A Broken Girl & A Devil In Disguise....

This site is like a summer flower garden; you have to pull a lot of weeds to appreciate the flowers. Originally Posted by JRLawrence

Haha.. So true!

Haha.. So true! Originally Posted by Gemma34

Thank you,

It really bothers me about how dangerous this hobby can be for both genders. Some people get off on power, just realize that power is not sex and sex by itself is pleasure even if it is not intimate. To be intimate usually brings with it a personal involvement that is lacking most times in the hobby.

Too bad, but the meanest guys can't develop an intimate relationship; thus, they opt for the quick fuck that leaves them empty but not truly satisfied because they have used another person for a sperm toilet. Rather than leaving satisfied, they leave as mean as they were when they arrived. Dangerous guys.

For the guys, there are girls in the hobby whose only thought is to see how much money they can take from the guy, and that becomes obvious in a short time. Just why do some girl have to have a certain amount of money every day, or they turn crazy? (Duh, we all know why.) Dangerous girls.

It seems to be common, at least for the sweet ladies I meet, that sooner than later they retire. The just get tired of the life, especially with a pimp or meeting the mean guys.

I admit, I am a good listener; when a lady wants to talk I listen, and I can recall the consistency in conversations which is an indication of truth.

Play safe,

JR

Wow, that is too bad. It is hard not to care, and it has been my experience that the majority of providers are very caring and empathetic. i have tried to help a few ladies and show them that they can be independent, fiscally responsible, etc. It has been filled with drama, so sad. Good advice Gemma.

She must be in the Wichita area.
I heard someone got their jaw broke by a Pimp, because he was trying to help a young provider.

She must be in the Wichita area.
I heard someone got their jaw broke by a Pimp, because he was trying to help a young provider. Originally Posted by Stiffy008

This particular girl isn't in Wichita. But, I believe ya because there are plenty of managed ladies in this city.

There is a lot about this topic and the hobby that I don't know and probably never will but my guess is that management will prey on the weak ie young and inexperienced, new to the hobby and not really sure how to handle. I know I forget how little a 19 or 20 year old knows about stuff. there is no easy answer because they are young and vulnerable. I certainly don't know what the answer is.

Jaycee is one of the most thoughtful, intelligent and articulate ladies I have ever met. As usual, her advice was spot on. The only point I would add would be; Gemma, if you assume the role of the supportive friend and do, in fact, assist this young lady in escaping the situation she is in, please be careful for your own safety. I have a feeling that her "manager" might not be too pleased with the assistance you rendered. Originally Posted by stimulatethemind

You make an excellent point which also brings me to just add that I mentioned no names in my thread. And, I do not want anyone to put their neck on the line and then get taken for a ride. I, personally would only offer advice to the girl but I was hoping my thread and a lot of quality posts on here by others would be an eye-opener for her. I am quite sure that although she may be in a bad position, that anyone giving her money with promised dates or buying her things she may need\want will probably not be offering her the help she will appreciate and use to better her situation. So, I dont want anyone to think I am asking for any hobbyist to go to extremes to help her or any other girl. I am very troubled by any other provider acting as a manager and I realize that a girl in this situation must want to help herself first and foremost.

I am speaking of any and all girls in this or a similar situation.

Thanks Gemma. And all of you ladies that have responded. If I have any suspicions at all during a first encounter, I ask point blank if she's here by choice. I know you're never going to get "no" for an answer, but I try to gauge he responses to see. I grew up in a home with abuse. And I know that there's a self deception that takes hold sometimes. So you almost have to guess whether she's being honest with you or her self.

As far as a lady being the pimp, we're all human and capable of the same evils. And I wouldn't be surprised if the lady managing isn't being managed too.


Again thanks to you thoughtful ladies. You've all been added to my list. Some of you were already on it so I'll have to just add some stars by your names.

This wouldn't be a problem if it was legal I think Originally Posted by bluegrana

dont count on that!
there will always be someone who doesnt want to follow the rules or laws and who will work around or ignore the rules. prostitutes in las vegas comes to mind.

...So, I guess I hoped that the ladies in this situation who want out, read my post and it maybe opened their eyes..... Originally Posted by Gemma34

IF they are even able or allowed to read eccie posts!!
restricted access to public information is not just something liimited to Russia, N. Korea, China, Iran, etc.
that happens on a personal level all over the world.
a pimp wants to keep their girls ignorant of what all is possible.

i have tried to help a few ladies and show them that they can be independent, fiscally responsible, etc. It has been filled with drama, so sad. Originally Posted by Holly Love

holly, good for you! sometimes it works, sometimes it doesnt.
same goes for people w/ destructive habits [drugs, alcohol, debt, sex, etc].
we each have a choice whether or not we offer whatever help we can.

and it's good that someone brings this up every so often - the more we know about this, the more we can act/react "informatively".
"Would a pimp keep you from seeing a provider?" 02-13-2012, 05:15 PM
(found this when searching for "brothel" for comments below)
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=382655
shamrock55 asked - "Just wondering if you knew a girl had a pimp would you still see her? Even if she had great reviews and seemed happy in her situation? Why or why not?"


also, remember the thread about the brothels in KC back at the turn of the 1800s to early 1900s?
"Kansas City Brothel History"
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=970027
if you have some time, watch the video linked to in post #13. one thing that struck me when i saw it a few yrs ago - she talked about how she took care of her girls. yes, she was the madame and was talking a cut of their revenue. but it seemed to me that she cared about those who worked for her.

@pmdelites, this particular girl can read it. She just doesn't control her own Eccie account.

I've been fortunate. I've only been accosted by a pimp once. It was a little skinny black guy in a tracksuit. Wonder if his knee ever healed OK?