Conversely, it seems like even if the ISO is pretty specific that the same women reply regardless. I've seen more than a few BBWs respond to an ISO looking for a spinner
I figure it's because by now all the doods know that even if they ask for a 22 year old purple haired spinner with one arm and a tat of her horse on her inner thigh some whale from HEB will answer with availability and a "PM me, baby"
I figure it's because by now all the doods know that even if they ask for a 22 year old purple haired spinner with one arm and a tat of her horse on her inner thigh some whale from HEB will answer with availability and a "PM me, baby"
Originally Posted by phildo
I quit being too specific a long time ago. Why? I'm not too picky, if I like who replies I'll give it a go. Also, 30-40% of the responses are always exactly the opposite of what I requested.
My favorite one was that one time I was looking in a specific area @ a specific time. I got a PM from a provider on the opposite side of town. I politely responded that it wouldn't work due to the location & time required to travel there. She then stated that I must be a racist! Really, we have to go there?
Now I just throw an ISO out there & see who responds.
I check ISO's just to see who's active if I have an itch and I agree with RFIT. I have seen WAY too many providers just spam a response that don't fit the criteria. Now because many people like myself don't leave a lot of reviews I'm curious as to how many fold and just take the plunge.
And, I would think location location location would be very helpful for BOTH. Most guys don't want to read a lot of verbiage (sp ck :-) and not know WHERE. N Dallas or s ft worth is hours apart...I think this location situation has been addressed once or .....
I don't respond to vague ISOs. With no location, or incall/outcall specified, and no body type or activity, you're wasting your time and mine. Not much of my info is listed elsewhere, and it's quite possible we aren't a match. Sifting through responses and questions, with delay tactics, doesn't do much but tick off time.
And mostly my responses are private, or I get others messaging for all kinds of requests that don't suit my needs, either. If you can't put more effort into what you are In Search Of, beyond a warm body, somewhere, I'm not going to bother saying hello. Oh well.