SPLITTING THE COST OF AN INCALL??

Go for it Ralphey Boy, she's a hottie.

IB

I forgive you lol.
"if you were dead set on meeting someone [who doesn't have a regular incall] would you be willing to split the cost of a room"?
Great feedback from everyone. Originally Posted by TiffanyRose

Yes Darlin, I Get It Now - Fratelli Gave Me The

Cliff Notes Version Of The Thread!!!


Didn't Mean To Be Out In Left Field!!!

I've done this twice in the past under the following conditions:

1. Expanded (reasonable) time
2. First client
3. Room is booked in the provider's name
4. Reasonably priced hotel (No SPA prices) See Trees comment

Rationale:

1) I consider underwriting their adventure is worth an extra 30 min.
2) Two things. I would not expect to be rushed due to others waiting in the wings and the expectations of "freshness".
3) I would not take kindly to some hotel coming after me for any damages that occurred after I had left.
4) Unless I'm taking the lady on vacation with me there's not much point in booking a resort hotel

Obviously there's an element of trust involved and I've only done this with ladies I've been with several times.

Waves to Tiff......

Didn't Mean To Be Out In Left Field!!!





Originally Posted by Austintatious Lilly

I wasn't in the ballpark!

I'll pay for the room when go vacation. decent room

I miss my incall horribly! It's all packed up in storage and at the rate things are going, I may never see my beloved furnishings again. I certainly can't maintain any momentum relying on occasional calls and lack of rooms during peak events in town. Why pay for a room for only one appt if your net pay is no more than $50?

I recently "scored" a room for $55 + tax/night and saw only two appts. Sadly, I had a cancel and a NS the last day of my reservation which meant I wasn't able to take care of some crucial bills. My gamble was not a complete loss. I saved my storage from auction again, but still can't use anything I'm paying for. *shrugs* I also couldn't afford to surprise the gent who'd saved it previously with an installment in his pocket. At this point, just what is my pussy worth after months go by in frustration? I'm truly sorry, B. You know who you are... I can't even talk to you cuz I know you're angry and I'm defensive.

Sorry... thoughts wander and I get distracted by emotion.

My incall was often called the best in town and despite the downfalls, I shared it with several ladies. I don't have the same courtesy extended to me, unfortunately. There are times I have thought about asking but I guess it's pride and fear holding me back. I've been stolen from, had priceless items damaged and destroyed by inconsiderate people, had my rep tarnished by association with those I chose to help, and been forced out of my home for the same. Incalls are a valuable asset in this biz, Ladies and Gents. Don't take it lightly.

I paid for the incall once but the hour session lasted almost 2.5 hours. It was a win win for both of us. The hobby has changed a lot since then. It seems like most of these providers are greedy and just trying to nickel-and-dime you to death with all the upselling.

If it's a provider I know and I want to be with her, I'll pay for the room. I have done it several times.

I have had a few requests out of San Antonio where I drove up for one person and just didn't have the time to stay for multiple appointments. I dropped $50 from the price if they would get the hotel room. It's still $200 and I'm only out for gas. Guys seemed to have no problem with this arrangement.

This is a little off topic, but since we are kind of having the travel arrangement conversation, would like a male opinion on this one. I sometimes go to college station. I usually do a visiting ad on p411 for a day over for when I will be there. Gives me an extra day of exposure, and often times I develop a correspondence that can develop into an appointment at a later date. So, this last trip I had already made it back to Austin when I got a request to come back. This guy wanted a two hour outcall and was willing to compensate me for travel expenses. So, off I went the next morning. On the way there, I got another request. Being that I was already going to be there, I made that appointment as well, and I was paying for the hotel cost for the incall for that one as well. Now, I ended up being late to the first appointment and we were only able to spend an hour together. He had already left the amount agreed up on in my purse before we started. I told him after the appointment to please leave what he felt was fair as I was late and it was not the full two hours expected. Now, men of a certain age just don't do that. They don't take money back from a woman. They just don't. So, I left with the full amount, even though I did give him that option. I had the second appointment. And then, I kid you not, I got a text from a gentlemen I had seen a couple of times before who wanted an all night appointment at his place. Long story short, this guy paid for travel expenses, but I ended up making an incredible amount of money from that trip. I didn't plan it that way, just happened.
And also, he knew I had another appointment because I don't keep numbers in my phone and accidentally called him back instead of the second appointment. Yeah. Was something of a clusterfuck. I sent him email explaining what had happened with the second appointment and that I had, indeed, come up just to see him, but got another request en route. My question is this: Would you guys be pissed at that point? I was in no way being deliberately disingenuous. It just kind of happened. I would not ask for someone to pay for travel expenses if I had other appointments already set up. I guess what I should have done was have been like look I got another appointment on the way here, so don't worry about travel expenses. Just feels weird talking about other appointments in front of a gentlemen. Nobody likes that; it kills the mood. I feel like even though he was nice about it; I will never see that guy again. I hate that. I don't enjoy feeling used, and I don't want someone else to feel that way because of me.

