Importance or lack thereof of a fit client

Portly??? Is that the word of the week? That is the second time this week I have heard that... Originally Posted by Pirate6767

Such a dignified word. Always loved that word.

And "in shape?" Round is a shape, right?

. . . or cant have now that we are past the age of decrepid Originally Posted by peevee0931

Speak for yourself. Some of us are only at the age of decrepitude!!"

Don't get me wrong...muscles can be sexy, but a lot of times in my experience, a big ego comes along with those big muscles. Originally Posted by Reese Foster

That's the male version of the GPS (golden pussy syndrome) is golden pec syndrome.

Reese darling what a quality statement - i love your mom bod !!!!

In my experience, the providers, more than anything, appreciate my good hygeine. I'm older, in pretty good shape, but far from a cross fit body. I'm healthy. I must have good genes because I am constantly told I don't look my age (inside and outside the hobby) but when I describe myself to a provider it's "I'm fun, easy to be with and VERY well groomed". Never had anyone hesitate to see me a second time.

I agree that hygiene is probably more important. I'm mid 50s and in good enough shape to lay the pipe ! I was a cross fitter for a long time so I have endurence ! I always bathe and dress attractively for appointments even if I know we will have shower playtime.

I also laugh at this type of question and flip the script. Most men could never be providers because we couldn't get it up for less attractive customers. Our beautiful providers get all credit for putting up with our old asses. I prefer older late 30s to 40s for their sexy attitudes and excellent IOP. Or in some cases (THN & AT ) real passion !

a lot of times in my experience, a big ego comes along with those big muscles. Originally Posted by Reese Foster

I've also heard these big muscle guys have an extremely small penis. So another thing for girls to consider.

Bottom line is they tough it out and do it. If they held out for "fit" guys they would go broke. More importantly, for the first time, I'M UNDER REESE !!!!!!! Originally Posted by rcinokc

We need to remedy that and make it happen in person.

Amen! Same thing applies to most women as well...

I've met some Cross Fit girls, amazing bodies and hours of work to get them. But attitude 100 mile long. No thanks. Give me healthy average woman, with an inviting personality and I'm good! Originally Posted by Billy Babitt

There is nothing worse than a person liking themselves a little too much. A long..long time ago, I had a friend who liked himself so much, I didn't even need to be in the room with him. He honestly didn't even notice I was there...other than the suction from my mouth and a hole to put it in. It was so boring and believe it or not. He really thought I LOVED it...and not because I told him that I did.

That's the male version of the GPS (golden pussy syndrome) is golden pec syndrome. Originally Posted by Hercules

Lol...it sucks!

Reese darling what a quality statement - i love your mom bod !!!! Originally Posted by silverstate53

Thank you. Your Dad bod is quite awesome as well.

I've also heard these big muscle guys have an extremely small penis. So another thing for girls to consider. Originally Posted by Luke Skywalker

OR... they have a dick to match those muscles and then it's even worse.

I agree with the hygiene statement. It is the most important thing to me in who I see and I make sure that I am as impeccable as I can possibly be also. I always inquire if a shower is available if I am not coming directly from home and right out of the shower before I leave. That means all of the nooks and crannies are scrubbed and washed. And I am not just talking about the obvious ones. Ones like the crease under the moobs, The crease where the belly rolls over, etc.

That being said, I have found that everyone always loves the guy that brings the keg to the party and not just a six pack!!!

The way I see it shape and size are not important, clean and respectable is. I have met skinny men who were jerks, and big men who were nice.

kinda warms my heart. when i was an inshape guy i had a bit of an ego i admit, now that im fluffy i dont yet have a great sense of humor and alwasy try to make people laugh. thanks ladies.

There is no wrong or right answer here. Females are too damn complex.

I stay extremely fit doing marathons, crossfit.com workouts and usually maintain 6 pack abs. I've never had a problem getting dates and felt like I could pretty much take my pick over the years. Still, I attempt very hard to not repulse the providers.

Some providers, its like I'm on a real date and we are intensely passionate. Time seems to fly. Others are robotic. They could not give a shit what I look like. And again others, they are complete professionals. They provide excellent service although I sense its scripted. I ask if they appreciate a guy that's fit and well groomed and they say, "I don't care. I'm here to serve and provide a service".

The way I see it shape and size are not important, clean and respectable is. I have met skinny men who were jerks, and big men who were nice. Originally Posted by Willow Breeze

I would assume being a gentlemen is a given. However, I know this not to be a fact.

You guys are in a really difficult position. Especially seeing a guy for the first time. I REALLY feel for you guys.

I truly do not know how you put up with the stress.

I've also heard these big muscle guys have an extremely small penis. So another thing for girls to consider. Originally Posted by Luke Skywalker

LMAO, I heard it was small hands - small penis. Or was it small feet - small penis.

Sounds like somebody might be jealous of those who have muscles. ;-)

LMAO, I heard it was small hands - small penis. Or was it small feet - small penis.

Sounds like somebody might be jealous of those who have muscles. ;-) Originally Posted by Muscleup

Actually, no. But i do get jeaulous of tiny guys.

For me it's Cleanliness and friendliness.... let's face it most of us are not perfect tens