressman Lee chooses to put his penis is between him, his wife, and any other person having direct contact with his penis. And wouldn't it be nice if not only our idiotic mainstream media, but *also* our federal and state laws reflected such enlightened respect for privacy. But, alas, Congressman Lee has spent his (suddenly-foreshortened) political career defending laws that affirmatively criminalize certain behaviors between and among consenting adults, as well as laws that enshrine discrimination against people based on who they happen to be attracted to. So pardon me if the cries of "leave the poor guy alone" ring a little hollow to my ears....
i'd like to see the exact wording of the ad the woman placed to see if she had any basis at all to out the poor guy.
My understanding was this was a straightforward "woman seeking man" personal: i.e., she -- single and available -- ISO single and available man for possible relationship. He responded to her ad -- apparently using his real name -- claiming to be a divorced lobbyist. Needless to say when she googled his name she immediately saw that he was in fact a very-married sitting Member of the House of Representatives (and was able to confirm based on the picture he sent).
Because the guy can't possibly be *that* stupid, and because I've seen first-hand how arrogant and full-of-themselves some politicians can be, my only thought is that he thought that being a Congressman is just so Teh Awesome that she would just swoon and melt into his arms notwithstanding his having a wife back in his upstate New York district....