So I have a question

I don't know about you but my blue balls are a danger to my well being and those within close proximity. Originally Posted by pyramider

Awww, that does sound very serious. The next time a provider NCNS you, call me right away and I will give you a 50% discount.

cuzzzz ima prfessanal.

Oh, on topic .... NCNS should have there own forum.

When I find a girl that I want to see on 411, I come here to my little home on the net to do some research. I hit the little search button and type her name or her phone number or something in it the little box. I then scroll down to Houston and select Indy Reviews and click the little Search button at the bottom.

I READ THAT SHIT!

Then I go back to the little search page again and scroll to Alerts and click the little search button again.

AND I READ THAT SHIT!

Then I make an informed decision. Fuck Coed! Fuck the SandBox!

Leave em in alert or make a forum.

When I(as any hobbyist worth his salt) takes time to research on who I choose to book with I like to know if she has a track record of blowing off clients. Most of the time I have to make plans within plans to get away. If a mission to hook up fails to go through because she just doesn't "give a shit"? Then that really pisses me off. My time is just as valuable as hers. And if the Alerts section isn't clearly defined for this subject then it should be. Or a whole separate forum needs to be established.

When I(as any hobbyist worth his salt) takes time to research on who I choose to book with I like to know if she has a track record of blowing off clients. Most of the time I have to make plans within plans to get away. If a mission to hook up fails to go through because she just doesn't "give a shit"? Then that really pisses me off. My time is just as valuable as hers. And if the Alerts section isn't clearly defined for this subject then it should be. Or a whole separate forum needs to be established. Originally Posted by Out_of_Bounds

Depends...

If it is just some hooker sitting in a fleabag motel room all day churning out customers left and right at $100 a pop.. then your time is waaaaaaaay more valuable.

If it is a true professional lady that see's very few clients and holds down a real job 9-5 and goes to school a few nights a week. And she spends 30-60 minutes getting showered and dressed and ready for her date and cleans the in-call and gets the candles lit.. so on so on..

I'm rambling.. but what I mean is the girl in the fleabag hotel.. if you don't show.. no big deal, she'll knock out some 10 min up-sell BP dumb ass in your place.

But the girl in example two. If you don't show.. shit man, she could have been studying for a test or doing homework, getting much needed sleep.

I THINK NC/NS IS A PROBLEM WITH THE MEN AND THE WOMEN AND I THINK THAT EVERY CASE OF IT SHOULD BE NOTED! EVERY CASE. I HAVE NEVER NC/NS A GIRL AND NEVER WILL.

I think every provider should be able to search a guy by his handle and see if he has a habit of NC/NS on other ladies, and vice versa for the girls.


Peace out.

IMO many of the alert threads aren't alert worthy either but they are still posted there. That forum as it exists is somewhat useless.

NCNS don't have a place on the board as the forums are currently defined except for maybe the mens lounge or the ladies powder room. That of course dosen't give the provider or the hobbyist the opportunity for a rebuttal which may be the best way to do it as most rebuttals turn into he said she said pissing contests anyway.

JAD,

I hear ya. I feel it belongs in coed because NC/NS are he said/she said. Very rarely will we know the facts. I noticed many NCNS reviews in Dallas for example. Those should not be there because the sessions never happened IMO. I am not trying to bust the mod's chops about this. NC/NS certainly should not be in review section b/c the provider cannot comment there to defend herself. As we all know two sides to every story.

A NC/NS is of course hobby related and by definition of coed forums... the he said/she said debate is entertaining.....

Hmmm maybe I made the argument right there that NC/NS are coed appropriate

sixx Originally Posted by sixxbach

Very true.... very true..... but again... it is a "Fits Better" Argument more than a "It absolutely belongs there" kinda deal..... now instead of a sqare peg/round hole, maybe its a roundish-sqared peg and round hole........ I think we are all in agreement that either a redefining of some of the forums, or a new forum altogether is warrented.....

JaD

I think we are all in agreement that either a redefining of some of the forums, or a new forum altogether is warrented.....

JaD Originally Posted by Jusanotherdude

That's awesome man, good to hear! I hope it something followed across the board. I know from being a mod, that was/is not always the case.

Btw... you are doing a great job from what I have seen! Not that this opinionated, fat fuck's opinion matter.... Just saying!

sixx

That's awesome man, good to hear! I hope it something followed across the board. I know from being a mod, that was/is not always the case.

Btw... you are doing a great job from what I have seen! Not that this opinionated, fat fuck's opinion matter.... Just saying!

sixx Originally Posted by sixxbach

Well..... its in discussion....... I think it would be good for a place where both sides could post, and rebutt, and be easily accessable to all......

And from one "Festively Plump" fella to another.... I really appreciate it my man!

JaD

He is just sucking up JaD.... lol.

He is just sucking up JaD.... lol. Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

ehehehe well I'm hoping he can get my chat banned reversed! 3 months is a travesty!

sixx

I'm actually used to seeing the NC/NS in the "Alerts" section and think that is the most appropriate place. If I recall that's where they were in the Old Board I think. Personally I always check the Alert's and a NC/NS to me (maybe not others) is a noteworthy post.
Going by the Definition as described for it's use in the Board is another issue. It's sort of being too rigid in thinking. It my profession it falls along the lines of being procedurally correct to the point of impact.As someone earlier said I think "Common sense is an uncommon virtue"
On the other hand it could just go in the Reviews section but the same disagreements would pop up.

So, what's the verdict? Where do NC/NS get posted?

P.S.- Someone dropped these...

On the upstate board we place them in the PR. I think the ladies should privately post, we get crap for placing alerts.. I personally give them a few days to contact me to make up for it or explain before I alert. Shit happens sometimes and I dont want to wreck a guy if you know what i mean.

The men place them in the alert section. I think the guys should, its a business and that business screwed you.. Well I guess you wish she screwed you. he he

I think it belongs in the Alert Fourm. I think that both sides should have a chance to be heard. If it’s in the Powder or Locker Room, no one gets an opportunity to repute something that has been posted for all to see that affects their income or leisure. Pretty much not fair in my opinion. Personally, I wouldn’t post an alert on some one for NCNSing or for anything for that matter. If I were ever to see someone that put me in a dangerous situation, I’d give the information to a moderator to post the alert.

I was NCNS’d once. I didn’t post an alert on him, but you can guarantee that every lady that calls me for a reference on him gets told that.

I think y'all are missing the point, but at the same time illustrating the point.

The fact that we're still getting comments/questions about it shows the point I'm trying to make. We'll get through this one step at a time, so even the "special people" among us can get it right.

So mods (and one mod in particular), what forum are NC/NS supposed to be posted in?