Always nice to see you interpret things with your own spin.
On more than one occasion I have seen the rule interpreted quite differently by mods, to the expressed end that the AUTHOR can, if he wishes, share the review with the lady in question.
Seems a perfectly good way to ensure accuracy, and to prevent YMMV extras put into a review that later cause serious grief because some asshole assumes that if he read it in a review then HE is owed it--even when her website says it is not on the menu. One lady in TN was killed years ago because she allowed greek to a regular as a YMMV, he put that in his review, and when another guy demanded it and she refused, he beat her to death. He even used that as part of his defense at his trial.
Of course the review should be honest, but sharing it in advance does not make it dishonest.
Originally Posted by Old-T
I have raised this issue in the past and it was determined it is okay to share the review with the Provider BEFORE it is posted.
And for some of the same reasons Old T posted. Never had a problem with them trying to rewrite everything. My main reason to do such is so that I don't reveal anything that might not be available to everyone else or points that might breech their comfort in security.
Doesn't always work. One Provider ok'd a review I wrote and then contacted me out of the blue later on trying to get me to change something because it brought up things about the incall. They should have noted that before they green lighted it for me.
Sharing reviews once they've been posted is verbotten.