Relationships Beyond The Hobby

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Be fascinating to see what correlation there is between responses in this thread to responses in the Off the Clock thread.
Sure I've had relationships beyond the hobby, but all I seem to find is guys can't handle this aspect of my life, so it doesn't work out...
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Sure I've had relationships beyond the hobby, but all I seem to find is guys can't handle this aspect of my life, so it doesn't work out... Originally Posted by Valerie
I could see why they can't handle it. Were they allowed to sleep with random women?

sixx
I could see why they can't handle it. Were they allowed to sleep with random women?

sixx Originally Posted by sixxbach
Sure, if they were getting money for it
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Sure, if they were getting money for it Originally Posted by Valerie
OMG! Classic! I agree!

You have to forgive my hobby hubby, Sixxbach. Sometimes I wonder what the hell he's thinking.

I could see why they can't handle it. Were they allowed to sleep with random women?

sixx Originally Posted by sixxbach
We talked about this the other day. This is sooo not you. LMAO!
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I tried to have a relationship with a civie while hobbying. I ended it. It didn't go well at all .
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OMG! Classic!

You have to forgive my hobby hubby, Sixxbach. Sometimes I wonder what the hell he's thinking.



We talked about this the other day. This is sooo not you. LMAO! Originally Posted by Naomi4u
I thought that was "our" secret??!!!

sixx
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I thought that was "our" secret??!!!

sixx Originally Posted by sixxbach

I guess I'm not used to the bad boy act .

To stay on topic: Sixx, would you marry a provider?
Has anyone ever pursued or had a relationship that developed in the hobby? Did it work out?

http://alexthereluctantescort.com/20...of-disaster-2/ Originally Posted by Alex Lieberman
Twice and both were disasters of ugly proportions. Won't do that again, not worth the problems.

Sure I've had relationships beyond the hobby, but all I seem to find is guys can't handle this aspect of my life, so it doesn't work out... Originally Posted by Valerie

Interesting... I always found it was the women that had that hang-up. I know one of the ones I was involved with could not handle me being with anyone besides her all the while she insisted on being a provider. LOL! Of course, she never did figure out why I walked away from her.
Yes I have and this relationship is unfolding now, we been seeing each other for 10 months now, I do love him but until I have a ring on my finger I am not quitting this hobby.
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Yes I have and this relationship is unfolding now, we been seeing each other for 10 months now, I do love him but until I have a ring on my finger I am not quitting this hobby. Originally Posted by CarlaBrazil
I tried to have a relationship with a civie while hobbying. I ended it. It didn't go well at all . Originally Posted by Naomi4u
Sure I've had relationships beyond the hobby, but all I seem to find is guys can't handle this aspect of my life, so it doesn't work out... Originally Posted by Valerie
Has anyone ever pursued or had a relationship that developed in the hobby? Did it work out?

http://alexthereluctantescort.com/20...of-disaster-2/ Originally Posted by Alex Lieberman
Yes, twice: One worked out great , the other one had a bad ending. ANd i have numerous friends i encountered due to the hobby. In fact i have met several friends /female and male that developed in the hobby. With some i chat almost every day. I think its natural. The drawback is if you get abused for free or something. ANd not respected well enough. Originally Posted by ninasastri
Yes, it lasted a little over a year. We ended things on good terms and remain friends. I was not in the hobby during that time. Originally Posted by RGVGFE
I hate the term "hobby" to begin with...

...but...for the ladies this isn't a hobby, it is a profession.....
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I hate the term "hobby" to begin with...

...but...for the ladies this isn't a hobby, it is a profession..... Originally Posted by atlcomedy
You are telling us something we already know. We never said it was "our" hobby. We referred to it as "the hobby". We know it is "our" profession. Whether you like the term or not people are still going to say "The hobby". Just sayin'
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The one I was in was non-monogamous; we each could sleep with other people whether or not money was involved.
Once several years ago. It actually lasted quite a while. I always say never again...but, the human emotion is a powerful thing. I wouldn't be opposed to trying again given the right circumstances.
If you read my blog you will see that from my experience it simply can't work. Once a man sees you as a prostitute he will always see you that way..... and that truth will eventually rear it's ugly head...no pun intended.