Provider shows up and needs to shower first. your thoughts?

I say join her and get soapy

Soap and water are always a good thing.

So within 20 to thirty minutes or so of warm weather, you ladies vaginas ph balance and taste goes from sugar to shit? If so what happens when sex occurs and it really gets hot? Does it reek then too? I could understand if maybe you urinated before the session and wanted to shower once again for a better presentation, but again after arriving? Wasn't aware of that in most of my exploits with other women smell and clenliness was never a problem. Even after going out several hours. I kinda like a lil natural moistness and female pheromones ........ but clean. Sometimes another shower on top of the one you already took drys it out, and although the taste is fresh its soapy tasting. Which can affect the experience and taste as well.

Ok let me put this in a different situation for the outcaller gents and providers who accommodate them.

Let's say the provider arrives or comes late to your appointment, by thirty minutes to an hour or longer. Then after she arrives she says she needs to take a shower first. Does this change up your perception or would it still not matter much? Every time it occurred with me I later found out the lady was coming from another appointment. So usually that's almost always my first thought although I knows its not always the case, just for me it has been.. Its not overly important but its usually the case.

In city with large amounts of traffic I maybe could understand, but in other cities I just don't understand it if you are fresh and ready.

Maybe I just get a lil anxious when my appointment time arrives and the lady hasn't shown up yet. At that point I'm horny, I have taken a fresh shower close to my time as possible to insure I'm very clean, and shower again if I have to use the bathroom. I guess I just hate waiting and the eager anticipation of the meet when she arrives is too great. I don't need lingerie or a sexy dance to get into a mood, I'm ready now lol.

Showers are nice, what can it hurt? Now I had a provider take 35 mintes to shower and do her hair. Thats HER time not mine! Five minutes OK, but I'm not paying for someone to wash their ass and do the hoky poky for 35 minutes.

Just my perspective, I think it is rude for anyone (client/provider) to not arrive "fresh" for an appointment. Okay, I get the hot and humid angle, but that's what air conditioning is for I live in a climate exactly the same as Houston. Never once have I asked to take a shower upon arriving-- took care of that before coming. Also, never once has a provider asked to take a shower if she is coming to me. Originally Posted by Cpalmson

Unless the ac isn't working, or isn't properly. It doesn't take much for it to get hot is car

Unless the ac isn't working, or isn't properly. It doesn't take much for it to get hot is car Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

well put I live in the same climate as CP and i for me to drive to his area is about an hour and half and I never use my ac..just a thing I am not big on ac btw i don't use the heat during the winter...when I travel I arrive and use the rest room to freshen up but I never was a clockwatcher so it was never a matter or my time or his time....same goes for if a gentlemen who came to me wanted to shower that would be fine and I would join him..just my opinion

I'm wondering if OP is in TEXAS? This is only one of the reasons I don't do many outcalls. I always shower just before a cleint arrives...and for sure would want to shower as soon as I arrived at his place, EVEN if I just took a shower at home. I encourage guys to shower when they arrive at my incall as well. Some actually need it and some don't....but I'd rather not find out later. When it comes to hygiene, it's great if there is a level playing field.
Shower time is always OTC.

Ok this is mostly aimed at you outcall clients. Providers can respond as well as I'm curious.

When a provider shows up to your place or hotel for an appointment. And she informs you, or she proceeds after greeting you to take a shower.....do you consider this a bad thing, good thing or does it not matter much preception wise?

For the most part I assume this stuff most times:

1. They are just coming from an appointment and need to shower again.

2. They are on their period and wants to shower real quick to mask any hints of it before relations........so it will be a shocking "surprise" to her when the session starts.....

3. Shes trying to get me to join her maybe, but I'm already ready and don't need to so probably not.

4. She needs to shave time off of the session and can use up a good ten to fifteen minutes getting ready to decrease BCD time.

5. She just prefers to be freshly showered before appointments. Originally Posted by gimme_that

Not Texas, Lousiana and Alabama mostly.

You wash my back and I wash yours and I give you a little fun in the shower then we dry off together and get sweaty together another shower but may nt join you the second time do to the things we may do in the shower. Things to do in the shower with the water running down and then the girl goes down to get the soap that was dropped.

I also prefer incalls at my place so this isn't an issue and I can be fresh from the shower and appropriately attired, whether in lingerie or birthday suit.

However, like most people, I have a life, and sometimes I'm doing something non-Hobby related away from my place when I get a request for outcall, and I'll tell the gentleman that and request time to shower off the clock when I arrive. If he balks, then he has to keep in mind that I now have to go all the way back to my apartment and get ready, which may delay my arrival to his arms another hour or two, depending on where I am in town.

Don't you want a lady wet? Consider it foreplay. Btw, I just got a great new waterproof "massager."

You wash my back and I wash yours and I give you a little fun in the shower then we dry off together and get sweaty together another shower but may nt join you the second time do to the things we may do in the shower. Things to do in the shower with the water running down and then the girl goes down to get the soap that was dropped. Originally Posted by Truly Passion*

Showering together, drying each other off, then getting each other off...that is some of the best dates I have ever had...I like the way you think!

The showering together is cool I guess. But for the most part I like very curvy ladies, and there isn't much room to navigate in those hotel showers persay. Kinda kills the whole two person fantasy as I'm more worried about slipping and busting my arse in there. Plus a lot of ladies don't like to get there hair wet. Maybe its an ethnic thing as most of these were black ladies. Although I do like curvy white ladies to, they seem more open to getting their hair wet.

Once I had limited hotel access due to overbooking and all they had was handicapped rooms availiable. The use of the extra bars during bcd in the shower was cool. There was a lot of room for multiple positions. Good times.........

You can get my hair wet however you like, darlin.

Ok here's a question ladies...in regards to your incall......

Let's say your client arrives at your incall and he has to do the big number "2" before the session starts. He handles his business then proceeds to shower after his bathroom use. Is this all clock free as well? You know just in case there is traffic..............

Showers are nice, what can it hurt? Now I had a provider take 35 mintes to shower and do her hair. Thats HER time not mine! Five minutes OK, but I'm not paying for someone to wash their ass and do the hoky poky for 35 minutes. Originally Posted by Still Looking

LOL! that was funny <3

.. i completely agree.. 35 minutes out of your hour is just rude and i hope she compensated you for that! along with the OP.. in the summer months (depending on which region youre in) it can be very hot, humid and sticky! Even if a lady had taken a shower before she left her place.. in the heat of the day or evening you can get sticky on the way over and may wish to take a little re-fresher rinse ... just a 2-3 minute deal.. nothing major.. and apply some lotion and perhaps a little perfume and be 100% fresh and sweet!

however, if this wasnt the case.. then i cannot imagine why you would need another shower..

xo Ava