Things we have to go through

Ok I'll be straight up. When you slang pussy expect for everything and anything to be asked of you. If you're surprised or offended well perhaps this may not be for you. Because someone asks doesn't mean you have to give in. A simple delete works better than carrying over your shock or disbelief for days. Originally Posted by Mojojo

This. Grow a thick skin or GTFO. Seriously. I've been asked for things that my brain just can't quite comprehend. Its simple to just say no and move along. No need for the OMGS drama.

Exactly!

I bet this thread has the same effect. Even if you weren't banned, guys are going to figure out pretty quickly not to ask you for BBFS. And you didn't have to fork over dough to a pimp to take care of the matter.

I'm kinda surprised more women don't post threads titled "[hobbyist handle] asked me for bbfs", then describe the circumstances in their post without quoting actual private communications. I don't think that breaks board rules, and may actually be more effective since they get to see the accusation on the first page of the Coed Forum for awhile. Originally Posted by TinMan

Doesn't surprise me they don't post stuff like that. A lot the Providers have more class and discretion than some guys here. Just an observation from being a member here for five years. That, and a post like Lily's causes more harm than good for them. If she had posted it without breaking the rules, she still would have been viewed by some guys as a whiner, unfortunately.

They do have private area to post this stuff. Hopefully the ones who want to let their sisters know about stuff like this use those forums instead of here.

And anyone want to bet that the guy gets contacted by several of women who offer bbfs?

Darn.
Gone.
She was cute too.

Ok I'll be straight up. When you slang pussy expect for everything and anything to be asked of you. If you're surprised or offended well perhaps this may not be for you. Because someone asks doesn't mean you have to give in. A simple delete works better than carrying over your shock or disbelief for days. Originally Posted by Mojojo

Amen.

Ok I am a Johnny come lately but it seems that Lily Blake got offended that someone asked her about BBFS right? So there was 2 replies Yes or NO- I don't understand why she went Bat Crazy- yeah it might have offended her, but couldn't she just told him to fuck off and block him?
I agree with what MOJO said that in this business if it offends you that I guy ask a provider for BBFS than she may need to re- think- not much different when providers hit up guys and asking for a "loan" to handle personal business.
Lily is a cool lady just don't think she needed to blow up in that manner- now I could understand if she was having a session with the guy and he removed the condom to attempt BBFS without her knowledge, but if he asked the question just answer Yes or No and move on.

Frankly, I'd be ok if guys started posting in Coed if a woman they don't know contacted them for a loan. I'll make sure to do it myself the first time it happens to me.

A little rant in that case might be justified, too.

I'm sad to see Lily go.. She's a pretty girl & usually handles herself well around here & has been a classy lady up until this incident, IMO. Everybody has a bad day... She just def went about it the wrong way but I totally understand the frustration when it comes to clients constantly asking for services we don't offer. Hopefully it's just a short ban & Lily will come back on her best behavior

Ba bam and just like that folks. Originally Posted by Tara Evans

Tara do you have words of wisdom for the poor girl?

Tara do you have words of wisdom for the poor girl? Originally Posted by txexetoo

she'll be back.... around easter

Tara do you have words of wisdom for the poor girl? Originally Posted by txexetoo

Hang in there babe. Any press is good press. And txexetoo im still thinking about seeing you again just not sure about it. But I do appreciate all the sweet pms you have sent.

she'll be back.... around easter Originally Posted by Tony Gambino

I bet sooner.

This. Grow a thick skin or GTFO. Seriously. I've been asked for things that my brain just can't quite comprehend. Its simple to just say no and move along. No need for the OMGS drama. Originally Posted by GracePreston

I said fried chicken, not a live chicken...

Frankly, I'd be ok if guys started posting in Coed if a woman they don't know contacted them for a loan. .... Originally Posted by TinMan

You wouldn't loan them the money? You heartless bastard!