If the gal shows up and it's not the one in the pictures, then I'd send her home in a heartbeat and she should be happy if I give her $20 bucks for gas. That's my gentlemanly thing to do. No way in a million years would I pay for the full 2 hours to someone that false advertises.
If I offer you $60K for a used Ferrari you had in the paper and you show up with a beat up camero, I promise you I'm not giving you that $60K. Originally Posted by ScubaBad
In the last month you have had complaints and voiced them on ECCIE about 3 ladies. You called them for appointments, they did not call you. Do your homework before you book. They screen you and make a determination whether to see you or not. Screen them or at least do as much research as possible prior to making a date. First time I would want to know some chemistry was there before scheduling more than one hour. Good luck in the future. Originally Posted by noleftturnwell umm I trying to think I dont recall ever have had any complaints about providers not calling me...not that I rememember,,,can you refresh my memory? Contacting me has never been a problem...
You complained about this lady, Summer . I doubt any of these ladies called you to schedule an appointment. You originated the encounter. What I am saying is do your homework and you will have much more enjoyable times with the ladies. Originally Posted by noleftturnThanks Noleftturn....I understand and homework I do....I had a right to ask the question..not as a complaint but in general how would others handle the same situation...But I guess Im curious How would you do your homework...I went to the website (now gone) looked her over best I could, Saw her reviews on TER and here (now gone.... since she retired she pulled them off)
Well, from this provider's viewpoint, if she really didn't look anything like her advertised photos, you had the right to turn her away with NO money, but you were quite the kind gentleman, and I applaud you for that, sir. However, if you weren't forthright with her, just telling her that the chemistry was off, she did have the right to expect the full amount as she booked those 2 hours for you only and may have lost another opportunity.AWW there's a we bit of Irish in all of us....now I tell ya if I was in Houston we would have been doin a celtic dance tonite babe as u are cute!!
HONESTY is the key word here; she should have been honest before the appointment, admitting to gaining more than a few pounds (and by that I mean 20 or more pounds and more than one dress size) since the last photos were taken, and you should have been honest from the moment she showed up and told her you didn't want to go through with the session as she differed substantially from her snapshots. If she is retiring, not much point writing a review, but if she's just "semi-retired" and likely to be active in the hobby again soon, then, alas, you have a responsibility to the other gentlemen of this board to post a truthful, negative review, and you'll just have to tell your friend that. One bad write-up won't hurt a good provider. In her defense, she may have some medical reason why her weight went up, but again, that could have been discussed while you were "chatting."
Dang, sounds like you went out of your way to set a lovely, romantic mood. Too bad you're not in Houston, but I guess it wouldn't matter since you don't like BBW gals. Otherwise, I'd be delighted to share some tender lovin' care with you, laddie. Originally Posted by Fancyinheels
If the gal shows up and it's not the one in the pictures, then I'd send her home in a heartbeat and she should be happy if I give her $20 bucks for gas. That's my gentlemanly thing to do. No way in a million years would I pay for the full 2 hours to someone that false advertises. Originally Posted by ScubaBad