First rejection by provider cause of weight

you are fat....echem....very well marbled.....a big ol' boy.....a big fucker.....very chunky.....a big eater.....a butter ball.....a bacon double cheese burger with fries lover.....a couch potato.......a meat and potato man..... Originally Posted by Invisible1

why is it WE are all of these things, while the Chicks are BBW or Rubenesque?

why is it WE are all of these things, while the Chicks are BBW or Rubenesque? Originally Posted by Chung Tran

Because WE don't have the vaginas.

When you are not looking for a vagina, then they may be all those things too. It is just how the system works

What about these providers that say 5 ft 3 145 and you get to the room & 145 goes to 175. It has happened to me in Shreveport I guess the look on my face was a give away but she could tell I was fixing to run she said lets have a drink I agreed after about 10 mins of talking with her & just half a drink she said she wanted to give me a blow job what the hell the next thing I know we are in bed had one hell of a time. Saw her 4 more times all where great times. I miss her don't know what happened to her I will always remember her when I her stuff like this.

I have a difficult time seeing REALLY over weight men. Not because I'm a bitch. It's because I had a very over weight guy die on me during a session. Having a session with a really over weight guy triggers me and causes me anxieties. So therefore, I normally avoid sessions with really over weight men. Originally Posted by Kayleehotchick

Just.. HOLY HELL...
I've dealt with the dead and/or dying over the years at an impersonal level. I CANNOT even fathom this at a personal interaction level. That you didn't hang it up and say FUCK THIS NOISE speaks volume of your resiliency. Hats off.

Someone else will take you money, Originally Posted by D.G.

that's right!

Just.. HOLY HELL...
I've dealt with the dead and/or dying over the years at an impersonal level. I CANNOT even fathom this at a personal interaction level. That you didn't hang it up and say FUCK THIS NOISE speaks volume of your resiliency. Hats off. Originally Posted by AmericanIdiot

Yeah...it left some emotional scars for sure.

On the bright side, you did fuck him to death. Lots of guys would love to move on that way. Yet, I have to admit, there isn't much more to the bright side. Kinda like the movie " Leaving Las Vegas" ...... except the lady was on top and Nicholas Cage played a thin unmarried alcoholic rather than a married fat guy.

Her body her rules. To me, your stats don't make you over weight. I'm 5'9, 160. So, I can handle a beefier gent. These lil 5' 100 # girls sometimes have difficulty. Don't worry about it and move on. There is someone for everyone! Have fun and hobby safely! :-*

To echo others advise...just move on to someone else.

To add a funny story-I once saw someone a few years back when I was running quite a bit (say 40 miles a week) and racing trail runs. I was asked multiple times if I was "sick" or "had cancer" and quizzed prior to the session.

It's all someones subjective opinion.

I, too, have been rejected cause of my weight! I was also dumbfounded. He never met me and trying to convince me that at 5'7", 145 lbs is too heavy. Then he followed that by asking "How old are your pictures?". At that point, I was offended and told him that we would not be a good match. Well, I guess he didn't really reject me…but he questioned my weight! Ggggrrrrr!!!!

I am laughing hard at some of ur posts..
First I am medically obesed but medically healthy (at least at last doctor visit). I am not body builder type but I am not fat enough to play golf. Soccer, softball...or anything else....
I am not loosing my weight for some bitch who fuck 8+ dicks a day who thinks I am fat.
Kaylee sorry some fat guy died on u but it could been any guy not just fat.
Samantha, u don't look fat on pic. Even u gained weight since pic some guys will love u... Plenty guys want softness and plenty guy hate chopstick. Sorry, I didn't get to meet u last year.
I have about 10 ladies who cleared so I am not sweating... Definitely I have choices in DFW ... But I am still dumbfounded..

Nothing personal and I don't mean to offend anyone but two points:
1: if she hasn't seen you, hearing 6' and 230 lbs, she may gave a picture in her mind of how that looks and it may differ from actual looks.
2: how many times do we look at a provider's showcase and pass on her because of her weight.
Isn't it all just personnal preference?

6', 230 lb. I understand BMI, but that's a short major league outfielder's body these days.

Was this part of her screening process or was this information you just thought she should know?

Guys, now you realise why providers prefer the silence treatment versus honesty when she doesnt want to see someone.

She is dammed if she does, she is dammed if she doesnt.

It doesnt matter if you think her decision is right, wrong or stupid. Her bodies, her rules. Move on.