Isabella Arias, Honesty, and the Three Minute Warning

Complete BULLSHIT on her part. Some of y'all too scared to say it, so I'll say it. 3 minutes before, by email??? That's some bullshit. What if you walked up without a way to get an instant email?

An appointment should be treated like a binding agreement, only breakable by uncontrollable circumstances...i.e. fender bender, family emergency, arrested, jumped on, etc. Breaking a binding agreement because the devil offered more money just shows how low one's character is. If he did that shit to her, she'd likely be raising all kinds of hell, would probably want a 'cancellation fee' because of the 'time wasted' setting up and preparing for the appointment, and would put you on some kind of no see list.

I felt it was pertinent information for the community. Originally Posted by DSK

Well, a quick NC/NS should be enough.

It looks like just looking for drama.

It does suck, and she is in the wrong. But starting a thread and waiting for her to respond sounds... well...

But you know what, good for you. I have no problem.

Fuck her in her fuck hole with a dump truck full of dildos...

This is not going to help her reputation

Complete BULLSHIT on her part. Some of y'all too scared to say it, so I'll say it. 3 minutes before, by email??? That's some bullshit. What if you walked up without a way to get an instant email?

An appointment should be treated like a binding agreement, only breakable by uncontrollable circumstances...i.e. fender bender, family emergency, arrested, jumped on, etc. Breaking a binding agreement because the devil offered more money just shows how low one's character is. If he did that shit to her, she'd likely be raising all kinds of hell, would probably want a 'cancellation fee' because of the 'time wasted' setting up and preparing for the appointment, and would put you on some kind of no see list. Originally Posted by Randall Creed

Well, I requested she use my email.

It is a burner email, I temporarily put it on my phone, it is as quick as an instant message, and I delete the account off my phone before I get home.

While I'm sure the FBI could get it if they cared, I doubt a divorce attorney would ever find it, or the deleted emails between me and the provider.

P.S. You are right about the cancellation fee. I would have expected to pay a provider, and I would have, if I cancelled at the last moment. In fact, I have paid under those circumstances, and felt it was fair.

However, I'm not asking her for anything except for the truth, if she chooses to respond.

DSK, this is a very interesting post to say the least. I had a confirmed 11:15 AM appointment scheduled with her, I had set up and confirmed the day before on P411.

Later in the afternoon, after confirming through PMs on P411, she made the effort to push me to 10:00 AM, but I could not change my schedule.

The morning of the appointment, I sent her a couple of messages on P411, crickets.

So 1 hour before the appointment, I sent her a text asking "is this going to happen, or not". Was not going to drive downtown until I heard from her.

I did get a apologetic response, stating the same reasons given to you, and asking to reschedule that afternoon.

Shit happens, I'm easy going, no hard feelings, except that she would have been moved to bottom of my list. Then I read your post, double booking? Double cancellations? I will have to rethink leaving her on my list. Originally Posted by Jarhead Ret

Perfectly stated, and also very interesting. I think she was being honest and communicated at a decent enough level, just made some rookie mistakes, and didn't think it through very well at all.

Hopefully, she will learn from this and become more organized and a top provider.

DSK have you heard anything from her , like a make up date . I guess to , that is strange she has never even responded to this thread.

DSK have you heard anything from her , like a make up date . I guess to , that is strange she has never even responded to this thread. Originally Posted by crunchtime

She offered a makeup date several times, but I declined. Fool me once.....

DSK, sorry you got the run around.
good news - she communicated the cancellation.
not so good news - she cancelled.

Well, a quick NC/NS should be enough.

It looks like just looking for drama.

It does suck, and she is in the wrong. But starting a thread and waiting for her to respond sounds... well...

But you know what, good for you. I have no problem.

Fuck her in her fuck hole with a dump truck full of dildos... Originally Posted by needingmilking

a NC/NS is where the provider or client doesnt make a scheduled & possibly confirmed appointment and DOES NOT contact the other person.

this was a last minute [literally] cancellation by the provider.
and i think this is a reasonable way to post the info.

needingmilking, if you wanna call this "looking for drama", that's your call.
i dont think of it that way, more like info sharing.
just a difference of opinion. [havent reviewed DSK's posting history to know if this is isolated or frequent].


what's amazing to me is that isabella arias [apparently] informed him of why she cancelled - cos another client wanted a longer appointment.
i can see where she might have decided that cos it was "best" for her.
but letting her original client know "sorry, i got a better deal." is not so cool, at least in my book.

at the least, prospective clients can now know and/or learn about her treatment in this kind of situation, which might be possibly predictive of future situations.

Wasting someone's gas & precious time is NOT cool. She canceled 3 minutes before the appointment!??!!!? Smh that's bullshit

What happened to discretion? Why in the world would a provider tell a gent, 3 minutes before their scheduled appt, that she is canceling for a longer one? That shows NO class. She seems to have zero respect for her potential client base. I'm shocked that this sort of behavior is even being brought up. Too bad some of the hookers have no TCB skills. SMH.