1st time with escort

Robbed, bait and switch, LE just to name a few what could of happen without any research. Originally Posted by Worldtravler

I actually was paranoid about that so I only had the exact amount of cash on me that she wanted

I'll definitely start researching the girls on this site now though, if only I had known about it beforehand

Honey you shouldn't bareback with anyone unless you are in a committed relationship and both of you have recently been tested .

Just be glad you never knocked anyone up. I would suggest you get tested as well.

As for your "problem" just research, research, research. Find a good Gfe provider. It sounds like all the rules threw you off.

As far as I'm concerned if your cock's never failed you aren't using it enough. Probably just nerves, and look at it this way: I'd guess more guys on their first visit blow super early, so you got a better value. But you should get used to using a condom, just so that it isn't a hang up when it's necessary. You are absolutely lucky your first time calling, searching as you did, that you got an actual provider. Looking for the hottest on BP the odds were you'd get rolled, LE or upsold.

In my best Steve Martin voice: "I remember my first beer too" I know lame attempt at humor-- especially if the OP is as young as I think

Mistake #1-- you went to BP to bust your hobby cherry. Without research, picking a BP girl is the digital equivalent of picking up a hooker on the local street corner. In my best Tom Hanks/Forrest Gump voice: "Life is like a box of chocolate... you don't know what you're going to get." That quote needs to be stapled to the forehead of any monger that uses BP as their sole source of finding an escort.

Mistake #2-- failure to do research. Even a simple google search would have gotten you pages of valuable information about selecting an escort.

Mistake #3-- if you have a friend who is in the know about escorts and the hobby, why not talk to them first before striking out on your own.

You are damn lucky that you didn't run into a ROB (rip-off bitch), cash and dash, the dreaded "not the same girl in the pictures" problem, an LE sting, etc, etc, etc.

Yes, these are all rookie mistakes and most of us have been there or at least somewhere in the same ball park as you, so there is some sympathy.

As for performance issues, you will have to figure that one out on your own. Did you drink a lot before meeting the girl? I know I have the exact opposite problem. It took me nearly 6 encounters with an escort to finally hold my load before entering the promised land. Mind you, I started hobbying in the late 80s/early 90s. This was long before the notion of GFE, MSOG, etc. This was the days of one and done. You cum and then she goes. I would be with these girls. We'd get naked and be ready to start. I was already hard and ready to go. Even the simplest thing of putting on the cover was enough for me to blow my load. It got to the point where I stopped trying to see escorts. I'd just go to the strip club, get a lap dance, cream in my pants and go. Lots cheaper than getting a no-tell motel room and paying $100 or $150 for not much action. At least at the strip club, I could spend 2 hours of my time, selecting the right girl, dropping $20 or $30 for a VIP dance and be out the door fully satisfied for under $50. It wasn't until I actually talked to a provider about my problem. She took it slow with me and finally sealed the deal. Then I got bold and started asking for multiple pops and usually was accepted if I gave a little extra. Now for the most part, the good providers assume MSOG and it isn't about volume of customers.

Cpalmson Is right on target. No pun intended but implied. The last paragraph is the best description of the emotions that hobbyists feel when first starting out. Do all of the research you possibly can (to the point of exhaustion). Then also listen to your gut feeling when setting out on a date. Remember if it quacks like a duck it probably is a duck. Be safe and have the time of your life.

I believe ur problem was all mental babe. Nervous, unsure and anticipation... That might of failed you.

In addition, to a high potential of no chemistry. It happens. Just keep trying. Ur penis is ur GPS haha

I believe ur problem was all mental babe. Nervous, unsure and anticipation... That might of failed you.

In addition, to a high potential of no chemistry. It happens. Just keep trying. Ur penis is ur GPS haha Originally Posted by MissGeisha

Very good insight MissGeisha. I like the Penis Gps correlation. While being witty you actually explained it perfectly. Thank You

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Mind you, I started hobbying in the late 80s/early 90s. This was long before the notion of GFE, MSOG, etc. This was the days of one and done. You cum and then she goes.

Great post, but I assume you mean for yourself. They might not have called it GFE & MSOG, but I'm pretty sure those things have been happening since long before Aristotle.

You are getting some good advice. And some jerking around, but that's normal.

Few hobbyists report that their first experience was the best. It gets better and better and better. Trust me!

Your issue was almost certainly nerves. I could barely get it up my first time. Now, many years later I have no trouble. What you'll learn is that most of the researched and reputable ladies are genuine an decent and not there to rip you off. As you gain confidence in that you'll find your performance skyrockets. And the condoms won't affect you. They actually help me. When I put one on, my brain knows it's show time!

All the best. Keep at it, you'll do fine.

My first couple of times I also had the same problem, but I am a little older too.Shortly after getting into the hobby I discovered the magic of Vitalikor before the FDA made them yank it from the shelves(but not before I scored enough to last a couple of years), haven't had a problem since.In your case it could have just been nerves.Suit up and try again.

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You should not be in this hobby if you were unable to read, research and decide for yourself. If you constantly gauge the value of the pussy with the price paid, you are too logical for this hobby. If you don't change your handle, and understand why, you should not be in this hobby...strike three, you're out!

STOP BEATING OFF TO PORN!! masturbating to porn and ED, one begets the other...