Hobbying part-time/occasionally ain’t easy!

I predicted this a few years ago that sugaring would impact the hobby.
Some disagreed.

I still believe this.
I rarely hobby simply because of the value I get with some amazing SB's Originally Posted by BigDeal

I have to agree. Though I see it as a facet of the hobby. The girls do the same things & want about the same money. The difference is they don't ask for references, there are new ones literally everyday, they are low volume, they visit you and give you twice to triple the time.

I have to agree. Though I see it as a facet of the hobby. The girls do the same things & want about the same money. The difference is they don't ask for references, there are new ones literally everyday, they are low volume, they visit you and give you twice to triple the time. Originally Posted by TailHooked

I really should try this route out, but I’ve been a bit intimidated on learning to navigate a whole new approach.

I really should try this route out, but I’ve been a bit intimidated on learning to navigate a whole new approach. Originally Posted by Stringtheory8

Ok take Seeking Arrangements for example. Now it will cost you $109.00 to message the girls or for you to read their messages to you. You can set up a free account to window shop but that is it. You don't have to use a photo and the site doesn't do a check on you.If you have been on the site a bit and then stop for a few weeks, they will offer a 20% discount. Some times of the year they offer 25% discounts. Like Valentine's Day and a couple of others.

You can filter out just about anything to narrow down your search. Just keep in mind that there are girls who only want to sell content, some won't message back, others will say if your looking for a escort keep going, ones who use fake photos off the internet. Pim Eyes is a $30 a month service to help you with that. If the photo she has is on the internet, it will find every site. There are also girls who think they can do this but chicken out at the last minute. Which means you have a room all to yourself. Almost all sugar babies make you host. A lot don't have protection with them and don't care. So bring your own. Plus you can be out in public with a lot of them. Some will want too much money and expect it weekly. I have had sugar babies spend the night after a few dates, for the same price as a date.

So if anyone else has any more advice, chip in now.

I have total, 1 19yo and 28yo and a 49 yo.
And just about to add a new 19yo server to the mix.
See them weekly invest 250 and 400ppm and they are happy and they stay the night for an 8 hr romp.
Anything on the table with msog..
Cant beat that...so yeah love me some sugar

String,
It's the same as talking to any gal, Pro, SB, Civie, etc.
Just talk to them, without tripping over yourself.
I've even picked up a couple bartenders.
And yes BD was correct about SBs.
I'll add that the SB thing also cut into the amount of gals applying to dance at a club.
Nowadays, I think that the SB situation is now inherent in the hobby world.

Correct me if I am wrong, I think those that advertise as massage and give out their addresses, would be easier to access, and then use them as references.

Correct me if I am wrong, I think those that advertise as massage and give out their addresses, would be easier to access, and then use them as references. Originally Posted by Canuckdude

Actually, that is very inaccurate. At least if you do not want to get somebody who's potentially going to put you in a compromising position. There should be another list I guess and I suppose of people who are newbie friendly who are very reputable and safe. Shall we do that for the crew of newbies or l u r k e r s?

Lol thank God. Who the fuck gives out their address to new people???? Shit most of my regulars that have known me for years don't know where I live. Love you Ms. Moon. This is exactly what I've been saying. These men don't seem to understand the risks we take just showing up. So that girl from p411 that didn't show, maybe she got a weird feeling in her stomach and decided to listen to it. We absolutely have a right to deny services. Just like every other business. Lurkers was perfectly worded

I have total, 1 19yo and 28yo and a 49 yo.
And just about to add a new 19yo server to the mix.
See them weekly invest 250 and 400ppm and they are happy and they stay the night for an 8 hr romp.
Anything on the table with msog..
Cant beat that...so yeah love me some sugar Originally Posted by BigDeal

That does sound like a nice arrangement, but due to life’s time constraints, I’m not in a position to commit to anything like that.

I just want to be able to enjoy some extracurricular activities every once in a while, when I feel like it. Meet up with a lady, we both get what we’re looking for, and that’s that. Not really able nor interested in keeping a regular schedule in this hobby, lol.

Tailhooked, BD, UC- thanks for the input/info, I’ve been dancing around it a bit, but I think the SA is more the intimidating part than arranging something with someone I already have met or someone in the real world. Figuring out how to navigate that site in terms of how to find good options/eliminate bad ones seems daunting since I’ve spent zero time on it thus far lol…

I know there is the thread in the national forum, so I’ve been reading, but I lurked around here for ages before I joined/became super active/had any level of confidence with traditional providers. I’m trying to get info from wherever I can on this to get up to speed now though.

.3mm difference, close enough for government work for a 21 year old with virtually zero knowledge of Soviet weapons other than what an AK looked and sounded like!

Charlie, Fidel's minions, Saddam's minions and Osama's minions all shoot 12.7 x 108 mm, among others. Originally Posted by hazmat

More scammers and con artists . . . you are one for understatement!!!

the hobby has gotten out of hand in recent years full or part time!

there seems to be more scammers and con artists these days.
less known and reliable gals in the pool.

several wolves in sheep's clothing on this board alone snakes that walk upright if you will!i Originally Posted by satan666

BD totally gets it! I myself, have an SB arrangement that absolutely works for me! She's younger than me, but close enough to my age that we have alot of the same interests. She is nothing like the many working girls out there we have to choose from. I really do feel like I'm having more of an affair rather than a simple "role in the sack" kind of experience. Plus...the sex just gets better and better. I'm totally about the SB arrangement over this f'ed up maze we try to navigate as hobbyists.

Lol thank God. Who the fuck gives out their address to new people???? Shit most of my regulars that have known me for years don't know where I live. Love you Ms. Moon. This is exactly what I've been saying. These men don't seem to understand the risks we take just showing up. So that girl from p411 that didn't show, maybe she got a weird feeling in her stomach and decided to listen to it. We absolutely have a right to deny services. Just like every other business. Lurkers was perfectly worded Originally Posted by Nikkilove91

You understand the game very well. Good comments.
"... maybe she got a weird feeling in her stomach and decided to listen to it. " That statement applys to everyone. The problem with trying to meet a lady today is that a lot of them seem to only accept a text message to set up the date. I want to be able to talk to someone before I meet them: there is a lot one can learn from hearing the other person talk. If you get a weird feeling from hearing the conversation, you are not obligated to see the person. A thug, will usually sound like a thug.

There are still some of us who are newbie friendly, trustworthy, reliable and provide quality service. Come find us