Why do women get mad when men cheat

Hell, if you were lucky and started late you'd never even have to teach a female child to drive a car with a clutch. Originally Posted by phildo

Guaranteed I can fuck a clutch better that you.

I don't buy the bit about back-burnered dreams and all that in the modern dual income out of necessity marriage. Originally Posted by phildo

Don't buy it all you want....It's still in the isle. I'm just lamenting on how married women think. Doesn't mean it's for fucking sale...

Or maybe it is.

That's up to the buyer.

You must listen to more of them than I do.

Everybody makes sacrifices to the middle income family pit, and should decide as a unit what is valued and valuable and what is fluff. So if your dreams have been put on hold because a partner or your genitals got in the way, that's on you, whoever you are or whatever your gender. You always have a choice. Sometimes those choices become more difficult following prior choices, but they're still there. So if your dreams are lying broken on the floor, don't look for the superglue, rebuild them. You can ask your partner for help, see if they'll buy in to it. If they do, great, if not, you need to get them the fuck out of your way because you won't be worth a shit to them or they to you if you continue on the path of disillusion. Originally Posted by phildo

Hello utopia...

Good luck with that

And while I agree completely with the need to revamp the social contract, Boomers are 1946-64 which places them outside the '63 census marriage averages, Stop talkin' 'bout my g-g-g-g-g-generation, gawdammit, unless you know what you're fucking talking about. Originally Posted by phildo

So why are you here then?

I think for the same reason men get mad when women cheat.

A sexless marriage is one step below prison. I have friends that resent their wives because of a lack of sex. Sex is important to men in the same way, a man listening to bullshit and engaging in pointless conversations about nothing is to women. It all falls apart when people don't want to play their roles. Originally Posted by Roger.Smith

Completely agree! My mother taught me to keep your man happy at home and he won't stray! Although that didn't work for me, it does make sense. Theoretically. Ijs

Completely agree! My mother taught me to keep your man happy at home and he won't stray! Although that didn't work for me, it does make sense. Theoretically. Ijs Originally Posted by SexyStephTx

Cheating is inherent! Doesn't matter how awesome things are at home, the thought of the grass being greener on the the other side, fucks up everything!

Guaranteed I can fuck a clutch better that you.

ChubbyNurse shooting herself in the foot with her own mouth? Priceless.

Don't buy it all you want....It's still in the isle. I'm just lamenting on how married women think. Doesn't mean it's for fucking sale...

Or maybe it is.

That's up to the buyer.

You must listen to more of them than I do.

If you choose to live a life of self pity, put that shit in the cart. Otherwise, leave it on the shelf.

Hello utopia...

Good luck with that.

Make your choices, take your ride.

So why are you here then? Originally Posted by thathottnurse

So ChubbyNurses with some sort of axe to grind will have a place to grind them, I suppose.

I'm not sure why you're on my ass. I haven't even pointed out your epic ego driven fail while continuing to dispense advice like a lucid successful hooker. Just because you play one on a SHMB doesn't make it true. You couldn't even manage and market a subsidized forum for pleasant people and geographically challenged hooktards. I doubt you could run process management on instant oatmeal, no wonder you find it such a utopian concept that you are defined by your choices.

But this I do know...you can probably fuck a clutch WAY better than me because I don't fuck clutches. You probably use ribbed pedal covers. When it's cold outside you can always use a spatula. Bareback. With butter flavored PAM. I hope all the poor losers lame enough to pay you for a piece of that chubby pie are now aware of what you do in your free time. Tell me, does it make the pedal sticky, or slippery?

Let the WK and over the hill lezbo support group games begin.

I blame Disney movies and the unreal expectation that monogamy equals love.

ChubbyNurse shooting herself in the foot with her own mouth? Priceless. Originally Posted by phildo

Huh????

So ChubbyNurses with some sort of axe to grind will have a place to grind them, I suppose. Originally Posted by phildo

So I have an ax to grind because I quoted you??? Maybe you and the Tori Capelli stalkers should form a support group called "Shit I've Taken Out of Context R Us"

I'm not sure why you're on my ass. Originally Posted by phildo

See above.

I haven't even pointed out your epic ego driven fail while continuing to dispense advice like a lucid successful hooker. Just because you play one on a SHMB doesn't make it true. Originally Posted by phildo

Oh no please go on. You haven't quite perfected your new ate up with dumbass persona.

