Speak my name...

Lively discussion...well, ladies, I hereby grant you permission to say my name...scream it, yell it, beg it, damn it, curse it, whatever. Come to think of it, I just remembered when I call you from the parking lot to say "Hi! This is ____ and I'm here!", it's followed by a second of silence from you, now I know why! OK, next time it will be "Hi! This is Prolongus and I'm here!"

I'm sure I'm not the only one who thought of this:

Part of my P411 handle is my first name so if I send a request from there she knows what it is and I am okay with that. Yeah, it would be nice if she used my name BCD but a generic sweetie or baby is fine. After all, I doubt that I am so memorable that she will make a special effort to remember my given name. Just being a realist...

OK, next time it will be "Hi! This is Prolongus and I'm here!" Originally Posted by Prolongus

I wouldn't try this if I were you. I did and the provider hung up on me. I called back using my handle and it was all good. *whew*

Part of my P411 handle is my first name so if I send a request from there she knows what it is and I am okay with that. Yeah, it would be nice if she used my name BCD but a generic sweetie or baby is fine. After all, I doubt that I am so memorable that she will make a special effort to remember my given name. Just being a realist... Originally Posted by oldmarine

She could call you devil dog or jarhead instead

I would rather she just call me, lol. That would be real turn on!

Calling me "babe" or "sweetie" or "hon" is a deal breaker for me. It reinforces that I am not a real person to them. I understand why they do it. But it's a turnoff.

Part of my P411 handle is my first name so if I send a request from there she knows what it is and I am okay with that. Yeah, it would be nice if she used my name BCD but a generic sweetie or baby is fine. After all, I doubt that I am so memorable that she will make a special effort to remember my given name. Just being a realist... Originally Posted by oldmarine

Gotta disagree. I wouldn't expect her to remember my name if I met her at a social a month after seeing me. But, I do expect her to know my name when were meeting for a session. It's not that difficult to remember one name for one hour. If I'm meeting a client, you can be certain I will know his or her name. I expect the same courtesy from an escort, although it does not seem to be that common. It's little things like knowing and using my name that help provide the IOP and make me want to repeat.

Gotta disagree. I wouldn't expect her to remember my name if I met her at a social a month after seeing me. But, I do expect her to know my name when were meeting for a session. It's not that difficult to remember one name for one hour. If I'm meeting a client, you can be certain I will know his or her name. I expect the same courtesy from an escort, although it does not seem to be that common. It's little things like knowing and using my name that help provide the IOP and make me want to repeat. Originally Posted by Valentine Michael

+1000...Couldn't have said it any better, VM.

I think the reverse is true, as well. I prefer knowing and using the providers real first name once we get acquainted. Something about CandyBambiSexyDiamondCrystalLo veyHottyMuffin just takes away from the inimacy. Sorry, just the way my mind works.

I'm partial to "Papi" or "Fucker"...

W.

Fortunately, my real name is Babe Studmuffin, so I rarely have this problem.

I'm partial to "Papi" or "Fucker"... Originally Posted by Wildstar

Oh, yeah: A is Colombian by descent, and when she looks up at me and says in her babydoll voice, "Please Papi?"

Works every time...

I wouldn't try this if I were you. I did and the provider hung up on me. I called back using my handle and it was all good. *whew* Originally Posted by CenterLock

LMAO!! Actually, she hung up on you because I was already there...

The way to avoid getting a guy's name wrong is easy: just call all your clients "john." Works for me.

I had a session a few years ago where the young lady said, as she gave me one final kiss as I walked out the door, "I'll never forget our time together, Bill." Haha. Originally Posted by ShysterJon

how about the woman just shouts out "Oh God!!! ... that's fucking incredible!!!! let's do it again!!!"

I will always use first names when we're together. Here on the boards though is a different story. ... Originally Posted by Avery Blake

i agree, if it's past the first few visits and i really enjoy being with you, i'd like to have each of us call each other by our given/birth names. talk about intimate!!

Bill or George! Anything but Sue! Originally Posted by txh64

tho, i will accept being called most anything but late to dining at the Y and all the other alphabetic acronyms!!!