What make Hobbyist choose a FBSM session over a GFE session

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I'll give you few reasons off the top of my head.

Melissa and Elizabeth (XTC)

Gwen, Eve, Priscilla, and BeBe (Le Femme)

Most didn't outright offer FS sessions and most are extremely beautiful women with fantastic figures. There were some extras that could be gotten at either place (not saying these listed ladies offered them or not) so it was, like mentioned, to see how far one could go.

I was always a FS guy and Wayward finally talked me into a Le Femme session with a beautiful lady named Eve. He kept telling me how good a FBSM massage was, but I just didn't buy into it. Finally, after seeing Eve, I bought into it.

I wouldn't say that the FBSM sessions were cheaper, as the cost of tip plus door was right at 140, while a trip to see one of Juniors girls was 160 for a full hour with two rings. There were a couple of times where I weighed a full hour with Wildcat Maria breaking my balls, or having a very sensual session with Melissa who would be a 10 in anybodies book. Sometimes eye candy won out versus a MSOG full service session. Plus Melissa was so good the way she did her FBSM, it felt like you were really 'in' her, but you weren't. One time with Melissa I 'released' in about 5 minutes and she looked at me kind of funny. I couldn't help it, she was so beautiful and like a dream girl to me, and the way she would look into your eyes. I still got 30 minutes with her, but still......................... that was one great session I will never forget.

Bottom line is this. There are several reasons to choose a FBSM over a full service session and vice versa.

As someone who loves massage sessions, here's my take:

A real GFE experience is about giving and receiving attention. At it's best, it's a hot encounter with a sexy woman without the entanglements that are common in the civilian world.

A massage experience is about receiving attention. It's not about give-and-take, it's about being pampered for an hour or so.

Two different things; two different experiences.

Where it blurs is when you click with the therapist, she gets turned on, and welcomes some reciprocation. Being a gentleman, I've been known to offer DATY; it's not about "getting more" in that case, it's about not leaving an aroused woman frustrated. Since it's something I enjoy doing, it's certainly not a burden.

I agree with BP.

If a FBSM lady wants to maintain the distinction, then don't accept the offer of a mutual massage or Daty or Whatever. Just say "No thanks" and keep giving.

What makes provider's want extended sessions over the typical 1 hour session? They want to get more out of it, just like some guys choose to out of a FBSM session...
This is best summarised by the " more bang for your buck " fugure of speech

We as hobbyists want " more bang for our buck "

you as providers want " more buck for your bang "

But if you give me a good bang for my buck, i believe a tip is always in good order.

I went to a provider who I have yet to do a review on. She advertised an hour FBSM. In 10 min she asked me to flip and she started straight for mr happy. I promptly stopped her and left paying her fora bit less than half of her fee. I felt like I was in the pit of a NASCAR pit with the pit crew rushing to finish. Originally Posted by Mentalfloss

What a waste of such a nice ass!

With me, it has nothing to do with funds. As a matter of fact, it seems to me that the fees for a FBSM and GFE are more blurred than the actual activities. For the most part, I prefer a full service session over a FBSM. However, I have paid as much for a FBSM as a FS session, simply because the girl had a particular look I desired. I'll settle for L1, or L2 in a heart beat if the girl has a particular look I find appealing.
On another note, while I do enjoy a good LMT or RMT quality massage, nothing is hotter to me than having a suspicion that an LMT or RMT may actually offer a little something extra, and finding out that your suspicions were correct. Over the years I have paid top dollar for a number of legitimate massages hoping and suspecting that there might be a little something extra. And I would say that in the vast majority of cases, I haven't been disappointed. I've received L1 from a number of LMT's or RMT's who caution strongly in their ads that no sexual favors will be provided, so don't even ask!
I'm not going to betray a LMT or RMT by giving out any names (even by PM) but Houston has some smoking hot professionals that can more than compete with the bodyrub gals.

I think Blow Pop nailed it.

Hobbyist can sometimes forget that regardless of how "nice" a Lady might seem, this is still a Business. I know the lines can get blurred when it really does seem like both Parties are connecting.

I feel safe in saying that my ATF and I have about as good of a "provider-client" relationship as two Adults could have. She knows that when she is going to see me, it is going to take up the better part of a morning or afternoon. But, as a Client, I am well aware that for Her to give me this level of attention, I must be willing to do my part, and we all know what that is, compensating Her for Her time.

On the flip side, ........ Originally Posted by MrSmith8691

There you have it.

I'm with Gymrat on this one. There are times for both gfe and fbsm. But sometimes you go to fbsm girl that is not known to do any extras, just to see if perhaps you click enough with her to have her do more. It's kind of a turnon to believe (although probably not true), that you are the only or one of the few to get extras with that fbsm girl.

Of course sometimes, you just want a sure thing.

One thing I have always believed is this: FBSM can happen and the lady can wear hospital greens.

Point is that when you are on the massage table you are either face down staring at the floor, in a room with dim lights, soft relaxation music, maybe some scented candles... so its her touch that stimulates.
When she flips you over, you are still in that same environment and now you are looking up, your head is not propped up to look around.

Personally I enjoy the experience either way since I went in there to get relaxed.

For the following reasons, most of my hobby experiences so far have been FBSM:

1. I like a good massage.

2. Like Rafe, I like the skin on skin feeling of HJs.

3. I don't enjoy wearing a cover.

4. When I'm paying for sexual relief, I like my partner to do the work.

5. A good FBSM is usually less expensive than good FS.

6. There's probably less chance of getting an STD with FBSM than FS.

7. My wife is cool with me getting FBSMs, and she has gotten them for herself.

I've always been FBSM only. GFE for me, is really just for SO's. I guess I don't really feel like I'm cheating if I'm getting a massage and the massuese just happens to work on my special muscle. I usually only FBSM after I have worked out or are really in need of a massage, his gives me added incentI've to exercise and the massage is at least half, if not 68% of the experience for me. I usually don't MSOG and really am OK with that. I also like having a clear conscience when medical providers as if I've has sex with any sex workers (I know, kind of Clintonesqe, but it works for me.). Lastly, I'd be lying if I said VD wasn't on my mind when considering FS or BBBJ.