Swinging Question(s)

Thankfully this is NOT the norm.

Sorry D.G. for not introducing myself to your hole group Originally Posted by willdooit@yahoo.com

Don't be a d*ck.

Dorian this is par for the course in swingers clubs. You get tired old couples that go every time the doors are open. I always brief new swingers on this. They use the female to try to sway the female away from a male that has brought her. I had a girl bring a card back from a bathroom handed it right to me and said, "You were right she want's me to meet them without you." We were promptly moved up to prime real estate to hang out with couples that really wanted to play.

Wasn't it also rude of your friends to leave you alone at the table? I think I'd be more offended by them than the strangers. Originally Posted by RickO'shayRabbitt

+1.

Wasn't it also rude of your friends to leave you alone at the table? I think I'd be more offended by them than the strangers.

Just my take. Originally Posted by RickO'shayRabbitt

I would say no since they actually asked if it was okay to go over there as they had the intent to bring the couple over to our area, or at least make introductions then I come over.

Dorian this is par for the course in swingers clubs. You get tired old couples that go every time the doors are open. I always brief new swingers on this. They use the female to try to sway the female away from a male that has brought her. I had a girl bring a card back from a bathroom handed it right to me and said, "You were right she want's me to meet them without you." We were promptly moved up to prime real estate to hang out with couples that really wanted to play. Originally Posted by technoid_x

If you don't like/need/want me that's cool. Just say it to my face.

Don't go Ethan Hunt Mission:Impossible. Small enough community as is. We don't need to douches to each other like that

It was rude.

I was with a girl and we had a rule. We have to be introduced to whom ever wants to play with either of us.

We were FWB only but that is what we agreed on.

Maybe establish rules and there wont be any questions.

Why are there so many couples looking for only ladies at the Swingers Club? I'm pretty sure swingers is a plural word. Do they realistically think there will be 4-7 single ladies per couple there alone to take home or play with on site?

I'm obviously not offended by the idea of sharing who I'm with in a fair and equitably agreement. So why do I/ we keep running into other couples who think we're mental cases for swapping couple action?

Maybe our approach is wrong. Any thoughts?

my understanding is that Swing clubs are open to whatever one wants. I went to club cave once and a very friendly gal was there with her hubby and they were there only for a gang bang w/ bbc's.
Others were only looking for girls for a threesome. A single gal and I hooked up. later an older couple approached me and the guy wanted me to play with his wife. A little bit for everyone...though some nights are dead.

I do know someone who plays w/ a swinger's group out of Lago Vista, a rich suburb of Austin. The rules of that club are "full swing/switch" and couples take turns hosting at their houses.

some other folks have told me to look into "Fetlife.com". There is something on there for everyone and they even have local groups. There were over 500 members alone in the Katy area. Lots of boring vanilla people that aren't so boring after all--just trying to get their freak on. good for them.