Ha! I just had butt sex! WOO HOO!!!!

So has the menu been upgraded permanently, or temporarily?

And for the record if anyone spits on my ass hole we're gunna have words. Originally Posted by LovingKAYLA

It must be quite a conversation when you go number 2!

1.Arousal from ass and clit play and licking and other foreplay.

2. Lube, Lube, then a little more lube. Warm it up. Waterbased, may want to add a little warm water to make it more viscous if too thick.

3. Reasonable size butt plug small penus to medium at widest point. Have a toy with a little depth. Chrome vibrators are the best.

4. Relax and let you partner insert with you guiding. Completely go limp. You not him! Spend a lot of time with the toy or plug/vib slowly building speed and depth till you are comfortable and confident in you and your partner.

5. Main event. Repeat steps 2-4 with the real thing.

Communicate pain or wish to slow down before you think you might need it. Early detection is the key. If you clinch up it is usually game over.

Or just slam it in hard and dry. Your call!

The "Anal Ease" may be the butt numbing stuff she she used... I hope not. I actually have lots of it... but I don't use it for anal. Ladies it makes a wonderful numbing gel to use right before a bikini wax.

There have been lots of talk on here about this b4. Use a waterbased lubricant like astroglide (there are many to choose from) and relax. Don't let anyone force it on you. Instead make sure you go at your own pace.

Butt plugs are great. They are a plus for the gentleman you are with also. For one, most love easing it in and taking it out. Furthermore, it creates a nice feeling for him and yourself while he is stroking your V.

The most important thing, well for me, is to be completely aroused. If I'm not into the person it's impossible for me to relax enough to do it.

Try being on top or spooning for initial entry until you are more used to it. If your on top kissing or having him caress/play with your breasts is a great relaxer and allows you to control the pace and depth.
While spooning you can feel his breath on your neck or kisses on your shoulder etc.

Anyway ya do it... Be safe and have fun.
You'll be getting pounded in no time... Omg... Can't believe I just said that. Originally Posted by blackspanishteacher

I have some, errrrr...personal experience with BST. she speaks the truth. *boing*

Any butt sex suggestions are welcomed

Call me to help you practice!

FUCK...... I had her in the Condom and Lube store less than 24 hours ago... How was I supposed to know Jalapeno poppers were an Butt aphrodisiac ….

Been lusting after this handsomely crafted piece for a few months now. Might be a nice way to relax and enjoy before the actual act...
Originally Posted by Tony Patella

So Tony ... are you planning to use this on yourself? Never mind, I don't want to know.

LOL OFF :-)

Screw the butt numbing stuff... why numb it? You miss out on so much! Just relax... LOTS of lube, and a gentleman that takes it slow and easy until you are at a place that you want him to pound it. Patience Originally Posted by reese foster

Okay!

No butt numbing stuff - Check!
Lots of Lube- Check
Be a Gentleman - Got that! Check!
Take it nice and slow - Understand! Check!
Pound Away on Command - Got it!
And willing to Practice, and Practice to get the Patience part down!

Okay Coach Foster, put me in I am ready to play!

So Tony ... are you planning to use this on yourself? Never mind, I don't want to know.

LOL OFF :-) Originally Posted by OFF

Hell OFF, with the right lady I believe "turnabout is fair play!"

Hell OFF, with the right lady I believe "turnabout is fair play!" Originally Posted by Tony Patella

I been there ... let a provider friend tie me up and then she stuck 10" butt plug in there as she laughed the whole time!

OFF :-)

Okay!

No butt numbing stuff - Check!
Lots of Lube- Check
Be a Gentleman - Got that! Check!
Take it nice and slow - Understand! Check!
Pound Away on Command - Got it!
And willing to Practice, and Practice to get the Patience part down!

Okay Coach Foster, put me in I am ready to play! Originally Posted by Da Hammer

Mr. Hammer, you have already perfected it! You are MVP!

Yes i agree to use alot of lube and i like it fast and hard not slow....... Just remember to grab the lube not the bronzer when its dark and ur drunk........LOL
Yes I did that a long time ago.....

As far as butt plugs i have one that vibrates.........

Hmmmm...needs to visit Makenzee Ryder...hehe.

<=======Thinks Reese has it down pat!

So has the menu been upgraded permanently, or temporarily? Originally Posted by NeedingMore

Ummmmmm so far it's not on the menu. I need to practice first!