A question for the ladies........ and maybe advise from the guys

I definitely prefer p411 it over eccie. We are able to quickly move through the screening process, and the site is more streamlined. If I'm not mistaken, you're not able to use obscene language in descriptions. I look for things like your interests outside of the hobby, maybe a brief physical description of yourself (salt and pepper hair, average shape gentleman)

Have fun with it!

I figured that the interests would be the biggest thing. Being new I just want to get the idea of what I'm looking for while still trying to be respectful. I just wasn't sure how much to share without looking foolish.

Taking the time to actually fill out the info is much appreciated I hate when I read a guy's profile and there's a bunch of "No Answer". Oh and putting your height would be cool so I know if I should where heels or not. Feels somewhat awkward when I meet someone for the first time and open the door and I'm towering over them in my 5/6 inch heels.

I guess I need to get an account there someday.... Originally Posted by OneStarLuck07

Had one, have seen no difference in not having one.

I actually read the info provided. From signature lines(Eccie), to profile info (p411, date-check), I also check reviews he has written.
If he only sees ex: Bleach blonde ladies who weigh 90lbs and do ss, nqns, allow videos and fisting, I tell him I do not think we will not be a good match and explain why.
Sometimes they want someone different and it works out, and sometimes THEY DIDN'T READ MY PROFILE either.

I prefer the info.

I guess I need to get an account there someday.... Originally Posted by OneStarLuck07

Yes you should screening is much easier and if you like I can give you your first Ok

Something closer to the former or ... a happy medium lol.
I'm okay with a guy being a bit more explicit-ish with his likes/dislikes after screening is over with.

I've been a member for a little while but am still new so forgive me if this is a stupid question.

When filling out your P411 bio whats the best info to give?

Would you rather see "I'm John. I'm a hopeless romantic. I love candlelit dinners and long walks on the beach".

Or, "I'm John. I love having my ass fisted while being peed on".

Just trying to figure out if you would rather know more about likes/dislikes so you have an idea of which direction the session should go.

I'm asking for a friend. Originally Posted by Superfreak

I'm convinced. I will sign up as soon as I start hobbying again...sometime in 2018.

Practically going to be a newbie again since I imagine many of my favorite providers will be gone by then. That thought didn't occur to me until the provider I saw last night said she was hoping to be done by the end of the year....

I'm convinced. I will sign up as soon as I start hobbying again...sometime in 2018.

Practically going to be a newbie again since I imagine many of my favorite providers will be gone by then. That thought didn't occur to me until the provider I saw last night said she was hoping to be done by the end of the year.... Originally Posted by OneStarLuck07

Because she's going back to med school? Going to finally get her CPA? At least half of these girls say they plan to get out quickly but seldom do. My favorites are the retirement threads.

I've met at least 100 girls on here and maybe 3 I genuinely believed could walk away and be ok financially.

Because she's going back to med school? Going to finally get her CPA? At least half of these girls say they plan to get out quickly but seldom do. My favorites are the retirement threads.

I've met at least 100 girls on here and maybe 3 I genuinely believed could walk away and be ok financially. Originally Posted by TheEccie214

I said she was hoping. I didn't 100% believe her and I don't think she believes it either.

But I really do have to step away for a while. Her comment made me realize the landscape will probably change alot in the next year or so, and when it is safe for me to return, it might be like starting over again. So to get up to speed quickly again, maybe I will try it then.

I said she was hoping. I didn't 100% believe her and I don't think she believes it either.

But I really do have to step away for a while. Her comment made me realize the landscape will probably change alot in the next year or so, and when it is safe for me to return, it might be like starting over again. So to get up to speed quickly again, maybe I will try it then. Originally Posted by OneStarLuck07

I wish the best for the girls who have dreams of something else but fact is there are several reasons girls are "trapped" into this lifestyle. She may have addictions or other reasons they cannot have a 9-5 job but once a lady has stepped into this lifestyle it's often hard for them to walk away.

You seem like a really nice guy, hope during your time away you think long and hard if you want to return. This isn't the healthiest hobby to have. But...despite my board personality I've met some people here, both guys and girls that I truly like and respect. One nice this about this place is you are seldom judged by your choices about what you like sexually and that's pretty hard to find outside of the hobby.

Best of luck.

I wish the best for the girls who have dreams of something else but fact is there are several reasons girls are "trapped" into this lifestyle. She may have addictions or other reasons they cannot have a 9-5 job but once a lady has stepped into this lifestyle it's often hard for them to walk away.

You seem like a really nice guy, hope during your time away you think long and hard if you want to return. This isn't the healthiest hobby to have. But...despite my board personality I've met some people here, both guys and girls that I truly like and respect. One nice this about this place is you are seldom judged by your choices about what you like sexually and that's pretty hard to find outside of the hobby.

Best of luck. Originally Posted by TheEccie214

She is one that really has her head on her shoulders and is practically already a part timer at this point....but she enjoys meeting people and having fun with them so you can tell she is conflicted. I'm rooting for her to figure out her best path.

Thanks for the kind remarks. This has been an interesting adventure for me. Only intended it to be a few time thing, and it quickly snowballed out of control, and I think that only happened because for the most part, I met some really great providers and had great conversations with other hobbyists on the boards.

Will this be a permanent end? Tough to say. Test is going to be how active I am on the boards. I was a lurker long before I jumped in, so it is going to be weird not checking in. Plus things could change. What I think is a one year break, might end up only being three months. I'm guessing, the longer the break, the less likely I'll be back.

We would like to hear a brief description of yourself... And then a description of what things you are interested in during session...

The guys who fill their bio out completely tend to be a little more successful in booking quality sessions for themselves....

I always tell anyone who took the time to fill out there profile that it's much appreciated and makes our job so much easier...

Just my .02 FWIW Originally Posted by Analeese

Spot on, I have a very detailed Profile and Bio on P411 and I have had more sessions tailored to my likes than i can count. Thank you ladies that take the time to read my bio and then follow up on the type of session i like. The ladies that go that extra mile are the ones i remember the most and repeat with. I have only great things to say about P411 and their search engine is the BEST i have seen.

Some hobbyist say that they don't need P411 because they are well known, in the loop, or have a certain rotation but, we all know that ladies come and go, retire, they get RW jobs, New ladies arrive everyday, MOST providers change locations after awhile, some travel and tour many cities, most providers are on many different sites and eccie is just one of many. With P411 and it's search engine, you will open doors that you didn't know about or are normally closed. If you like to hobby, P411 is a great investment. Gina runs a tight ship over there.

Side note: follow your favorite lady or ladies on Twitter, this seems to be the trend lately.

CG

I will say it again, search reviews on this site , book through P411 a lot less drama ( providers have to answer in I think 24 hr)

I will say it again, search reviews on this site , book through P411 a lot less drama ( providers have to answer in I think 24 hr) Originally Posted by rexdutchman

I don't believe the 24 hour rule to be true....now if a client is requesting an okay or has sent an actual appt request that you won't reply to(whether you decline or accept) that may be another story...but I don't imagine a provider could be forced to respond to anything especially messages within 24 hours.

Some providers don't even log into their p411 accounts everyday only check their email for any automated messages from p411.