JJand not making it feel like you are is the trick... which is my point! Transactions aren't sexy... to me. Thanks for the assist
Unless I missed something, we are paying for someones time. Originally Posted by Dawg
NTT, over the years, a lot of ladies have told me they do get to read the BCD sections and that much of what is written there is fantasy, as in never happened. Embellishment happens on both sides of the aisle! Originally Posted by hughhefner
when a provider shows up dressed like a date,and not that she was working a street corner,friendly smiles a hug and a kiss.has good conversation,not in a rush.dislike the ones who say"where is the donation and where do we play" Originally Posted by ekim008
Don't you guys just hate it when a girl thinks the hour (or two) is over, and she gets up to dress and leave because she thinks the first time is all you get. That is what it means by getting screwed. No afterglow for you, and no repeat calls for her.
a girl knows i have been enjoying my time .............rather than her trying to figure out a good exit strategy. when i shell out good $ for a womans company i am in no hurry to be rid of her............ but the girl who realizes i enjoy having her charms and talents for every second of our booked time is the girl who gets repeat bz and referrals. Originally Posted by petiteassman
Then you should put the money where she doesn't have to ask for it. I am pretty specific on my site about that and I have no problem standing there smiling vaguely with a significant eyebrow until that is all settled. If you make me ask you for it I'm going to be irritated because it is either a petty little power game or you are just kind of an ass. I'm not under any delusions that "they can't arrest you" if you don't specifically ask about the money. But if you want to be treated like a date and not a trick you need to act like one. Originally Posted by SillyGirlI didn't realize that was such an issue, sorry to hear.
No afterglow for you, and no repeat calls for her.Even if there is no second cup in the future (due to time or policy), it is still appreciated when the lady takes some time to enable the experience to sink in. Let me catch my breath. Sigh a bit, produce happy noises, and make positive comments about the experience. It all goes back to making me think you enjoyed the time spent.
A little kindness on her part is appreciated. Originally Posted by JRLawrence
Then you should put the money where she doesn't have to ask for it. I am pretty specific on my site about that and I have no problem standing there smiling vaguely with a significant eyebrow until that is all settled. If you make me ask you for it I'm going to be irritated because it is either a petty little power game or you are just kind of an ass. I'm not under any delusions that "they can't arrest you" if you don't specifically ask about the money. But if you want to be treated like a date and not a trick you need to act like one. Originally Posted by SillyGirlI am too old to chase em down when they cash and dash,and I hate to shoot 'em The ones who state to have the money where they can get it I never call