Why do some guys want 18 or 19 year olds. I dont get it

Why? Because WE can !
Let me explain: I don't always want to, but when I do I can.

In all my years on ASPD and ECCIE, this is one of the dumbest questions ever asked.

TEAM SL has a training program. Its what we do....

The real question might be, "Why would a 33+ year old ask this question?"

Here is my answer to "your" question... 3 times:

I love late 20's, early 30's...

I love late 20's, early 30's... Originally Posted by Reincarnated

What's that old saying?


18-80 blind, crippled and crazy, if they don't walk drag them. Before 18 they are protected by the law after 80 they are protected by mother nature. EVERYTHING in the middle is fair game.

Some men like redheads, too. Originally Posted by JennsLolli

Why, yes.... yes, we do!

Ummmm....I'd love to see an 18yo Shannon Shane....Good God!

Ummmm....I'd love to see an 18yo Shannon Shane....Good God! Originally Posted by SJ One

Hell, one of these days, I have to get over and see a present day Shannon Shane...

Present, past, whatever. Goddess always, goddammit!

Present, past, whatever. Goddess always, goddammit! Originally Posted by SJ One

Indeed, Shannon is awesome! A treat at any age. My answer to the question is not all guys do. Whispers and Still Looking have made their preferences clear and that's fine. But, not all guys have the same preferences. I have been doing this for a little over two years and am endlessly surprised by the guys who just think I'm the bees knees and those that don't seem that attracted to me. Weirdest thing, doesn't seem to have that much to do with age. I have some clients who are in their late twenties early thirties (I am only forty, now, but still a ten year difference) with whom there is just some crazy chemistry. In fact, I rarely sext between appts, but I do with one of them. He's so hot and he's just so into me. I don't know. Lot just pends on chemistry. Also some guys around my age have kids (daughters) around the 18 year old range and that just creeps them out. I just had a guy who drove from college station just to see me, and this is coming directly from him, he was seeking out a woman he was attracted to who was also around his age. And, we had a wonderful time, went to lunch afterwards. We were both generation X'ers, lots of shared cultural experiences, a lot to talk about. That's a very common occurrence for me, otherwise I would not be working. Some older guys like younger girls, some guys just don't. Each have their reasons. It just depends on what you are looking for, and sometimes that changes for the men (I think) date by date.

Just as a post script, I don't think I'm jaded. Opinionated, probably, maybe....yes. But, jaded, really no, no reason to be. In two years, I have had almost nothing but great experiences with very respectful men. No shame, no I wish I hadn't done it. It's been very interesting. A lot different from what I thought it would be, or how its portrayed in the popular imagination. Now, I do sometimes have issues with this board, but my meetings in the real world, only two bad experiences (ripped off and tried to rip me off). Other than that all good~

Indeed, Shannon is awesome! A treat at any age. My answer to the question is not all guys do. Whispers and Still Looking have made their preferences clear and that's fine. But, not all guys have the same preferences. I have been doing this for a little over two years and am endlessly surprised by the guys who just think I'm the bees knees and those that don't seem that attracted to me. Weirdest thing, doesn't seem to have that much to do with age. I have some clients who are in their late twenties early thirties (I am only forty, now, but still a ten year difference) with whom there is just some crazy chemistry. In fact, I rarely sext between appts, but I do with one of them. He's so hot and he's just so into me. I don't know. Lot just pends on chemistry. Also some guys around my age have kids (daughters) around the 18 year old range and that just creeps them out. I just had a guy who drove from college station just to see me, and this is coming directly from him, he was seeking out a woman he was attracted to who was also around his age. And, we had a wonderful time, went to lunch afterwards. We were both generation X'ers, lots of shared cultural experiences, a lot to talk about. That's a very common occurrence for me, otherwise I would not be working. Some older guys like younger girls, some guys just don't. Each have their reasons. It just depends on what you are looking for, and sometimes that changes for the men (I think) date by date.

Just as a post script, I don't think I'm jaded. Opinionated, probably, maybe....yes. But, jaded, really no, no reason to be. In two years, I have had almost nothing but great experiences with very respectful men. No shame, no I wish I hadn't done it. It's been very interesting. A lot different from what I thought it would be, or how its portrayed in the popular imagination. Now, I do sometimes have issues with this board, but my meetings in the real world, only two bad experiences (ripped off and tried to rip me off). Other than that all good~ Originally Posted by Annef

Heh.... I just read your ad. "Cute College Coed"? REALLY?

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=866962

And your show case states: AGE 40?

Heh.... I just read your ad. "Cute College Coed"? REALLY?

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=866962

And your show case states: AGE 40?



Originally Posted by Still Looking

Apparently you didn't read the whole ad, was a joke. the title read, "Cute, college co-ed....(emphasis on the ellipse). Inside the ad read," 's hot mother". As in, cute, college coed's, hot mother. Wasn't meant to misleading, just thought it was funny.

Apparently you didn't read the whole ad, was a joke. the title read, "Cute, college co-ed....(emphasis on the ellipse). Inside the ad read," 's hot mother". As in, cute, college coed's, hot mother. Wasn't meant to misleading, just thought it was funny. Originally Posted by Annef

I kind of liked the title.....

Cool play on words.....

Your age gets me but your ass pic is awfully tempting.....

I understand guys not seeing girls around their kids age..... It never bothered me till my daughters got older. Now they are 30 and 35.... So I stay away from 29 to 37yos out of that particular issue.

Shoot! I WISH I looked as good as I am now when I was 18 or 19. I was so clueless of how to take care of myself, my hair, my body, I was timid with low self-esteem and didn't know myself real well. At mid 30s, I am in the best physical shape of my life, happy, established, confident, and I think I look 1000 times better than 15 years ago.

Apparently you didn't read the whole ad, was a joke. the title read, "Cute, college co-ed....(emphasis on the ellipse). Inside the ad read," 's hot mother". As in, cute, college coed's, hot mother. Wasn't meant to misleading, just thought it was funny. Originally Posted by Annef

Well I laughed my ass off!

That Tommy Boy thing is funny as well, I don't care who you are!