You couldn't even manage and market a subsidized forum for pleasant people and geographically challenged hooktards. Originally Posted by phildo

Define "marketing"...'cuz I'm still getting PMs for entrance on a daily basis even though I no longer own it.

I doubt you could run process management on instant oatmeal, no wonder you find it such a utopian concept that you are defined by your choices. Originally Posted by phildo

Can you not comprehend what you read? No one is arguing the concept of choices.

Funny thing about defining your choices... Did anyone definitively force you to type out this lame shit:

But this I do know...you can probably fuck a clutch WAY better than me because I don't fuck clutches. You probably use ribbed pedal covers. When it's cold outside you can always use a spatula. Bareback. With butter flavored PAM. I hope all the poor losers lame enough to pay you for a piece of that chubby pie are now aware of what you do in your free time. Tell me, does it make the pedal sticky, or slippery? Originally Posted by phildo

What?????

I've heard 4 y/o crotchfruit more coherent than that.

Let the WK and over the hill lezbo support group games begin. Originally Posted by phildo

You're just saying that because I didn't give Grace my McRibb coupon.

Meh.....

In the spirit of staying on topic... would you please go out and cheat on your wife, then tell her about it and report back.

Thancks.

Note to self: Hot nurse has a brain and writes well. Phildo may need a new brain from the wizard in the Emerald City and was probably not an English major.

On topic: Phildo what do you think your wife will want to talk about after you mention that you cheated on her and share some of your reviews? Do you think she will be angry? Will it matter that you and her have not had sex in months? Why?

I understand that you disagree with THN, but part of disagreeing necessitates presenting what you think is the correct answer.

So, that was pretty much an attack. Hope points are awarded.

Let's take it back a notch and refrain from the insulting remarks here. We can bicker and banter but let's try to get some civility back in the thread..

LMOA, the better question should be, "Why do women love guys that cheat on them?"

The same answer can be found in, "Why do girls always go for the cool asshole instead of someone who worships them and would eat the corn out of their shit?"

Let's take it back a notch and refrain from the insulting remarks here. We can bicker and banter but let's try to get some civility back in the thread.. Originally Posted by Mojojo

Ah, sorry. ;-)

HELLUVA good thread! Thanks OP for getting it rolling.

Corollary thought: hottnurse, you definitely have it together. Your posts are spot on.

Its complicated. I'll try and explain it the best I can with a few words as possible.

Basically, married women begin to feel put out or that they have sacrificed their life and goals for the family. They start to resent their husband because they think he is living his life goals and she is a mere stepping stone to his achievements in life. So she eventually doesn't feel like giving any "more" of herself because she thinks she has given enough already.

I'm NOT saying it's right. And she probably knows her perceptions are jaded but then that creates guilt and a vicious inner cycle ensues where you ain't getting shit from her and she'll be goddamned if you get it from anywhere else because if she has to sacrifice herself so much (again, this is perceived and part of the cycle) then dammit so should you.

This doesn't describe every situation but I'm guessing it describes most of them.

Hope that helps.



Best course of action is to hobby as much as you need to to keep your marriage happy and respect your family enough to keep it totally hidden. You can't fix her and she can't fix you. Best to just roll with it especially if you have kids. Divorce just isn't worth it. There are exceptions but only in extreme situations. Originally Posted by thathottnurse

Excellent post! You have gotten a lot smarter than you used to be!!
I'll bet a lot of men don't see themselves as anything but slaves to the dollar.

She wants dick, she just doesn't want your dick. Look at how she drools over Magic Mike or Johnny Depp.

The marriage vows that have no flexibility and are lifetime commitments many people make before they're even fully grown(brains don't finish developing until around 25) are just insane. We don't allow irrevocable contracts regardless of change in the parties financial, mental, or physical conditions in any other sphere. Why does it make sense to make a lifetime commitment to someone you've dated for a year or so when you were barely an adult?

It's fortunately something younger people aren't dealing with as much as the older generation. Younger people are delaying marriage and families. The average age of a first marriage in 1963, according to the census, was 22.8 for men and 20.5 for women. That's when most of the boomers were starting to get married. In 2003 it was 27.1 for men and 25.3 for women.

Still a ridiculous contract from any businessman or businesswoman's point of view. Throw in societal/family expectations/pressures and the lack of experience/development of the typical dating couple and it's really a no brainer that sexual compatibility issues develop in many relationships. Originally Posted by dmcleod

If marriage is such a ridiculous concept, why do all the faggots want to get married now?
Anyway, I think women get mad because they have an emotional commitment and public image intertwined with the marriage.