Interesting situation, yes you are right most guys that are more of the GFE type do not want to here about other clients. I think you already know the answer to this post.

Sometimes things just happen and in retrospect they look so different then at the time it is unfolding.

IB

You are right, many guys just won't take money back in a situation like that. Rather than leave it to his discretion, perhaps you should have handed some back to him. And yeah, unless he's seen you before and knows you're 'just not that kind of gal', he may feel that you pulled one over on him. Or he may not care. But if you want him to know that you are on the level and don't want to lose a good client, perhaps you email, explain the circumstances, tell him that you'd love to see him again, and offer him a discount for next time around.

You are right, many guys just won't take money back in a situation like that. Rather than leave it to his discretion, perhaps you should have handed some back to him. And yeah, unless he's seen you before and knows you're 'just not that kind of gal', he may feel that you pulled one over on him. Or he may not care. But if you want him to know that you are on the level and don't want to lose a good client, perhaps you email, explain the circumstances, tell him that you'd love to see him again, and offer him a discount for next time around. Originally Posted by Fratelli

What he said!

IB

I have had a few requests out of San Antonio where I drove up for one person and just didn't have the time to stay for multiple appointments. I dropped $50 from the price if they would get the hotel room. It's still $200 and I'm only out for gas. Guys seemed to have no problem with this arrangement.

This is a little off topic, but since we are kind of having the travel arrangement conversation, would like a male opinion on this one. I sometimes go to college station. I usually do a visiting ad on p411 for a day over for when I will be there. Gives me an extra day of exposure, and often times I develop a correspondence that can develop into an appointment at a later date. So, this last trip I had already made it back to Austin when I got a request to come back. This guy wanted a two hour outcall and was willing to compensate me for travel expenses. So, off I went the next morning. On the way there, I got another request. Being that I was already going to be there, I made that appointment as well, and I was paying for the hotel cost for the incall for that one as well. Now, I ended up being late to the first appointment and we were only able to spend an hour together. He had already left the amount agreed up on in my purse before we started. I told him after the appointment to please leave what he felt was fair as I was late and it was not the full two hours expected. Now, men of a certain age just don't do that. They don't take money back from a woman. They just don't. So, I left with the full amount, even though I did give him that option. I had the second appointment. And then, I kid you not, I got a text from a gentlemen I had seen a couple of times before who wanted an all night appointment at his place. Long story short, this guy paid for travel expenses, but I ended up making an incredible amount of money from that trip. I didn't plan it that way, just happened.
And also, he knew I had another appointment because I don't keep numbers in my phone and accidentally called him back instead of the second appointment. Yeah. Was something of a clusterfuck. I sent him email explaining what had happened with the second appointment and that I had, indeed, come up just to see him, but got another request en route. My question is this: Would you guys be pissed at that point? I was in no way being deliberately disingenuous. It just kind of happened. I would not ask for someone to pay for travel expenses if I had other appointments already set up. I guess what I should have done was have been like look I got another appointment on the way here, so don't worry about travel expenses. Just feels weird talking about other appointments in front of a gentlemen. Nobody likes that; it kills the mood. I feel like even though he was nice about it; I will never see that guy again. I hate that. I don't enjoy feeling used, and I don't want someone else to feel that way because of me. Originally Posted by Annef

OK , so I'm getting out of all of this that you'll do a outcall to SA for 200 ? And say somebody lives the same distance only east , still do the outcall 200 ?
Come on Anne I've always got the room .

Alas, you are too young for me, rick. when I first got into town I was staying in the hill country and working out of both cities, so made exceptions that I just don't have the need to make now. so, bad example I guess. But, if I didn't have an incall, I would offer that, or something close to it. But, I do like the idea that the whole $=$300 controversy is making us $250 girls seem like a bargain. Yes, WHAT.... A..... BAHGAIN (that's my eddie murphy from Delirious impression. If you're old enough to remember that, you're old enough to ride this ride.

BTW OP, I"m so sorry for totally hijacking your thread, which I completely did. I"m procrastinating. No more meandering posts from me. Over and out.

OK , so I'm getting out of all of this that you'll do a outcall to SA for 200 ? And say somebody lives the same distance only east , still do the outcall 200 ?
Come on Anne I've always got the room . Originally Posted by rockerrick

Too young ?????? What's your age limit 50 ?